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furiousgoldfish · 2 years ago

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abusers will go 'it's okay that you suffered because I learned from that and it made me a better person' when they've learned absolutely nothing, and it made them nothing but an abuser proud of using another person as a sacrifice

#abusers #child abuse #psychological abuse #abusers depicting their abuse as growth #if they're not breaking down in shame guilt and rempent #they haven't even felt on their skin what they truly did to you #changing would mean they experience in detail just how horiffic they are #and they have to feel guilt shame and regret and terror over it #otherwise they're just manipulating you into thinking that something good happened when it didn't #they just wanna abuse more and to convince you thats its correct to let them #gross behaviour #emotional manipulation #emotional abuse

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