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[letters-to-lgbt-kids]

(TW: Sex - educational context) 

My dear lgbt+ kids, 

This was a requested topic: let’s talk about HIV risk and oral sex. 

First things first: It’s not considered completely risk-free, but the risk of getting HIV from receiving or giving oral sex is considered low. 

Now, in some more detail: 

Giving oral sex may be a bit riskier than receiving. This is because of the potential contact with your partners bodily fluids (vaginal fluids, menstrual blood or semen), and also because you may have small cuts or sores in your mouth without even being aware of them) but both giving and receiving oral sex is still lower risk than vaginal or anal sex. 

Mouth-to-penis sex is thought to be riskier than mouth-to-vagina sex. 

Mouth-to-anus sex is also considered low-risk. 

Something that is important to consider is that many people have oral sex AND vaginal/anal sex in the same session, which may make it harder in retrospect to say during which sexual activity exactly an infection occurred. 

While oral sex is a lower risk in general, your personal risk may be higher. For example if: 

you have sores or small cuts on/in your mouth or genitals 

you have bleeding gums

there’s menstrual blood present 

you have another STD 

As with any sexual activity, it goes here too: You can reduce the risk by practicing safer sex! For oral sex that means using a condom (penis) or dental dam (vagina or anus). You can also cut a condom length-wise and use it as a dental dam. Use a new one every time you have sex (and also if you switch from oral to vaginal or anal sex, or the other way around, during the same session).

A condom or dental dam will also lower the risk of other STDs (such as chlamydia or herpes) and infections (such as hepatitis, which you can get from mouth-to-anus sex). 

If you both have a negative HIV test, and you both do not have other STDs and neither of you has sex with other people, it’s generally considered safe to not use condoms or dental dams. But if you are not 100% sure, it’s always better to err on the side of caution and use one. 

The same goes for testing: if you recently had oral sex and you worry you were potentially exposed to HIV during it, you probably don’t need to freak out since it’s a lower risk - but for your own peace of mind, it’s still a good idea to talk to a doctor about getting tested. (If you don’t feel comfortable going to your regular doctor or you worry about costs, there may be testing sites near you that offer free and confidential tests. For example in community health centers, pharmacies or mobile clinics. Look it up online! You may also be able to buy a self-testing kit online.) Keep in mind that HIV isn’t an automatic death sentence anymore if it gets diagnosed and treated early on! 

With all my love, 

Your Tumblr Dad 

[axelsagewrites]

Modern HOTD NSFW Headcannons

Contains: Jace, Daemon, Aegon, Aemond

Word count: 606

Warnings: smut 18+

Masterlist Here

Jace

Doesn’t understand hook-up culture

Blushes like a virgin at his crush/partner making sex jokes in public

Type of guy to get a towel to sit beside the bed before starting for easy clean up later

Also has tissues and water on the bedside for after

Gets turned on by people wearing his clothes

Got worried when you asked for lube but quickly learned he didn’t need to be

Proceeds to buy 5 bottles of different flavours

Would buy flavoured condoms

Has lived with so many people he’s learned to be quiet

Goes on hikes just to fuck in the forest cause to him that’s privacy

Irl dirty talk can be hard for him but on the phone?

Mastermind at making you squirm from across the country

Got very scared by kinks at first

Now a fiend

Constantly googling aftercare tips and how to dirty talk

Watches those youtube videos about how to kiss

Whenever he’s drunk he’s a proud horn dog

Brags about giving oral

Aftercare king

Daemon

Has a designated kink drawer

Possibly a straight up sex room

Organises his ropes by colour and preference

When he sexy talks irl its amazing

On the phone its great

He cannot dirty text

He uses way too many emojis or his promises don’t work without the voice

He has mastered the voice

Each gift giving occasion is accompanied by him buying you new lingerie

Every birthday he asked for the same thing: sex

Defiantly talks in online kink forums

Goes to poly clubs and swingers parties

Teaches everyone who listens about poly lifestyle

Under his sex toy drawer is a after care drawer

Tinder fanatic

Gets an STD text every other month

Is on a first name basis with a testing clinic

Considered being a porn star

Aegon

Condom king

Hands them out at every party he goes to

Constantly preaching about safe sex since sex is his favourite hobby

Tider is his most used app

Will fuck in the library, his brothers bed, or in a car

Car sex is his favourite

Blow job fanatic

Did a blow job shot for his bday with his whole family watching cause he doesn’t care

Too lazy for most kinks but knows how to find the clit

Loves ball play

Constant ball jokes however

Secret bottom who will have a meltdown when you call him one

Definitely keeps himself very trimmed down there

Makes everything an inuendo

A proud whore

Nude fanatic

His snapchat my eyes only is filled to the brim

Ends up in a poly relationship for like a year but eventually bows out of it

Aemond

Too deep for tinder but not for random hook-ups

Also not for only fans

Because he has one and is making bank off of it

Was ashamed at first till he used the money to buy a car

Wants to make enough to be a sugar daddy

Daddy kink 100%

Has a sex toy drawer and wide lube range

Takes cinematic level nudes

Still has a small stash of porn mags since he prefers it that way

Best gift for him is making a sex tape with his partner

Seriously considering becoming a striper on the side

Has a couple of fuck buddies on rotation rather than a new person every week

Has a mini fridge stocked with water by his bed to cool down after

Constantly researching new kinks

Has a spit kink

Runs his own nsfw reddit sub reddit

Makes thirst traps on tiktok

Asked his family for a hot tub for his joint birthday and Christmas gift just to fuck in it

[bonny-kookoo]

Jungkook: Clingy 🔞 [Part 3]

In which he catches himself I'm behavior he didn't even know he was still capable of.

Tags/Warnings: Hybrid AU, Wolf hybrid!Jungkook, Otter hybrid!Reader, Angst, strangers to ???

Additional Chapter Warnings: Smut², messy sex² (but he puts a towel down), size difference (mentioned), size/strength kink? manhandling, Subspace, Soft-Dom!Jungkook, Hybrid heat sex, Angst, more intense aftercare, biting, slight hair pulling, protected sex because your first name is still not AGU to add the STD

-> Masterlist

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He wakes up to you clinging onto him.

You've both taken a nap after he had at least managed to get some cereal and a bottle of water into you, but right now, he knows the next wave of your fever has started again. If he looks at your behavior and body language, he'd say you're in the deepest phase now - completely oblivious to anything that might've held you back until now. You'd always seemed to keep his boundaries in mind, having remembered his limits, and it had impressed him in a way he can't quite describe properly.

But he also can't deny that he had gotten confused with himself as well.

Domestic things aren't his personal liking. He doesn't like gestures like that, as they had become completely meaningless over the course of the years- shattering his innocent dreams of love and pure affection after realizing that nothing was ever done without intentions. He's become to hate romance in general at this point - annoyed at valentines Day or other people's anniversary parties he'd get invited to.

He never actually shows up, always makes up excuses.

But as you grind your naked body against him, hands gripping the sheets and eyes closed in bliss, he can't help but imagine what it would be like to just stop and stare for a little bit. He'd already caught himself a few nights prior, offering to hold your hand after all - a gesture he's deemed childish and stupid until now, before he'd met you. You've talked, just a little, in between breaks- and while you don't seem to have many friends, you do seem to adore the one's you have with a pure and beautiful form of love.

It upsets him that he knows one day you'll regret being this kind.

But right now, he moves his focus on you again. As soon as you seem to notice his response to your actions, you turn around and straddle his waist, eyes hazy as you watch him move a bit to grab another condom from the bedside table, his gaze focused solely on your hands as they take it from him to put it on yourself.

And although he might not show it much on the outside, he's not been aroused from a simple sight like this in ages- if ever at all.

He doesn't even realize his hands running over the skin of your legs, starting at your ankles before his palms travel up to your thighs - his grip testing, for what he's not sure. He explores your body a bit more response from you clear as you proudly straighten your back at the way his fingers trace the curve of your sides, right before they move over to your chest, thumbs flicking your sensitive buds. The slight smile on his lips is genuine, out of his control, as he doesn't even notice himself slipping.

"Come on, hm?" He starts coaxing you, helping in leading the Impatient head of his cock into your entrance, before you sit down, palms flat on his stomach. Normally, he'd be used to it all, wouldn't be affected as much, but if anything, it's worse every time he gets to have you. His hands grip the soft skin on your hips, with more strength than he's done before, but you clearly don't mind, breathing picking up at the way he picks the pace you grind on him.

Impatient has never been a word to describe Jungkook- at least its not one that's used to describe his personality on the online business website. But as soon as he spots that hiss of pleasure from you when he accidentally leaves red imprints of his fingers on your skin, he's a goner.

Turning you over with a secure hand over your back, he eagerly continues his pace. Slower- but with more force, a growl heard underneath his breath as his head dips down to nose around the crook of your neck. If you weren't so flushed and filled with your heat, you would've definitely reminded him of his own limits set- but its futile, as his teeth already bite down on your shoulder.

It's not enough to mark, because he realizes what he's doing in the last second, and it makes him gripbyour wrists a bit tighter.

Why are you like this? Were you a sick joke by the company to test his patience? If yes, he's already failed miserably, professionalism fading with every moment he spends with you, it seems. It sets him off, frustrates him, but what frustrates him even more are the sounds of pleasure you emit as every nip of his teeth on your skin, every thrust of his hips.

Maybe if he can't see your face, he gains back his consciousness.

Wrong.

The moment you've turned around, happily presenting yourself to him even though he knows you said you usually don't like it let's him grip your hair for a moment, soft sigh the only response he gets. His hands maneuver you into a position he sees fit, front down in the pillows as you hold onto the sheets, entire body moving with every one of his thrusts. His inked hand traces the dip of your spine, gaining a shudder from you, hips jerking and giving him a mean little idea.

Not stopping his by now stuttering thrusts, his middle and ring finger start to mercilessly attack your sensitive pearl, making you growl into the pillows below, body moving erratically before your orgasm escapes you full force. It's a sight he won't ever forget, your juices staining his thighs before he notices his own knot forming.

Pulling out has never been harder for him.

But it's clear that you're equally as distressed, if not more- visibly reaching out to him underneath his body, turning over onto your back, heavy breathing accompanying the sight of your glistening skin. He hates it.

He hates that you're so fucking pretty.

"What is it?" He chuckles when you whine, small hands reaching for his now bare length, grabbing onto his hips however, attempting to pull him closer.

He knows what you want. It had been a mistake in the first place, but the last time he finished on your skin had seemed to bring you into a somewhat high almost. He shouldn't condone this at all, he knows that it will only lead to problems later-

But he still jerks himself to a finish on your stomach, an action you happily receive.

Thank God he'd put a towel down this time.

"Greedy little things." He chuckles when you move your hips around, even after just coming down from your high, not satisfied at all it seems. His inked hand finds your wet heat, his own chest flushed while his arm flexes under your gaze, fingers effortlessly working you to another orgasm. His digits don't reach as deep as his length does, but its fine for the moment-

Until he leans down, mouth wasting no time to eat you out like a man starved.

It forces sounds out of your mouth you've never thought you'd make - his hands, however roughly taking your wrists down from your face, leaving you unable to conceil any of your noises.

He wants, no, needs to hear it all.

He doesn't care about the obscene noises coming from his spot between your legs, growl underlining his words as he speaks lowly. "Dont you dare close your legs." He warns, and you shakily open them further, earning a him from him, an answer that signals his happiness at your action. "Good Girl."

Your hips jerk up a little once you cum, arousal clearly staining his face, but he doesn't mind at all.

Finally, you come down, his kitten licks too much as you whine in protest. He's amused, but also surprised at himself, having noticed his cock leaking onto the towel whatever he might've had left. Cunnilingus wasn't his personal favorite-

It's the first time he's actually gotten so aroused from it.

But right now, despite his usual routine of letting you calm down to clean yourself up later, he instead carries you to the shower, where he stays with you the entire time. He himself pacifies his thoughts by reminding himself that he's only making sure he doesn't get hurt after this whole ordeal - even though he's been through the worst, which is clear. "..you don't have to -" you even say, but he shakes his head, squirting some body wash onto your loofah.

"Its fine." He simply responds, though your pout shows him that you do not buy it.

"Why.. are your limits all just, non-sexual stuff?" You ask, and he raises a pierced eyebrow in amusement.

"Biting can very much be sexual." He reminds you, earning a roll of your eyes.

"You know what I mean.." you say. "I don't want to make you do something you don't want to.. like taking care of me right now." You remind him, and he thinks about it for a moment as well.

He runs the spongy item over your skin with care and catches himself, being a bit upset that you won't be carrying his scent as strongly anymore. You're right, in that usually, he's not comfortable with any of this. The close proximity, the domestic feeling aftercare, even this conversation - but it flows naturally in your presence. "I'm comfortable. Don't worry about me." He simply answers almost robotically- and it does indeed worry you.

He's such a nice guy, he really is, and after finding out some bits and pieces of his life, you just feel so much worse for him now. You don't mind his job at all. If it's what makes him happy, then you'd never judge that. But there's a feeling inside you, telling you that there's more to it than just 'I like my job'. He doesn't sound genuine when he says it. His eyes are always distant, as if he's not there.

Just like right now.

You turn around to take the loofah from him as soon as he's done, carefully inching your way forward as you attempt to return the gesture. He looks tense, way too tense, and you smile reassuringly up at him. "Saying no is always okay." You tell him gently, and his eyes widen a bit. "Would you like to have me help you?" You ask, pointing towards the loofah.

He shakes his head, parts his lips, lip ring glistening under the water - but you just smile, putting everything you hold to the side.

"Alright!" You say, no negative reaction to be found whatsoever. "I'll make the bed this time then!" You giggle, carefully stepping out the shower to dry off, leaving him under the streaming shower head all by himself.

His eyes glued to the pastel pink loofah, foam still all over it.

[gynandromorph]

I have had to run a gofundme for surgery and I have had to ask for help with vet bills so it's rather repulsive to see so many people saying that's why they never donate to gofundmes or people begging for help, only to reputable organizations etc. any LGBT organization would have never helped me get this surgery. You're used up and suddenly no longer vulnerable after you turn 25 to the vast majority of resources in this community outside of STD testing. Why help one person with a $10,000 need when you could use the same money to help 10 people with $1,000 needs or 500 people with $200 needs? This will always be the mentality of any charitable organization.

I didn't feel like posting a selfie for proof (I think I've posted a couple here or there in my server, but not publicly) bc my body image is in tatters (not due to surgery, which was more to get rid of the SENSATION of having tits on my body), but let's be honest, you could claim that's ai generated anyway. the only way I could even attempt to verify that I am a Real Person who Really Got My Tits Blown Clean Off is correspondence with the surgeon, which can be faked, and other people, online, who have met me in real life, who you could also effortlessly accuse of being puppets and just me on different accounts.

It's abundantly clear that some of these users have never had to be on the receiving end of this level of scrutiny before, and cannot grasp how unreasonable it is. It's doubt that is impossible to satisfy. The act of gaslighting makes this abundantly clear, people can and do pretend even witnessing something firsthand is not enough evidence because it can be faked.

[heich0e]

Liv you don’t have to answer this if you’re not comfortable with it but I was just wondering if you have any tips on how to have safe sex? I feel like those kinds of conversations are so overlooked in media and as a person who’s never been sexually active im kinda nervous and scared. I know having a condom it’s important but what else? Like, how to prevent infections or something like that… anyway yeah, sorry if that was an intrusive ask. I hope you have a nice day!

EDIT: i say this below the cut, but i want to add it here too i am not an expert i am just a person speaking from what i know and sharing what resources i can.

first of all please DON'T apologize!! this is such an important question/subject and i think it's very sweet you came to me with it, and i appreciate you trusting me to help!!

off the top of my head the three biggest things that came to mind were condoms (the big obvious one) but also ideally a backup birth control method if contraception is necessary, making sure you and your partner are tested for STDs/STIs (also probably obvious) and just generally are able to communicate about stuff like that, and (something that i wish more ppl talked about!!) lube. lube helps reduce friction, which prevents any tearing (both internally but also for condoms!! just make sure the type of lube you're using is ok to be used with whatever kind of condom you're using.) i've been saying for years that more ppl need to get on board with using lube because it is there to help!!

when it comes to sexual hygiene it's going to differ a lot for every person, not just depending on your anatomy but because everybody's body is different. everyone says "pee after sex to prevent UTIs!!" but the reality is that sometimes that just doesn't help—i know ppl who deal with chronic UTIs because they have a rly sensitive PH/flora and sex just fucks with it (no pun intended.) yeast infections can happen too. the most important thing is that you know this is NORMAL and is not something you need to be scared of or embarrassed about.

please for the love of god my sweet angel if you are a vagina haver do NOT use internal "feminine washes." they are BAD for you and your snatch. no matter how "natural" or "ph balanced" they claim to be they are not meant to go inside you and can rly fuck with your body chemistry. use gentle unscented soap around the area and otherwise JUST water to clean inside. (here's a link to a webpage from the royal women's hospital on dos/don'ts for hygiene! it covers everything from washing to menstrual care to sexual hygiene, but it is specific to vaginal care.)

i'm not an expert, or a doctor, i'm just a girl on the internet who's sharing what she knows with you. but i want you to be informed and feel empowered and reassured by that information, so i found some resources on safe (/"safer") sex for you in case you want to read some stuff from people who know what they're talking about.

scarleteen - this is the largest online resource for "comprehensive and highly inclusive sex and relationships education, information and support." This is an incredible and regularly updated source for info on EVERY possible subject related to sex, bodies, and relationships.

the safer sex toolbox from the american sexual health association - after skimming through this seems like a very helpful and incredibly detailed resource!

planned parenthood resources - they have pages that talk about everything from birth control, to healthy relationships, gender identity, and even sexual pleasure.

love you little friend, and i am very proud of u for asking and wanting to know this info. you're doing amazing!!

[theeggoman]

I am genuinely scared that once AI starts officially and somehow legally stealing art from artists on Twitter to feed into Elon Musk's AI company that there will be no more spaces for LGBT people to exist online. I'm talking about NSFW art, NSFW writing, discussions about kink and BDSM and leather, advice about transitioning and surgery and STD testing, resources for homeless LGBT youth, comics and animations and stories about queer love. The internet loves to hate gay sex. They demonize us, humiliate us, infantilize our bodily autonomy and choice and the moment you bring up anything relating to your own sexual experiences you're now a target for ridicule and shame. We are not profitable. We are not family friendly. We are "inappropriate" for normal people, and across every single social media platform we are banned. Our discussions about the basic human experience of sex expressed in ANY WAY are eventually banned. Instagram, Facebook, Tumblr, Youtube, Tik Tok, Deviant art, the restrictions and requirements and borderline threats from Patreon. As much as we've all hated it, Twitter has been a final stand. It's a place for furry art and gay porn and weird kinky fanfiction and BDSM. There's a community of people who exist together online and nowhere else. And people don't care that we're losing it, yet again, because they want people to like us. They want people to approve of us, to accept us. They want to be palatable for a straight audience, for a heterosexual society that has only barely begun to tolerate us out of necessity and the turn of deemed popular opinion. It's the internet mob mentality that crucified trans youth as "transtrenders" out of fear that they themselves would be targeted next. It's the accusations against drag queens being inappropriate for children. It's the LGB without the T because they fear they will be next. If they could just package us into something respectable, maybe the rest of the world wouldn't hate them so much, right? Get rid of the "bad" gays and suddenly our parents will love us again. Show them they're wrong, we're not pedophiles and rapists and groomers like they've been accusing us of being for centuries, we're NORMAL and GOOD and PURE, we like Heartstopper, not Yaoi! We don't fetishize gay men, we don't sexualize our trauma! We don't even LIKE sex! See, we think sex is immoral and shameful and wrong just like you. Will you love us now?

The truth is they will never love us. They will never want us. They will never accept us. The more we fight for our rights, they more they will try to take them way. The more we fight amongst ourselves, the more they will try to divide us.

I probably sound insane talking about niche queer Fandom spaces like some kind of gay revolution, but the ability to be unapologetically gay and trans and gross and weird and find a community of people you can be with who are all like you, who are working through that trauma together, who you meet online and fly out to visit in real life, who you love: It matters. It matters so much that they keep trying to take it away from us. I don't really know what the future holds here, I'm just rambling my anger onto the only platform that actuslly gives a shit about the artists on it. I just want the young people in the community to understand that this IS a community. And it matters.

[batmanisagatewaydrug]

hello sex witch I need some advice! First is it bad if I’m interested in having a lot of casual sex? I grew up repressed due to religion and internalized homophobia but now that I’m (mostly…) over that I really want to explore and have sex with a lot of different women (while staying safe of course) and I’m only 21 so I have time to it, I’m not really interested in a serious relationship anymore but I won’t reject anything if I like the person. My question is: how do I go about it? I’m going to back to college soon first time in person since I’ve been doing online classes, should I try to go to parties or something? Or should I just stick to clubs? One of my goals is to travel to a big foreign city and go to the clubs there…..but how to actually hook up w people? Or should I download tinder and try that? I haven’t had good experiences with dating apps in the past. My point is: I want to have fun, I want to get experience and I want to enjoy myself most of the time, but I also want to stay safe (no STDs) in the process. I’m planning on having a little bag to put like condoms in and like other sex stuff. (Not sure exactly tho, I’m thinking like vibrators, do I need lube (?) please help 😭 !

hi anon,

we've got a lot to parse through here, so let's just tackle these questions in order.

1.) no, that's fine. wanting to have sex is completely morally neutral.

2.) there's no surefire way to hook up with people; it depends a lot on what kind of interactions you're looking for, where you look, your personal tastes, and a lot of random chance and luck. parties and clubs are great if you like those, but another really easy way to meet people who you may like as friends as well as sexual partners is by just going to groups dedicated to your interests and getting to know people.

3.) the part where you actually hook up with someone only happens if you express to someone that you'd like to have sex with them. there aren't any cheat codes to learn, you just need to like. tell people you want to have sex with them.

4.) you can download tinder or any other dating apps you want, but that won't negate the part where you have to talk to people in order to have sex with them.

5.) if you want to have a lot of sex, I'd recommend getting STI testing done within 2-3 weeks after each new sexual partner in addition to talking to each person about their sexual history and whether they know if they might be transmitting anything.

6. carrying tools for safe sex is more important than carrying a vibrator (although there's no reason why you can't have both). condoms for penises and shared sex toys, dental dams for oral and eating ass, and gloves or finger cots for penetration with hands and fingers! (more on condom storage tips here.) and of course, tons of water-based lube!

[the-healthy-human-mind]

Evelyne's Military Personnel File

NAME: GARRICK, MARIE EVELYNE

MAIDEN NAME: GRAY

BORN: April 28th, 1998 (27 years old)

BIRTHPLACE: Oslo, Norway

SERVICE NO: 3846535

CALLSIGN: Snake, Echo 4-3

MARITAL STATUS: Married. 2019.

EDUCATION: GCSE

LANGUAGES: (fluent) Norwegian (First language), English, Spanish, German, Finnish, Arabic, Korean.

BRANCH: Special Operations Team (CIA)

RANK: Intel and Negotiations Specialist

TRAINING: Social engineering, situational awareness, self-defense, counterterrorism, CQC, water combat, negotiation, codebreaking.

NOTES: Garrick was detained in 2017 for aggravated assault on an ally soldier. Charges were dropped. Garrick was transferred to SOT per General Shepard.

TRAINING SCORES

PFT: 284

Rifle Qual: 322

CQB: 20.2s

Disciplinary Record: Detained in 2017 for aggravated assault upon an ally soldier. Charges were dropped.

Notes: Garrick is hesitant in long-range shooting, do not send her as a solo sniper.

PAST MEDICAL HISTORY

Height: 5'6 (168cm)

Current Weight: 130lb (58.9kg)

Blood Type: AB+

Extensive physical injuries to posterior.

25+ lacerations. Cause: wooden cane. Was not treated properly, tissue is damaged.

15+ burn wounds. Cause: cigarettes. Was not treated properly, tissue is damaged.

10x stab wounds. 7x to right arm. 2x to abdomen.

1x slash to right cheek.

1x bullet wound to left knee. Resulted in replacement of joint. Slight arthritis determined. To be monitored.

1x cesarean section in July 2021.

Evaluated for concussion. Result: minimal.

Evaluated for insomnia. Result: infrequent. To be monitored.

Evaluated for vision loss. Result: Minimal. Reading glasses are recommended.

Evaluated for hearing loss. Result: Minimal.

FAMILY HISTORY

Father: Marshall Adams Gray. Alive. 62 years old. Sentenced to life in prison w/o parole.

Mother: Alice Kathy Gray. Alive. 50 years old. In mental institute, not deemed fit to be discharged.

Older brother: Andrew Lorenzo Gray. Deceased. 19 years old.

Younger sister: Nellian Alice Gray-Garrick. Alive 16 years old. Attends St Martin-in-the-Fields High School For Girls.

Younger sister: Claire Mallory Gray-Garrick. Alive. 16 years old. Attends St Martin-in-the-Fields High School For Girls.

2 Children. Scarlette Ada Garrick. 2 years old. Leona Clove Garrick. 1 month old.

Genetic testing markers show indicators for uterine cancer, asthma, and diabetes.

SOCIAL HISTORY

Smoking? No

Drinking? Yes, whiskey mainly and only every once in a while on leave.

Physically Active? Yes, attends the gym every morning.

Sexually Active. Yes, tested regularly for STDs, on oral contraceptive. last known period: September 2023.

Mother and father are alive, deceased brother, two alive younger sisters. Has three cats.

Attends online therapy with Dr. McCain every Tuesday and Friday.

Attends church every Sunday morning.

Medication List + Indications

Sertraline – issued for PTSD 8 years ago. Must be regularly taken.

Lexapro – issued for anxiety 8 years ago. Must be regularly taken.

Adderall – issued for ADHD 8 years ago. Must be regularly taken.

Allergies

N/A

Notes

Garrick is to be monitored for PTSD episodes. Known to become combative during.

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[demonic-shadowlucifer]

Let's talk about Online Grooming

(TRIGGER WARNING: As the title suggests, this post talks about grooming and sexual abuse. Reader discretion *HEAVILY* advised). I'm sure most of you already know about this (Especially if you're involved in gaming), but for those who don't or are just finding out (like me lol), YandereDev- yes, *THAT* YandereDev, was recently outed as a predator, and was revealed to have groomed a minor. Now, I've seen multiple conflicting posts on this, so I won't be getting too deep into it. If you'd like more info on it, I advise checking out this video from callimara. However, one thing I do want to point out regarding this subject, is the victim continuously defending her abuser, which has unfortunately resulted in victim blaming from multiple of YanDev's supporters. And that's actually why I'm making this post in the first place. While grooming can be done both online and offline, this mostly focuses on online grooming, as well as E-CSA, which is something I don't see talked about often at all. This gets pretty triggering, so if you don't have the stomach to handle this, go back now. Lastly, YanDev defenders and 'Narc Abuse' believers do NOT fucking touch this. You WILL be blocked on sight.

What is Grooming?

Grooming is a series of abusive behaviors that are used by abusers as a means to establish a relationship with their victim to eventually exploit. While it can be used with any form of abuse, the most common is sexual abuse, particularly towards children. What is E-CSA? E-CSA is the use of technology or the internet to sexually abuse children. This can be done in many ways, and one of the most common forms of E-CSA is grooming. How grooming occurs.

Predators will usually pretend that they are a minor themselves in order to get with their victim, which can make it difficult to identify a predator. Offenders will usually try to develop a bond with their victim, typically using the promise of gifts or something else. Disturbingly, offenders might resort to threats, or manipulate their victim into accepting their behavior. Once the victim is vulnerable, the offender may make an advance onto their victim. The offender may also try to isolate their victims from their friends and family, making the abuse worse. When called out on their abuse, some offenders might also deflect their blame on the victim, making it harder for the victim to seek justice (Does "Colleen Ballinger" ring a bell to some of you?) Why might victims defend their abusers? Unfortunately, a lot of victims tend to defend their abusers as well. To make it clear: This does NOT make the abuse okay nor does it mean the victim was at fault. There are multiple reasons why abuse victims, grooming victims or otherwise, will defend their abusers, the most common reasons being: -The victim might be thinking the abuse was normal, and are in denial that they were abused. -The victim is being threatened by the abuser. -The victim might have developed a genuine bond with their abuser. This is what's known as "Stockholm Syndrome" or "Trauma Bonding". Victims with disabilities such as autism might also have trouble realizing that they were abused. The victim's environment can also have an impact. Signs of grooming: -Heavy age gaps. This one depends on how old two folks were when they met. -Sexualized behavior, especially if that person is a minor. -Isolation. -Being secretive. And so much more. What to do if you have been groomed: -If you can, cut off contact with the abuser and contact authorities. -Remind yourself that it's not your fault. -If you can afford it, consider getting a therapist to check in with your mental health. -If you have met up with the groomer and have had sexual contact with them, get a STD test just to be safe. STDs can result from sexual abuse. -Additionally, if you are someone who can get pregnant, get a pregnancy test. Additionally, if you know someone who has been groomed, tell them any of the above. My Experiences: Unfortunately, I myself was groomed online many times by different people. However, the experience I'm sharing is the one that impacted me the most. The abuse happened on Discord and at times DeviantArt and Hangouts, but mostly Discord (Sidenote: If I see you making a "Discord Mod" or "Discord kitten" joke, you'll be blocked /srs. I hate that I even have to say this). I was 10, and he was 16 at the time. The abuse first started via roleplay, which was normal at first, but then it started to become sexual. And me, being the naive fucker I was, didn't even notice it was wrong. And I thought it was okay because we were both minors. (There is also the chance he could've been lying about being 16, however I have no intentions on digging that up). People were quick to catch what was happening, however, instead of helping me, most folks got mad at me for it and I ended up banned from a server as a result (The reason for the ban was "NSFW"- even though I wasn't the only person posting such). This also resulted in a series of harassment which has negatively impacted my mental health. The harassment has since stopped, but it still hurts me to this day.

The harassment from others led to me getting closer with my abuser, which resulted in the grooming continuing for atleast two more years. It was only after someone intervened (via even more traumatic methods, but I'll spare you the details) in which the roleplay stopped. However, thanks to a friend (Who had recently been promoted to mod within the same community the abuse occured in) who eventually enlightened me on what actually happened, I was able to cut off contact with him for good. I will admit, I still feel guilty for letting this happen, though I am working on it! At this time, I don't plan on reporting my abuser to authorities, nor will I be able to since I unfortunately lost most screenshots of the abuse (That, and this individual isn't in the same US state, so it'd be kinda difficult to do so).

[gavisuntiedboot]

Speaking of Martin (ew), I can’t help but wonder if he ever tried to contact doctora again after everything went down. He seems like the kinda guy (crazy) who can’t take no for an answer and would keep trying to get another chance with our baddie

Yo I have never thought about this before but now that you mention it...

Here are my head cannons about Martin trying to reach back out to her after she gets together with Gavi:

i think he would see pictures of her at the ballon d'or online (while at his mom's house) and someone looks over and is like "woah Martin! Isn't that your ex?"

and then it would turn into his mom being like "so unfortunate that she turned out to be a lesbian" (bcs that's i think the only reason he could give as to why she left him that wouldn't ruin his image)

and then one of his cousins (who maybe doesn't like him) is like "uh...she's def not a lesbian. Bisexual maybe, but isn't this her kissing that Barca player?"

And then suddenly his mother is lamenting being like "my failure of a son got left by a doctor! a disgrace! a plague upon our house!"

And Martin is pissed because how can he be replaced by Gavi of all people???

So he goes to text her, but none of his messages are delivering (bcs ofc he's blocked)

so he decides to call her from his cousin's phone

And doctora picks up because she doesn't have every single number from work saved

and then Martin turns on his best angel persona

"Hey baby... I know we didn't end things in the best way, but I can't help but think that we had something really special."

"Martin???"

There's a gasp and some mutters on the other side of the line, and suddenly it's a male voice coming through

"There is no way you're calling my girlfriend through a burner after I beat your ass once already."

"I just wanted to talk to her because-"

"Did you test positive for an STD?"

"I don't think so?"

"Then leave my girlfriend alone."

And then the call dropped

So Martin resorted to what he does best - leaving thirsty comments on her instagram

and he only relented after his instagram was suspended for a week because someone reported him for harassment and stalking

(it was gavi)

[alhamdulillah10]

Young Muslimas, stay away from the haram stuff. Guard yourself vigilantly from falling into the degenerate modern western secular feminist lifestyle.

You know, the "I'm a strong independent woman who don't need no man," "my body my choice," "I can do whatever I want," "no man can tell me what to do" mentality of many modern women.

The one where you live life away from the protection of your Muslim parents, "free" yourself from male protection calling it "controlling" and "toxic," make yourself a new family consisting of your "tribe" of like-minded degenerate friends, turn up at the club, partying, dancing, drinking, getting high, sleeping around, then getting yourself tested for STDs or getting an abortion, maybe prostitute yourself online with lingerie modeling or something like OnlyFans, occasionally facing various kinds of "sexual assault" and constant harrassment along the way from degenerate males in those circles.

If you follow this wretched, self-destructive path, when you're finally spit out on the other side, you'll be broken.

Traumatized.

Scarred.

There will be absolutely no empowerment anywhere to be found.

You can never emerge unscathed from such a lifestyle. Allah has forbidden all these paths for a reason.

By the time you wake up and realize all this, you'll look back and recognize belatedly that you've wasted your late teenage years, your twenties, and most of your thirties.

Now, broken and alone, you want to finally settle down and get married to banish the crippling loneliness and the debilitating depression and mental health issues.

But you bring with you a lifetime of mistakes, regrets, baggage, self-inflicted abuse and trauma for a good man to fix.

When it becomes hard to find such a man willing to deal with all this, you'll turn around in an impressive evasion of accountability, and accuse men of "not stepping up" and of being "shallow," "fragile," or "toxic masculine" if they care about purity, chastity, or youth in a potential wife.

Now everything is men's fault.

If I could advise my fellow young sisters in Islam with anything, it would be this: follow Islam wholeheartedly and sincerely, burrow into the safety and protection of your parents and male kin, focus on preparing yourself to be a pious traditional wife and mother, and get married early to a pious, traditional Muslim man.

Don't even allow your gaze to flit over to the "modern empowered feminist" lifestyle. See it for the lie that it is. Don't even look in that direction.

وَلَا تَمُدَّنَّ عَيْنَيْكَ إِلَىٰ مَا مَتَّعْنَا بِهِۦٓ أَزْوَٰجًۭا مِّنْهُمْ زَهْرَةَ ٱلْحَيَوٰةِ ٱلدُّنْيَا لِنَفْتِنَهُمْ فِيهِ ۚ وَرِزْقُ رَبِّكَ خَيْرٌۭ وَأَبْقَىٰ

"And do not extend your eyes towards what We have given some classes of them to enjoy—the splendor of the Earlier Life—that We may test them thereby, for your Lord’s provision is better and more lasting." (Surat Taha, 131)

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this is a weird question but how do you do like ✨spicy✨ protection if you’re allergic to latex? obvi there are other ways to protect yourself from pregnancy, but what about stds?

This is not a weird question at all!! This is why I have my sex ed series! So there’s a few variables with this!!! Personally whenever I have a new sexual partner, before doing anything physical, I get a full STD test done. It’s usually just a urine and blood test (I think they only do the physical exam if you have actual symptoms) and I get it free from a women’s clinic through my insurance. Planned parenthood also does low/no cost STD panels and I think a lot of places will do it for free if you don’t have insurance. I also ask my new sexual partners to take the test as well. But if you don’t want to do a test or it’s not accessible to you or if you’re having sex outside of new relationships, such as one night stands (no judgment at all /gen, but I don’t know as much in these cases because it’s personally not for me) they do make latex free condoms and dental dams! You usually can’t get them at regular drug stores, but they’re really easy to buy online. Latex free dental dams are usually harder to find, especially at a good price, but I believe you can make them yourself with a latex free condom (but I believe that at this point in time, there’s no actual research on how well condom dental dams/dental dams in general work for preventing STDs. I may be wrong, but you should do your own research). These are just some I found on amazon, but I’m sure you can find them elsewhere. Thanks for the question! Feel free to ask anything else! I love answering these questions /gen