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If someone is going to assault someone else in the bathroom they're going to do it when there's no witnesses. At that point it's not going to matter if said person looks like a man or a woman, so a man looking to assault someone in a woman's room isn't going to dress as a woman to get away with it. Also absolute fucking nonsense to act like biological women are safe to be around. It does a huge disservice to female victims of female assailants to pretend that biological women haven't attacked other biological women in public bathrooms. I don't feel any fucking safer around them than I do around biological men.
So if one woman attacks another woman (usually not very dangerous as we don't have the same strength as men to begin with, or usually aim to murder when attacking), that is the same as a hundred men attacking women? What about a thousand? Your statements are not based in reality.
I'm pretty sure women who have been attacked by women would also not like to be attacked by a man. Fact remains these are always two very different circumstances. Men attacking women is nearly always a hate crime. He attacks a woman because he hates us. Because he thinks we deserve it for merely existing. Women don't go around en masse committing such crimes. Maybe in your imagination world, where women and men commit violent crimes at the same rate? If anything is nonsense that is.
You not "feeling safe" around women is pretty irrelevant as fact remains you ARE safer among women. And ESPECIALLY in a place where there aren't security cameras, or places where you undress.
Also this completely disgusting mind gymnastics of "it's gonna happen anyway so may as well facilitate it"? Should we be giving guns to people who want to shoot someone? No? Just free access to women, to men who want to assault, film, ogle or even rape women.
#anon#radfem#radical feminism#the logic isn't logicing lol#misogyny#they're gonna assault women anyway so anon thinks we should make it easier#whats most important is that the rapists have free access to womens bathrooms and changing rooms!#our safety be damned!#all that matters is that anon is scared of women!#lol#patriarchy did a number on you huh
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genuinely fucking furious about reactions to Mcbride, especially seeing this shit coming from fellow trans ppl…. like have you lost the fucking plot????
#🧿#like u do realize we are damned if we do/damned if we don’t w regards to cis ppl passing laws on our bodies#like if she pushed back can u realize how that would feed into the narrative of 'trans ppl invading womens spaces' and just inflame shit#more???#WHY ARE YOU MORE OUTRAGED W A TRANS PERSON MAKING PERSONAL DECISIONS ABOUT THEIR SAFETY THAN THE CIS PPL MAKING THESE RULES IN THE FIRST PLA#E????????#they all have private bathrooms anyway like this is just more cis bullying & y‘all continue to blame trans ppl for it#the bar is so fucking low and yet i‘m still fucking disappointed
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"I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it"
-Evelyn Beatrice Hall, The Friends of Voltaire
The first amendment allows us to say what we want, whenever we want, without our government punishing us for our words. KOSA, therefore, is violating our first amendment rights. It's mass censorship of the internet, and our right to freedom of speech is being suppressed BY THE GOVERNMENT. Our founding fathers created this as THE FIRST AMENDMENT, and clearly thought this was important. Oh, wouldn't they be disappointed to see what their descendants are doing now. KOSA, a mass censorship bill that will contradict our constitution as we know it. KOSA, which instead of protecting the kids is in fact putting them in harms way. KOSA, which will put so so many people in danger. And we can stop it, but we have to fight. We MUST fight
To hear one voice clearly, we must have the freedom to hear them all
#kosa#stop kosa#fuck kosa#anti kosa#internet censorship#internet freedom#censorship#censorship bill#first amendment#freedom of speech#kids online safety act#kids online safety bill#bear rambles#this is so important. We HAVE to fight for our right of free speech#We MUST.#We can't allow the government to take away our rights.#and this whole post is based on my knowledge that I've accumulated. It may not he entirely accurate but it's pretty damn close
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i have got to google shit. this sucks.
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BABE WAKE UP NEW LOW JUST DROPPED.
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#India is in shambles rn#The most depressing realities of current times:#a student doctor was gang-raped and killed inside a hospital and the govt and police and the hospital authorities worked together#to destroy evidence and cover up the crime as a suicide and called the doctor *psychotic*. They asked *what was she doing so late?*#rape occurs every 16 mins in our country#every girl and woman I know including myself are TERRIFIED#every damn day there are brutal cases of rapes of children. Literal 3 year olds. To students teenagers.#in school in home in public transport in a hospital#And what is our govt. doing? Making this into a politicized mess blaming each other instead of ANYONE fixing ANY problem#our streets are strewn with public protests EVERYDAY#women don't have the right to safety in our country#WE ARE TERRIFIED TO EXIST#BCZ NO MATTER WHAT- OUR BODIES AND VOICES AND POSITIONS ARE PROVOKING TO MEN.#AND NOW THIS#I don't even NEED to talk about the education system of our country anymore bcz you can clearly see the news heading.#Our future is doomed. Our safety is doomed. Our lives are doomed.#But sure yeah India has great street food and amazing movies 👍🏽#We're utterly exhausted#India#Desi tag#moumita debnath#tw murder#tw r4p3#tw r4p3 mention#tw sui mention#tw sui#tw child death#tw child abuse#tw csa#desiblr
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So, I haven't been watching CritRole, but I still get and read the newsletters occasionally and the moment I just had amused me.
Newsletter: We made it to the moon! Me: You what?
#critical role#critrole spoilers#i don't know if that counts as a spoiler#i think we had our week of candela obscura in the middle#and it's the damn title of the newsletter#but still#safety first
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I'd like to meet the creator of mini blinds. I just wanna talk!
#easy to install is subjective and anytime i have to deal with these stupid things i get so damned mad#when we owned our house we didnt have any blinds. not a one. they break. they are a safety hazard for pets and children#they are a pain in the ass to clean. they are ugly! THEY ARE UGLY AND BORING#there is an entire world of textiles and im being forced to put plastic nightmares up#bc the landlord doesnt like any deviation from their bland hoa aesthetic#but wont fix the broken siding on the side of the house. but my blinds are a problem???#the witch speaks#i want to own again so bad. but ive pretty much made peace with the fact that will never happen. sigh
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#I do this thing where I keep comparing myself and my life to other people my age who live like ‘normal lives’ where they live with just#their partner and work decent-ish paying jobs#and don’t live near family/have large family obligations#like I make slightly more than minimum wage#my health stuff had been getting worse#my fiancé is disabled/chronically ill and working her ass off so she doesn’t have excess energy#which leaves a lot of house work on me#which is fine and I don’t mind#and our household is me my fiancé my 23 yo sister and we’ve all lived together for like 3 years now and my sister makes a lot more money &#helps with house stuff#/maintenance#but my younger sister and her 9 month old moved in at the beginning of summer because her baby daddy is a scum bag#and she’s 20 and really mentally unwell#so a lot of baby care falls on me & my fiancé#along with trying to help my sister with her mental health#which is like not normal levels of unwell it’s like serious shit and she’s completely unmedicated and going through a real hard time and not#adjusting to motherhood well cause she was 19 and shouldn’t have had a baby#and like she knows that but what’s done is done#she can’t move back in with my parents because her relationship with them is too fucked#and like there’s also complicated stuff safety and bad ppl in her life so that’s a stress inducing factor#she’s unemployed and I’m not sure will ever be able to work and can’t drive#not her fault just the reality we live in#also we’re the ppl who live closest to my grandmother who’s health has been rapidly declining so a lot of that has fallen on my other sister#and me to manage#I also have to pet sit a lot because I need the money#and when I come home I have to spend all my time getting the house back in order#also I’m about to be losing a days worth of pay starting September cause the kids I nanny are doing two half days a week of prek#which means less money & with these grocery bills and two more mouths to feed is gonna fuck me in the ass#so like yeah I don’t have the time or energy for hobbies I spend all my damn free time trying to keep the house clean or taking care of#The baby & like it’s just the way it is but it’s not comprable to how all the ppl I knew in highschool r living rn
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Where's the line drawn between being a student and being a worker? cause currently I feel more like an unpaid worker but I have a horrible feeling any complaint would be left with "Its experience"
Rant in tags sorry I just need to complain
#9 to 5#came in on a Saturday#am getting no support on what I'm doing#just getting told stuff#and shouted at#had to practically beg for a 5 minute break the other day#got pushed to go up the tallescope again and again even tho it was sweltering heat and i needed to stop and get a drink#my teacher ignored safety regulations when i was rigging lights by pulling the pully system too fast with the light on it#which made the rope swing out of control and catch my fingers in the mechanism#he then blamed me#he also had a go at my friends for not getting the work done quick enough when its a two man job we'd paired up to do...#and i had passed out aftee cutting myself and bleeding everywhere for a good 20 minutes without him noticing#the first aid kit took ages to get to me as well as all the rooms were locked cause it was a Saturday#and my parents keep telling me not to have a go and get myself in trouble when hes supposed to be our stage manager and isnt doing anything!#im not even on this damn show cause I'm doing my own in my spare time on top of this right now. which he knows
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i came home, panicked about one thing, and my toilet was leaking. bathroom floor is covered in water and brown particles. oddly, this has not improved my mood
#i just want to be a child again. i understand being a child was also miserable I am not glorifying my childhood#i was in pain and sad and lonely#BUT I WAS SAFE AND CARED FOR AND I NEVER QUESTIONED THAT no matter how much pain I was in#what I wouldn’t give for everything to hurt because I was so overstimulated by school and being bullied#being a kid had such clear cause and effect. being an adult is just…I am guilty and I want to cry everytime I think about the fact that I’m#here. i miss something that never existed and I’m the only one who is trying to remember a person who never existed but is important to me#(cause it’s me—I’m the only one who cares about preserving my childhood. my parents don’t give a damn. they were so busy surviving they#don’t remember it or care either)#why the fuck am I getting emails about a pizza party we didn’t ask for were an actual club now we don’t need your planned events fuck off#the way I was about to brag about our club name by just name dropping my school which would then make it so easy to find me holy shit my#internet safety is getting lax 🙈#boom’s bad days#omg I just got reccommended ‘boom blogs high’ what if I got high I would feel so much better#i keep just coping sober cause like. not relying on substances. but I don’t actually have skills rn to improve my issues so like. substances#are more helpful tbh 🙈
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tfw a homeless guy moves into the narrow staircase leading to your flat entrance. very reassuring not at all alarming
#p#i’m so sick of these landlords#fix the damn gate 😭😭#not even suprised random ppl are vandalizing the entrance area and now Living In Our Staircase#BRCAUSE THE GATE IS WIDE OPEN!!!!!!!!!!#this is like a week after we had our tv stolen Girl . this isnt even a disruptive or dodgy area this is just#the landlords not giving a single fuck about their properties abd our safety 😐😐😐😐#and its like !!!!! no one wants to call the cops on the guy in the staircase but he is there Now and passed out cold and we’re like fuck#we’ll have to get an ambulance at least 😭😭😭😭#i hate it here
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when your bestie for life but also former co-worker tells you the former work tea and you just
#* &. ooc.#for context i used to work at a DV shelter#STRICTLY for DV women#there was a time they decided to let any woman in basically#like SEVERE MH but WITHOUT DV#stuff that we were not AT ALL equipped to deal with or handle#nor was it safe to us as staff or the clients in shelter#nor was it fair to the women who ACTUALLY needed our services but couldn't access because management decided#to let these aggressive borderline abusers themselves stay in shelter for 3+ months#anyway we had a do not access book where aggressive clients go after departing so future staff know not to let them back in as safety risk#low and behold my bestie just told me they let ONE OF THE WORST ONES in that book back in#i dont even work there anymore and im stressed FOR my bestie and another one of my former co-workers who is a sweet 73 year old lady#but that woman literally had like 5 pages dedicated to everything she did while in shelter#it just shows me that they STILL dont give a damn about staff safety especially nights#they still have people working nights alone#dealing with someone like that who was a CONSTANT TERROR to night staff specifically#omg i can't even right now guys i swear
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#(( ooc. ))#venting tw#negativity tw#in a prime example of damned if you do damned if you don't.... its been heavy snowing for the past couple days.#no one else has shoveled. neither our deck / sidewalk or our elderly neighbors.#i just did it. bc we got like 8 inches of the heavy wet stuff. it was bad enough i could barely push the front door open.#so i shoveled our deck and walk. and then i went over and shoveled our neighbor's. bc it needed to be done. its a safety risk otherwise.#and once i got back inside husband yelled at me 'WHAT THE ACTUAL SHIT? YOU SHOVELED??'#bc i strained my back a couple days ago. but nobody else was doing it. and it needed to get done.#and the passive aggressive remarks were starting up from mil about the amount of snow building up#so... to recap. i hurt. and i shoveled. bc no one else was going to.#and now husband is pissed at me for shoveling. even tho he wasnt going to. and his mom was getting pissed bc it wasnt getting done.#another prime example also of how im the one making everything work around here...
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As a car driver, i think we need to take cars away from everyone and start over completely from scratch
#someone cut off three lanes of traffic to drive onto rhe sidewalk and AROUND the queue INTO the intersection with a red light#they HAD to take their turn. rules of the road and polite society be damned#so three of us blared our horns at them the whole time#if you wanna hit cars and pedestrians at 6 am then all of florida will know where the biggest jackass is#hes right here.#people srop seeing cars as MACHINERY and as just. ways to get where you need to go. health and safety be damned. its BUCK WILD.
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I’m not gonna name any names, and not to sound mean but uh,
If you’re a minor and I block you because you’re a minor, just a word of advice:
If you’re gonna create a brand new account and lie about your age just to follow me,
Make sure you don’t use the exact same format and wording in your description while just changing the age, follow different people than the ones on your other blog, and like different things instead of liking stuff from the fandom your other blog predominantly posted about,
And don’t follow me from this new blog not even 24 hours after I blocked you originally
You aren’t as slick as you think you are.
Thank you for understanding
#sorry to sound kinda like a bitch#but… yeah#I don’t know you internet teen#and obviously I can’t 100% prove nothing without a pc#but its… almost painfully obvious#if it really is just a coincidence#then hot damn is it a close one#zed.talks#like i get teens do dumb stuff#but its not just for your safety#its for ours too#psa
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something something some yakuza antagonists ideals are completely valid and if they just went about them a different way the whole situation wouldnt have been life or death something something. something something i will agree with an antag (nishiki WHO SAID THAT) more if their reasoning behind what theyre doing is solid enough (yeah girl be mentally ill i support you i'll get you help too) something something
this goes for outside of yakuza too idk why im adding it but like. personally i love antags more than the protags because 1 more interesting 2 bro 99% of the time theyre just so mentally unwell if they had help as a child or just someone by their side supporting them enough in life they wouldnt be doing any of that shit 3 half the time theyre just. right. about the status of things? and i got that autistic sense of justice behind me so i automatically side with them like they go about it the wrong way but theyre right my bad 4 not all antags are evil even theyre literally there because the protaganist needs a foil the whole light needs dark dark needs light thing blah blah 5 theyre bad bitches i cant deny a bad bitch their non-heroic deeds.
i need to type up another slideshow about the intricacies of characters and why so and so did what they did or why so and so shouldnt be faulted for their ideals. god i love writing about characterization i love writing i need to write of course people can dislike "bad guys" theyre written to be disliked because of the perspective you see them from but i love being like oooh hoo hoo you are a hidden gem you are a diamond in the rough damn ya ass fat whats ya trauma? oh god this is long uhm. yeah :]
anon you're spitting but im too drunk to make a good response just know im nodding and listening and agreeing
#snap chats#i stand by that aoki's only flaw was that he was a republican#but Real i get you i usually like antags more than the protags#or i at least gush about them more#maybe its a psychological issue where i see bits of myself in them and can ergo relate#cough cough masato cough cough mine sorry who said that#moreover antags are just funnier. i can excuse 90% of crimes if you're funny#like antags are fun because they're like. they're like if we listened to every intrusive thought we had#like 'damn thatd be fucked if we did that let's watch this guy do it from the safety of our couch'#tho tbh anon ily but i feel like youre tping this mostly from a nishiki lens#cause what nishiki did is probably the easiest to justify from our antags ??#i mean ryuji was just fucking around tbh. his motives are funny#but mine wanting to kill a man he loves because he sees his life as useless now is p twisted#and i dont have to explain aoki we know. like there's no justifying those two's actions#there's reasoning but it's harder to justify them compared to akira 'everything went wrong so i became stronger' nishikiyama#he's the most sympathetic villain out of the batch My Drunk Brin Is Telling Me#idk where im going with this ramble anymore point is Ask Good
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