#j2eonij vent

[j2eonij]

the same people who accuse transmascs of being MRAs believe that ''afabs'' have power over ''amabs'' lol

[j2eonij]

This person said in all seriousness that transmascs are trying to *subordinate cismen to themselves* to eliminate potential transfem allies (cismen), allow afab infiltration into transfem spaces with the ultimate goal of politcally destroying transfeminism. This is a actual example of MRA ideology with conspiratorial tendencies within the trans community, which almost no one dares to recognize as MRA and anti-afab because it comes from transfems.

So here we are with a transfem-cisman coalition to bring down the ''afab oppressor'', which is a predictable idea considering their views on afab peo- oops ''tmes''.

In Baeddels' worldview, afab people, whatever their gender, are an immutable enemy unlike cismen (whatever their level of transphobia) since they are closer to transfem by virtue of their agab, making them potential allies. A cisman can be ''converted'' into a transfem, but not a cis woman or a transmasc, rendering us as eternal enemies of transfems.

When i say that baeddels have more solidarity with cis men than any afab, even those who regularly pass as transfem, I get dismissed as some crazy transmisogynst

[j2eonij]

I think a lot of trans guys who defend the delusional idea that trans men have male privilege, that you can overcome your agab socially (etc) do so partially because it's too depressing for them to acknowledge the reality that when you're born with a vagina in a patriarchal society, whatever your gender, you'll always face misogyny and be treated differently because of this innate characteristic. That's also why, when others point out that the only way for transmascs to avoid (interpersonal, not systemic) misogyny is to hide their AGAB, they feel very uncomfortable and try to dodge the remark. It reveals too many uncomfortable truths about transmascs actual position in society.

To add another layer of sadness to this situation, is that members in the community will use this delusional narrative against transmascs to silence them about their oppression, their experiences, to speak over them, control them, to portray them as male oppressors who must shut their mouths and make transfem voices heard.

These transmascs lie about their social situation for this particular reason, and also to serve the intracommunity interests of transfems (claiming that transmascs are these privileged male oppressors, mostly benefits transfems within the community, not transmascs), only to be treated like garbage in return?