#its ok to be judgemental
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one of the biggest lessons i learned in adulthood is that it's totally OK and often a safe decision to be judgemental of ppl in ur head and make the decision that they're not someone you'd wanna hang out with based on one tiny interaction or tidbit. u can have ur own standards and morals and still recognize tht everyone else does too while not being a dick abt it. these things can coexist. like if u decide u wouldn't get along with someone bc they're a little annoying or smth that's ok ur not an asshole for tht u just don't get along and that's ok
#obviously theres some things that are clearly just plain wrong and dont get a pass no matter what#im not saying to tell someone “ur annoying” or be rude to them its just like. ok if u dont wanna hang#its ok to be judgemental
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are we the sins we have committed? are we the things we have endured? [...] who are we?
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#iwtv#iwtv amc#interview with the vampire#loumand#louis de pointe du lac#vampterview#armand#louis#ldpdl#iwtv spoilers#mine#*24#its gonna be so joever soon its the eye of the hurricane rn#when u both are defined by your relationships to others and find a role and a purpose in them. the brother the lover the leader. OK.#if i have identity issues and YOU have identity issues... who's steering the relationship?? its still armand but at least they can pretend#sorryyy i'll stop posting abt this show soon. or at least for a little while. maybe. probably. add pensive face with its ass out emoji here#1 funny thing abt ep3 was that when they started talking abt good and evil i laughed out loud and said can we get fucking sartre in here#jesus christ. and then sartre was sitting right there and schooled them + told them to stfu. gagged me a bit ngl#also something something hell is other people we are trapped by others' perceptions of us their judgement enters our knowledge of ourselves#you get it. im gonna go build weird houses in ts4. goodbye
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stuff i doodled in a drawpile with friends
#gregory horror show#gregory horror show fanart#ghs#ghs fanart#ghs cactus gunman#cactus gunman#FUCK i have to tag all of these guys#ghs judgement boy#ghs hells chef#judgement boy#judgment boy#hells chef#hell's judgement#mummy papa#ghs death#ghs dr fritz#drawpile#ok im done its like 5 am
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He just doesn’t understand
#OK SO BASICALLY this is a transfem/gender fluid sanji comic#sanji’s putting on makeup the way he learnt during the timeskip and then zoro walks in#zoros like oh its ok perona put me in makeup too and it was nice to try and show sanji hes supportive#sanji thanks him for it but cant bring himself to tell zoro that he’s dressing up to express his not-cis identity#HENCE SOME OF HIS HAIR FALLS BACK TO HIS FACE#HES HIDING HIS TRUE SELF#but both of his eyebrows are showing so he’s atleast facing his fear of judgement#i should write a fanfic with this idea or something#i have so many more ideas for this headcanon but so little time#thanks for reading if you did#trans sanji#sanji#vinsmoke sanji#zosan#roanoa zoro#one piece#one piece comic#hes so pretty i just wanna eat him like a marshmallow
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I'm sorry tumblr user demilypyro for my strong opinions on the most popular girls name from 1996 to 2007 :( it WILL happen again #banthenameemily2024
#ok despite better judgement im going to be genuine the tags lol... when i was in middle school where was five. FIVE. Emily A's#so i couldnt even go by Emily A. I was Emily A 3. and i always felt like the outlier. the emily that was wrong.#it felt like a club i shouldnt have been a part of. none of the nicknames fit. no one would call me anything else.#i know. 2 or 3 trans women who go by emily now and im like#how do you find peace and comfort in an identity i never did#its strange that emily has always felt like a costume im wearing incorrectly and its the truth for other people#i think. for lack of a better terms#i have always been jealous of the fact people can change their names and have it stick. jealous of people how find happiness in womanhood.#anyway#you named yourself emily????#l + cringe +lmaooooo#I will be running for president under these terms
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the fact that people are against pirating shows and movies amazes me. people really be out here RENTING Barbie for $25 on amazon and I'm sitting here watching it for free without ads.
some people have this, like. unwavering loyalty to companies who squeeze all the money they can out of them, and thats just. beyond me.
#piracy#streaming sites#bugsoda#bro what are you doing!!#if you have a streaming site. ok!! you can have that!! no judgement!!#thats one thing#its a complete other thing to see you have to pay $25 to RENT a movie#recognize that you could be getting it for free. and without ads.#and then be like. thats morally wrong!! fuck you!! and proceed to pay?? what??
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kingdom hearts' 21st anniversary
#kingdom hearts#kh#kh1#kh2#kh3#flashing tw#I LIED ON MY REBLOG FROM 2 HOURS AGO I AM MAKING A NEW GIFSET#i made this so quickly and i made up the method for the graphic but i think it looks ok!!#granted its 2am so my judgement may be skewed but i just wanted to make something for the anniversary :)
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Snake Gets Done Dirty
Remember, Clear Sky can NEVER have a consequence for his actions. Ever. If you're ever mad at him for any reason, YOU will be punished for being upset. Clear Sky is allowed to do anything he wants to you but if you don't start slurping you're the Real Bad Guy.
Snake: "FUCK YOU! YOU'RE THE REASON WHY THIS HAPPENED"
Clear Sky: "uhhh... well..... oopsie uwu"
Snake:
But don't worry, Snake is punished for the high crime of embarrassing Clear Sky by being dogpiled by the Clap At Baby Crowd.
Because, AGAIN, god forbid Clear Sky ever suffer a consequence of his actions.
WHY ARE YOU BOOING HIM, HE'S RIGHT
Clear Sky poses this dumb speech about fighting One Eye like it's some big, beautiful, selfless act of service. He was ALWAYS going to do this-- HE WANTS HIS AUTHORITY BACK. He's ALWAYS been an ambitious asshole who hates taking orders from other people, and will clobber anyone who embarrasses him or offends his massive ego.
He's been like this since SUN TRAIL. He's ALWAYS been controlling and fragile with a hunger for power. There has NEVER been a version of Clear Sky that wouldn't have wanted to kill One Eye for taking his toys away, humiliating him publicly.
His piss-poor judgement has gotten DOZENS of people killed in pointless border skirmishes, in the First Battle, and now AGAIN to this tyrant. He had a fit like a child when people tried to warn him it was a bad idea, and he didn't listen!
Snake is the first cat who's done anything about it at this point. The only one who doesn't immediately cave and forgive him after Clear Sky puts on a display of crocodile tears. It's LONG overdue!
And yet, all these cats still gather around to come to his aid. They have NO reason to do this. Clear Sky has proven, OVER AND OVER, that he should NOT HAVE ANY AUTHORITY OVER PEOPLE. These cats have NO reason to trust him, they've all been screamed at, smacked around, and buried mauled loved ones because of him.
They've seen, at most, a month of two of peace under him following the greatest massacre in history, broken by yet ANOTHER bad call.
Writer's pet! Some guy on the writing team ABSOLUTELY projects themselves onto Clear Sky as some kind of power fantasy. There's no other explanation for this level of utter ineptitude.
#Snake dotc#gif#dotc hate#it's ok that snake has bad judgement with slash later I forgive him#quite frankly I think they did it on purpose so it would make snake less justified in hindsight#Same way they made One Eye Born Evil so he'd make Clear Sky look less bad in comparison#Because this arc snaps its spine bending over backwards for this awful character#Ties itself in knots like a pretzel
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COMMISSNYAN
Commission Sale (Aug. 24th - Sept. 1st, 2023)
Regular Commission Info
#rgg#ryu ga gotoku#judgement#lost judgement#takayuki yagami#commission#snap sketches#this is the third time ive drawn yagami and compared to the first time its actually so funny#i only draw him when im commissioned to and so when you go back to check the first comm i did back in like. march#its SOOOO different#its cause ive watched kimura films now... i KNOW hes a real dude now... its important i try to get it right..#ok bye im working on my last comm now
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I am actually so sick of my tl on twt being flooded by complaints like be so freaking for real if you hate the game just leave stop playing it I promise it’s okay
#WAAAWAAAWAAA THEY DONT HAVE LATINO VAS#LISTEN alhaitham had a half Palestinian VA yk what he did ? BUTCHER EVERY ARAB NAME and so did everyone else#there’s other Arab vas and they too butchered their names. I hate it too#them vas being of the race the natlan characters are will NOT fix that problem ok because they can white wash the pronounciation like crazy#and yk what it’s lowkey WORSE if it’s an Arab va cause then everyone thinks that’s how you pronounce that name#when in reality it sounds as atrocious as nails on chalkboards BE FR#SMHHHHH#and it’s a new complaint every freaking day like what the heck#first it’s skin colour second it’s imaginary complaints like the vas nationality PICK A STRUGGLE#if you truly hated the game you would’ve quit. outright you would’ve quit#but the reason you don’t quit is cause the issues you claim to care so deeply about are things#you do not care ENOUGH about and hoyo has you wrapped around#their pinkies so if you’re gonna complain; then complain properly and QUIT THE GAME#I am so sick of everyone complaining and polluting the atmosphere#like yall can I say something controversial? when it was sumeru i genuinely do not care enough because it is not that bad#for the level of rep we are getting sure there’s some mistakes but if you’re gonna#sit here and whine about everything you would NEVER be satisfied#sure the inaccuracies are annoying BUT ITS ONLY MILDLY SO#now pls like … if you truly are a justice warrior quit the game alr and prove you care about these#“major issues” if I as a swana person who IS disappointed in some aspects of sumeru yet it is not that atrocious as you all claim it to be#then I think you natlan folks whining like the trumpet of the day of judgement has been blown should really pipe down a tad bit#dora daily
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the pandora hearts au as promised LOLL
im gonna guess this au makes 0 fucking sense unless u’ve read ph but u can read my 4am summary under goodluck
its the glen and child of ill omen situation between mykr, with kuros red eyes it was honestly kind of perfect. they were all part of this fancy victorian academy, and are known as the class that mysteriously disappeared some hundred years ago, and its bc of nana. maya does the succession thing and tosses clau into the abyss and everything falls apart. nana is devastated and pulls a xerxes to get an audience with the will of the abyss. she creates for her a chain, the Prince, that lets her rewind back to the day of the succession, and drag all of her classmates into a dimension where time rewinds from the start of the yr to the succession. naturally at somepoint hikaris like “where is my childhood bestie karen :(” and she goes looking for her. and before long she’s able to infriltrate into nana’s dimension. shit goes down from there
im thinking like they eventually do all get out of the dimension, but at the cost of maya staying behind. mykr have this ouughgg super dramatic like “I find you again, promise you’ll wait for me” parting while claudine is getting dragged towards the light and everythings crumbling around them and maya just looks up at her super emo and promises. they land back in the normal world a few hundred years into the future, and then its claudines Get her gf back quest
#revue starlight#mayakuro#my art#tendo maya#saijo claudine#pandora hearts#man this is incoherent#honestly idek if this sort of time travel is allowed in the canon#or if someone who gets their ass judgemented like the children of ill omen can exist again#if i remember correctly i think they get like super exploded and nothing of them remains#omg also the time logistics#its all ok tho i just want mykr to be angsty#but who knows i might rework this more#theyre definitely more og oswald/jack/lacie gang sooo i might be able to do something with baby elle?
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the thing that gets me abt religious ppl is they'll demand u respect their religion & that religion hating your existence but they won't respect ur right to be like yea my belief says god isn't real so thats a dumb reason for hating other people or ye ok then ur god is homophobic thats kinda shitty they go APESHIT like. it goes both ways? like they can say i hate gay ppl bc of my religion but when a gay person says well i dont respect that religion bc it doesnt respect me its ww3. I'm not walking on eggshells for people who are too quick to condemn me to hell
#likeeee. ppl have been homophobic to me bc 'their religion condemns it' but i cant be like ok well then fuck ur religion?#but they can say okay fuck you and be hateful and intolerant like that?#why do i tolerate u if u wont tolerate me? im just#like to me as an atheist/agnostic im like. hearing that something i dont even think is real is why u hate me as a person is so insane#like 'its unnatural and wrong bc my religion says so' like ok. why does that have to affect me as someone who doesnt follow said religion#jusr wish more religious ppl were as understanding and non judgemental as they claim they are??#like ur gna say that shit to me? u think god likes that ur speaking for him rn? u rly see urself on the same level as god?#u think YOU can judge others? embarrassing#*smacks own ass* this baby can fit so much religious trauma#i love religion sm for some ppl but then other aspects of it im like why cant yall just modify this as society progresses#them books old as hell them writers didn't even know electricity but ur talking their word abt an entire group of ppl being wrong & evil?#i like when religious ppl apply the teachings to modern society & take into account how shit has changed#when ppl take the good parts of religion and focus on them and bring that religious warmth w them where they go is so nice#(my friends<333)#like they live by them teachings and are good ppl but dc abt divorce or abortion or gays bc society has changed & ppl ultimately deserve#control of their own bodies and shouldnt have to be trapped in bad partnerships#& girls who love other women and dont agree w the typical 'woman serve men' that a lot of religious old folk got goin on#if u can modify some stuff in the religious books whats stopping u extending that grace to literal people just being who they are
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after the 5th anniversary poster released, i finally finished the macaque-focused courtesy call amv that has been sitting in my files for months now, and given the s5 trailer drop today, this seems like as good a time as any to post it lol. might make some edits later but here's version 1, looking forward to watching more monkie kid!!
Song: Courtesy Call by Thousand Foot Krutch
Program: Kdenlive
#lego monkie kid#monkie kid#lmk#lmk macaque#six eared macaque#amv#video#darkscales attempts videos#this is probably an unpopular opinion but tbh i don't think the animation from the new studio looks /that/ bad?#like ok its not exactly the same#and there were some frames that i was squinting at like “is that... a purposeful style change or what”#but im reserving judgement until the actual episodes are out#nobody likes an adjustment period ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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i really love this post and i also think it sums up . the au really well
#ff7 monhun au#i do not think this one is deserving of Tags bc its so messy#nnyway zack and tifa ARE friends in this au but they DO try to kill each other first. it's a really great time#be tifa lockhart. find cloud strife your old friend and also giant man (zack fair) passed out outside of your town#take in your old friend. against your better judgement and the judgement of barret wallace take in the giant man#decide youre overreacting and things will probably be ok#he wakes up#HE TRIES TO KILL YOU#Sorry actuall this au is jusyt my thinly veiled expression of zack being more unhinged than any canon will give me#implaying TOUYS !!#also zack is smiling like a threat. i think he does that in canon. To me . In my mind palace#regardless of au i think zack fair would Threat Smile like an animal
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obviously i think its good to grow out of mocking people relentlessly especially to their face but honestly i think people should also grow a bigger backbone with regards to like. someone saying their interest is lame or sucks. like a lot of people have turned the idea of 'oh we need to kill the idea of cringe culture and public shaming for harmless fun' to 'i have to take every post against my interests personally and people should never complain about anything so that they dont hurt my feelings'
#that post going around thats like. ohhhh youre bullying people by saying peoples music tastes are like tumblr transmasc music or whatever#is like. i dont think its that deep. i think its better in the long run to realise that no matter what you do some people will find you#deeply 'cringe' and being ok with it and focusing on your own circle of likeminded people instead#like i dont know. ive had a special interest in prog rock for the past 4 years at this point and theres plenty of jokes to go around with#that. some people will think im cool about it others will think im the lamest fucking guy. oh well#a more apt comparison even actually. ive liked jack staubers music for years and years and idgaf about people who think of him as a#'white transmasc tumblr user music artist' like. its music i just listen to it. if someone makes that judgement its on them#.mid#and like i get the point of the post and i agree you shouldnt like. respond to people talking about their interests that way but if youre#just complaining in a vacuum like who cares
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talking 2 my mom n crying realizing just how little she realizes or chooses to acknowledge how badly my upbringing fucked me up how being isolated and deprived of basic care has built Me.................like. i . im not allowed to be cared for. im not allowed even as an adult when suddenly she expects me to be able to do everything including go to the doctor n the dentist and do everything flawlessly when i have never had a chance to learn or be anything but terrified. i cant go to the dentist no matter how bad the pain gets or how disgusted i am of myself like i have been since i was a literal child because I'm Not Allowed. i cant just take that and switch it the other way suddenly because im an adult i dont know hwo to train myself out of it. all ive ever known is just Wait. wait it out it doesnt matter how much pain im in it doesnt matter what im going through just Shut Up and Wait.
#i want to be a real person more than anything thats all i have ever wanted.#but i dont know how#and she acts like its so easy#and she just gets mad at me for how useless i am#and it makes it harder#i cant do anything with her watching me#i cant be myself#if i even exist#the judgement is too much. the constantly expecting a punishment for every single thing i do#i was never allowed to talk to anyone but suddenly im expected to to and be fucking level 10 charisma#no fear#just an instant expert#i am so alone n i am scared#i dont know how to do anything#and i am humiliated#every second i feel nothing but agonizing shame#even when im alone#im never free of any of it i can never be ok#because i dont fit anywhere in the world
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