#obviously theres some things that are clearly just plain wrong and dont get a pass no matter what

[werewulvs]

one of the biggest lessons i learned in adulthood is that it's totally OK and often a safe decision to be judgemental of ppl in ur head and make the decision that they're not someone you'd wanna hang out with based on one tiny interaction or tidbit. u can have ur own standards and morals and still recognize tht everyone else does too while not being a dick abt it. these things can coexist. like if u decide u wouldn't get along with someone bc they're a little annoying or smth that's ok ur not an asshole for tht u just don't get along and that's ok