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#mir meeps#ok thotz! i mean THOUGHTS NOT THOTS#so over the past week ive been seeing those posts go around about new arohas and how everyone else seems to already know everyone else and#they feel left out and etc#and im thinking about how two hears ago (TWO YEARS?? three??? holy shit) when i first joined the fandom i felt very out of place as well#especially since i didnt know anything about kpop before astro so i was literally lost and baby#i tried to make posts hoping to get notes and be noticed by The Big Blogs yknow?? and it was t to gin popularity or Have More Notes it just#seemed like a fast way to familiarise myself with the fandom etc but in the beginning i felt really stupid#like i felt like i was talking to myself and whatever#there was a time i felt like hmm might as well delete the blog but i was like....bitch youre wack who cares who sees u youre here for astro#so i just. kept reblogging about astro and whatever#and it took a very long time but eventually i started to get to know about other arohas!!!! but its always mainly through reblogs and tags#and asks!! like when u see them all the time on your dash and u just gradually get to know them ykno?? ive been on here for only two/three#years and i can confidently admit and say that yes i do ‘know’ or recognise plenty of arohas on here which makes it easy to interact with#them tHRU TAGS mostly bc im awkward#but i feel like i also have to make it known that i mostly just know most of you because. ive just seen you on here for quite a while alrdy#other ‘new’ friends i made is mainly because they sort of interacted with me first which im always glad for bc#ive never initiated any conversations or friendships IM JUST STUPID so i really just talk to a handful of people#im going in circles but my point is that if youre a new aroha i hope you dont think that you’ll never be ‘part of them’ or whatever#its normal to feel awkward and stuff but never think like maybe u joined too late or anything it doesnt matter!!!!!!!! its just like when u#join a new class or smth and u dont know anyone and it takes time#so take your time!! dont feel like u dont fit in or youre late or anything!! it just takes a little bit of time#everyone has their own pace its okay to follow yours especially when making new friends#this is also making me a little sentimental bc a lot of the people i gradually got to know here over the years arent rly here anymore#id say about a third or half of arohas who were around arent anymore#im not mad or whatever but im trying to say that it makes me feel a little like im back to square one bc theres a lot of new arohas recently#and idk how to make friends LOL so i do feel a bit awkward time to time#it just be like that tho#GOD CAN I SHUT UP ALREDY I LITERALLY DIDNT HAVE TO SPILL HALF OF MY AROHA LIFE STORY ON HERE#MIR. shut your HEAD ASS
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