#intentional goals

[simplyselicia]

This is a month in my life for February 2024, and the real life moments I'm showcasing are glimpses into how I'm working on maintaining my intentional goals even through setbacks. It's hard to plan for every single scenario that's going to come your way, especially with such an emotional hit that having a sick pet or family member can give you. For me, even during the hardest moments I did feel some comforts in the ritual of still working on maintaining my small business, keeping my health a priority, and sticking to meal planning. That's not the whole story, and it's all still incredibly hard, but I keep weathering storms anyway.

[teaboot]

tranny freak :)

[ticklace]

Why would you intentionally try to make your lee safeword when instead you could tease them over the fact that they haven't?

I mean, consider:

"No stop you're killing me!"

"Do I hear a 'time out'?"

"No please not there!!"

🎶 "I don't hear a 'time outttt'..." 🎶

"I'm dying! I'm dying!"

"If only there was something you could say to make me stop..."

"SHUTUP"

"It's *almost* like you don't actually want me to stop at all..."

"SHUTUPSHUTUPSHUTUP"

"If I didn't know better, I'd suspect you might even be enjoying yourself..."

[flustered hysterics]

[chubbybunnieats]

180 is really looking good on me😳

[my-autism-adhd-blog]

An Autistic Meltdown…

Is NOT a temper tantrum

Does NOT have a goal

Can happen with or without people around

Makes an autistic person vulnerable

Does NOT want to hurt anyone

Is NOT intentional

Is the result of some sort of overload

Lil Penguin Studios/Autism Happy Place

[edwinisms]

it’s actually so wild to me that this fairly quirky YA type show gave both of its main characters deaths that can, in one way or another, solidly be considered hate crimes. they were both flat out murdered as a result of being A) gay and effeminate or B) brown (south asian, specifically) and you could argue whether or not those kids thought of it that way in the moment or whatever but the bottom line is that they would not have been in the situations that killed them if they weren’t of their respective minorities. like legitimately that is a ballsy choice for this kind of netflix show, let alone for the two Main Characters, and i respect it big time

[jbmar]

twitter is crazy because somebody like sunday can say plain as day “i hate the idea of ‘survival of the fittest’ because i view myself as weak and understand how other fellow weak people feel, so i want to make a paradise where the weak and strong are equal and everybody can be protected under my watchful gaze” with very clear connotations towards catholicism/orthodoxy, the sacrifice of christ, and ‘the ones who walk away from omelas’ by ursula le guin (a story about a perfect utopian world that only remains such at the expense of a small child below the surface that is left alone to suffer) and be equated to that of a fascist ableist in support of real world eugenics that wants to kill minorities to create a perfect paradise.

tldr; learn to read before you make your ‘informative threads.’

[unganseylike]

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“Love Like Ghosts" // The Raven Cycle

When your true love is destined to die, is already dead, or will always be leaving. And other moments of ghostliness. 

[bigttsgoodheart]

i see a lot of ppl criticizing hiro’s decision to kinda “nerf” juvia and this is my take on it.

i think it has a lot to do with her backstory and not her love for gray. she didn’t get nerfed bc she fell in love. we can see that the only person who “accepted” and “cared” for juvia was the phantom lord’s master and that the only reason was for her powers.

but now that she is in fairy tail she doesn’t feel like she needs to be acknowledged in terms of power, the only thing she wants is to be loved and actually appreciated. we can see how her physical and mental strength develops but only when she wants to help her friends (not only gray). the fantasia arc for example, the tower of heaven arc, the tartarus arc.

we can also see she isn’t particularly interested in further developing her powers but she does it to be able to protect her friends bc she already has all she ever wanted. she’s always been powerful but all she ever wanted, like i js mentioned, is to be loved.

i don’t know if i explained this very well but this is how i see hiro’s decision to put aside juvia’s abilities and focus more on her relationships. i get that it can get frustrating but i rlly do think it reflects well on her backstory.

[positiveupwardspiral]

[bittsandpieces]

does dick size matters to you? 5 inch is small? easily deepthroatable?

I've answered basically this exact ask so many times so here's the final permanent answer: five inches is average. It also doesn't matter if your dick is small, anyone can be equally good or bad at sex. I've had both great and terrible sex with people with big dicks and people with small dicks. It. Does. Not. Matter.

But addressing the last bit specifically, "easily deepthroatable", I'd like you to go find a five inch object to shove in your throat all the way to the base right now and tell me if it's easy. Porn has corrupted your brain into thinking gag reflexes are much more flexible than they are and I'm here to tell you that most people's bodies will not allow any degree of deepthroating to happen regardless of dick size

[nebulaedaniel]

since we’re now talking about the racism in the phandom, i’m very glad it’s being brought to light so thank you to @dapg-otmebytheballs @demonqueenart and everyone else talking about this, i want to talk about cancel culture.

now i’m as white as they come, so before reading any of this i need you all to read the posts made by some of the people starting this conversation. here’s some links. xx xx xx xx xx

the reason i want to bring this up is because it’s something i noticed in a lot of the posts bringing up the behavior that dnp have/have had. its bizarre to me that we as a society, but especially we as a fandom, feel the need to disclose that bringing up problematic behavior isn’t an attack or call to ‘cancel’ someone!

to be able to have an open discussion where people CAN evolve and learn, bad behaviors need to be brought up without the immediate assumption that the person talking about it wants to bring harm to the other.

i am not here to defend dan and phil, they are well old enough to have these realizations on their own and stand for their actions, but, without the space to point out these behaviors, there will be no change. if these questions are being brought up within fandom spaces, why assume that the person means harm? excuse my metaphor but why would they set fire to their own house? i can understand wanting to take something with a grain of salt if it was coming from someone not in the fandom spaces at all, or someone not familiar with dan and phil whatsoever, but since it is the fans bringing this up, the absolute least you can do is believe them and listen.

wanting to see change is far from the same as wanting to see someone ‘canceled’ or lose their platform. these discussions are good and important to have, and i want to again thank everyone who has taken time of their days to speak up about this. it’s labor you shouldn’t have to do, and i really hope that we as a fandom learn from this. i know i will.

[x-ladydisdain-x]

Sing is literally a piece of genius. They made a bad pop song with simple but very direct lyrics, the kind of thing that would get itself on teen choice awards and glee and pop radio stations but still very clearly get their point across. an infiltration of mainstream culture. using the very thing they were critiquing, mainstream media, as a platform to spread the message to a larger audience who hadn’t been exposed to that kind of thinking yet. the people who really needed to hear it, who were the people who wouldn’t have paid attention to the same message being conveyed in the same style as their music on the black parade or earlier, the people, specifically younger people still trying to find a place in the world, who would have been consuming exclusively mainstream pop. popular tv shows, teen pop culture award shows, pop radio, etc all spreading the words “they’re gonna sell what tomorrow means” “raise your voice every single time they try to shut your mouth” “cleaned up, corporation progress, dying in the process” “I am not the singer that you wanted but a dancer, I refuse to answer” “wrote it for the ones who want to get away - keep running”

sing accomplished exactly what it was created for, it was executed perfectly in that regard

[myrmica]

its so funny that all minute—the guy who once upon a time hoped to redeem zam—'s team has accomplished is getting him to consider giving up his remaining honor in order to match the level they're playing on ?

[honorarypines]

[chrisrin]

took a stab at what i interpret rose and dave's fusion to look like from this fic written by @red-elric