#if anyone has cute polyam wedding ideas even tho we're years off it tag me in them and we should create a list for polyam fams everywhere

[queer-polyam-emperor-penguin]

Oh yeah; just because it's been like three days and I'm still not over it: my best friend was in a wedding scene for a TV show on Stan and neglected to tell me her polyamorous best friend that it was A TRIAD WEDDING until like 3yrs later, despite regularly talking about her experiences on that set with that cast and crew, until we were both on Pinterest looking at things for our little polycules future wedding plans.

And the reason was because I said 'I don't even know how the order for our triads wedding would go, like I can kinda picture it for a quad but it's not like I've ever seen one in media.'

AND THATS WHEN SHE TELLS ME SHE THE WEDDING SHE WAS A GUEST IN WAS A MLMLM TRIAD! (It's also in a show neither of us actually watch hence why I'd never seen the scene before... and if anyone's curious, it's tiger king on Stan. It's weird af and I noped out of watching it bc ptsd and it's not my sense of humour anyway)