#if you’ve historically taken ‘yes’ poorly then you’ve proven that the question is a trap
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It’s also important to be braced for a “yes” so you’re ready to say “okay, I’m sorry you weren’t feeling comfortable saying that without my asking you directly, let’s talk about it”
They should make a "are you mad at me" that is taken neutrally and informationally every time and doesn't make everything worse when you ask it
#if you’ve historically taken ‘yes’ poorly then you’ve proven that the question is a trap#if you’ve historically punished people for asking then you’re also laying traps#communication takes two
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