#misandry mention

[brettdoesdiscourse]

I do think it's important to examine the fact men are often expected to abandon their families for work. Work where the field is male-dominated are often ones that require a lot of time away from the family. Even if men wanted to be with their families, a lot of jobs require them to not be and they're expected to be the provider for the family, consequentially being forced away from their families.

[hellshire-harlot]

God I wish I could go into the Androphobia tag without being bombarded with TERF rhetoric.

I AM NOT MISANDRIST. I do not want all men to die. I have a CLINICAL FUCKING PHOBIA stemming from SEVERE TRAUMA that makes me terrified of men. they are not the same.

If I could go the rest of my life without having to interact with men, I would! Not because I hate them, because THEYRE FUCKING TERRIFYING AND I FEEL CONSTANT ANXIETY WHEN AROUND THEM!!!!!!!!!!!

It’s the same as any other Phobia!!! I’m terrified of dogs and spiders but I don’t advocate for dogs and spiders to be exterminated to extinction!!!!!

TERFS if you fucking come near this post I will skin you alive with my teeth this is NOT for you

[mx-t4t0]

I’m cis M(15), and I’m kind of thinking of radical feminism isn’t wrong… but like… I’m not transphobic? It’s strange… it feels like everything inside me is fighting sometimes and I don’t know what to do. Trans women are women and trans men are men… but men statistically have higher rates of being rapists, and it seems like every evil person was a man… a can’t think of any really bad women. I’m scared and confused I don’t know what to do. And the fact that I’m male makes me feel worse because I just want to do better but I don’t know what to.

see thats exactly why radical feminism doesn't do any good, cause then you have literal teens who haven't done anything wrong but start feeling guilty just for existing the way they do

the only reason men have historically gotten away with awful shit more easily is because wherever and whenever they were, they just happened to be exactly in the demographic that benefited from the patriarchy the most. but for every 1 guy who actively benefits from patriarchy, there's like, 10 other guys who don't because they're not "proper men", because they're disabled, or a racial/ethnic minority, or queer, or something else. that's literally it. being a man in and of itself does not make you more violent or prone to violence, it just makes you a man.

you want to do better? just be a decent person. you don't have to carry the weight of what every bad person has ever done, you're just some guy. if anything, blaming yourself for things you haven't done isn't going to get anyone anywhere. you're 15 years old, you just have to exist and try to be kind, that's literally it. also stop listening to radfem ideology in any way whatsoever, that's the devil talking.

[phe-purple-parade]

Dreamt that I encountered some.. misandrists? who were like. Fully out to remove people's phalluses. Wild. Horror movie material

[katrafiy]

Having a bigot "mistake you for a trans woman/fem" is fundamentally not the same experience as if you had actually been a transfem (or analogous/adjacent) person in that situation. This should be obvious, but the key difference is in the word 'mistake'.

Your experience with transmisogyny began and ended when someone mistook you for one of us.

Ours began the day we were born into a world convinced that girls like us are monsters to be destroyed.

I'm sorry that people hate us so much that you got caught up in it. It sucks.

(TW: SA) Me, I've stared into the eyes of a man who put his hand down my panties and then said to me "but I thought you were a girl" and if you can please just try to imagine how afraid I was for my life in that moment, and why I was so afraid.

The why is because I know what the world thinks of girls like me.

The why is because transmisogyny has been an ever present force throughout my life.

The why is because every single day of my life I've been told that I'm a monster that needs to he destroyed.

That's what being transmisogyny affected means. It's more than just that run-in you had with your local bigot, it's living in a society that tells you every day, every hour, every minute that you're too loud,

That you take up too much space,

That you're a monster,

You're a predator,

You're disgusting,

You're scum.

Could it be that living in a society that drills that into your head every day fucks up a lot of girl's ability to form relationships and makes those of us who survive long enough feel a bit prickly towards people who only have an ankle-deep understanding of our oppression but think they can define it for us instead of listening to us?

Nah, that's probably our fault too...

[certifiedsexed]

Just to be clear, sending me hate anons [including those with slurs? wtf y'all] arguing that misandry is a real type of oppression, not a dogwhistle and that I'm just a bitch does not send the message some of you seem to think it does.

I will not be publishing any of them.

[solis-angelus]

I am tired of straight girls agreeing with my bi-ness because men are apparantly "ew" and women are inherently the "better choice". I am SICK of being told by lesbians and other queer girls that I'm not "bi enough" if my attraction to women doesn't exceed my attraction to men.

One time these two friends of mine, 1 straight 1 lesbian, asked me who I preferred more, men or women. My answer was "50-50. Both are equally attractive to me." (I wasn't trying to prove any point or anything. That is genuinely how my attraction works. But percentages don't matter either way, you do you <3). And their reaction was "oh yeah she's confused" as if I wasn't sitting right there and haven't been confidently and stably out as bi for 2+ years at that point.

Both the two friends, once told me that they had thought I'd come out as a lesbian after some time because ofcourse the only way a girl can be bi is if she's a closeted lesbian or she's "just asking for attention".

One of the friends I made at the new city I moved to 2 years ago tries to be an ally by SAYING THAT SHE HATES MEN??????? LIKE WHAT?!?

I AM TIRED OF THIS BS

I find men hot as hell. The ones I like, I want to give them flowers, kiss them breathless against a wall. I want to make their world a heaven, split the bill on our dates, get enormously horny with them, motivate them and compliment them and put a smile on their face. And the same goes for women too.

These "men are ew" people need to be fucking right-hooked across their jaw.

MEN ARE GORGEOUS TO ME. DEAL WITH IT.

[queerism1969]

[biancadavri]

you play f!brosca because you want to experience a story about a young woman clawing her way out of the terrible life she was shoved in at birth, managing to do some good and perhaps even bring small but significant change to the unjust society she struggled against all her life i play f!brosca because i never, ever want to hear My Best Friend Leske ask me if i ever thought of fucking my sister ever again

[princessefemmelesbian]

My friend said that Harry Shitter would be a transandrophobia truther and I am literally SCREAMING CRYING THROWING UP AT HOW ACCURATE THAT IS 😭 HE WOULD THO

[robinspinknest]

pt. 2 of "Too disgusting to be called pigs"

sa statistics

how common is sa?

1 in 5 women in the U.S. have experienced legally defined rap3 in their lifetime.

1 in 33 men in the U.S. have experienced legally defined rap3 in their life time.

more than 1 in 3 women have experienced rap3, physical v1olence, or stalking by an intimate partner in their lifetime.

it is estimated that every 98 seconds someone in the U.S. is s*xually assaulted.

91% of victims of rap3 and sa are female; 9% are male

s*xual assault is, and has been, an epidemic.

how many of these s*x offend3rs are put behind bars?

"According to FBI statistics, 33.4% of rap3s reported to the police department in 2018 resulted in arrest. RAINN (rap3, abvse & inc3st national network) estimates that for every 1,000 rap3s, 384 are reported to police, 57 result in arrest, 11 are referred for prosecution, 7 result in a felony conviction, and 6 result in incarceration."

wow, 7 incarcerated for every 1,000 rap3s. if you do some quick math, you'll find only *roughly* 38.4% are even reported, and when you see the number drop from 384, to 57, to 11, to 7, and finally down to 6, its not hard to see why.

- other important statistics regarding csa -

1 in 5 girls and 1 in 20 boys are victims of csa

children are most vulnerable to csa between the ages of 7 - 13

3 out of 4 adolescents who have been s*xually assaulted were victimized by someone they knew well

82% of all victims under 18 are female

1 in 5 children are solicited s*xually while on the internet before the age of 18

an estimated 60% of teen first pregnancies are preceded by experiences of molestation, rape, or attempted rape, the average age of their offender is 27 years

pt. 3 i will be starting to talk about p0rn culture (tag is featured in search on my profile, but it will likely be out tomorrow)

[cry-ptidd]

Where does Laura's fixation on nuns come from? Seems to be a recurring motif in artwork and fiction you have made for her. Is this intentional? 👀

90% intentional! The rest 10% is honestly just vibes.

The main reason is because of Laura's relationship with religion and sexuality.

She was raised in a Christian household and was extremely devout as a human, and planned to keep her chastity intact even if she was the eldest daughter (already making her kind of an exception in the traditional family dynamic). It stemmed half from her being a lesbian (and not knowing that that was a thing) and half from just her faith.

As for her fixation with nuns specifically, it's mostly because of her trauma.

Having been abused sexually by men of faith and top that with her already repressed sexuality, when she gave in to her lycanthropy she basically let go of all her inhibitions and previous anxieties. It also resulted in her being hypersexual in general, and her drinking despite not being able to get drunk is also an idea of that hedonistic, feral attitude.

She sees sex as a power play or a pastime. It's not meaningful in any way to her anymore. It's not about love, it's not about intimacy. But to a Christian woman? Oh it is quite meaningful.

When she sleeps with nuns (or married women also), she uses it as a way to insult God and to mock their faith and human societal values. She sullies the pure just like how she was sullied, not by force but my seduction, making them willingly give in to her.

She sees nuns as the pinnacle of faith and chastity in women, so of course they'd catch her attention. It's also a form of self-loathing in a way, like hurting and manipulating the innocent woman (Laura could've easily become a nun in her human life) she used to be over and over again for no reason other than boredom.

It's her coming back to her trauma again and again in a way where she is in control this time, infiltrating and seeping through the cracks to not cause an uproar because those incidents will most likely be swept under the rug like how many religious groups will do just to save face in a place where God sees all.

It's the idea of a contrast; a pure, devout virgin and a feral, depraved creature, one living in the outskirts of society and the other outside of it, both suspected because of misogyny and how they don't adhere to gender roles in the most traditional sense of the word.

There is an excellent video essay about nuns (inspired by The Nun (2018)) that I highly recommend you guys check out, it's less than 10 minutes and extremely informative. I also recommend checking out the creator's other videos because they are amazing.

[dwarvendiaries]

Top quote from tonight’s improv session:

Not jump to conclusions but I think a lot Misandry-Man’s issues could be solved if she just took oestrogen

[dearestpiers]

whenever i see someone refer to their wife i just assume they are a woman and a lesbian and when someone refers to their husband i assume they are a woman. i’m just so women pilled i guess

[unhingedfemmecontent]

domestic violence isn't funny

not only was that Matt Riffe joke insanely unfunny it is just also horrifying. i know i am super late to talking about this but i wasn't posting on tublr when it happened

Watching the eyes of the person you thought you where going to spend the rest of your life with go cold as they choke you is an experience i wish on not a single person.

As someone who has gone trough multiple forms of abuse and SA domestic violence crushes your soul in a completely different way (not comparing by how bad they are just how different it is).

20 PEOPLE PER MINUTE ARE PHYSICALLY ABUSED BY AN INTIMATE PARTNER IN THE UNITED STATES

72% OF ALL MURDER SUICIDES INVOLVE AN INTIMATE PARTNER 94% OF THOSE VICTIMS ARE WOMEN

WOMEN MAKE UP 82% OF PEOPLE MURDERED BY AN EX PARTNER

i don't care if you think i'm soft i don't care if you think i can't take a joke ( i joke about my own trauma all the time)

it is not a funny joke and it was most certainly not a funny joke coming from who it came from

[demuredeadbeat]

Tired of every goddamn algorithm giving me man hating content. I'm gay as shit, I want to have sex with men, this isn't your time to be all 'sorrows and prayers' on me. Stfu.

Like oh no I'm having a great sexy raunchy ass time and repeatedly jack off to men because it's hot as fuck, how horrible.