#like not that finian is ashamed of being dalish its just that he used to feel like he wanted more. to adventure. to learn.

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so this is a high-approval dialogue you get with Sera if you're playing as an elf, and it's one example where I wish there were a few more options to like... say other stuff to her rather than just 'ur opinions suck' or 'ok never mind'.

She says "how about we dig into what you are? Or what you're supposed to be? do you know all about elfiness?" and I'm like yes! go ahead! let's dig into it. My Inquisitor often feels like he's torn between what he's supposed to be and what he is, not just as the Inquisitor but he also felt that way as First. He feels guilty that in many ways he feels more fulfilled now than he did with his clan and feels like he let them down. sometimes he doesn't feel particularly 'elfy' either so it would be nice to have the opportunity to share that with her!

I wish there was a dialogue choice that was: "hey, you're not the only one who feels that way sometimes." Or what I really want is some kind of option to tell Sera that it doesn't matter to you how elfy or not elfy she is and that you like her for who she is with no expectations! At this point she's Fin's best friend, a little sister to him, and I'm kind of left wanting some sort of resolution here in that sense. or to give her a hug. like babygirl ur fine. :(