#i saw someone say that 'futch isn't a real thing'

[holisticknight]

dont mind me just trying to find a way to metaphysically rip off my own skin and shape it into something that doesn’t fill me with discomfort and rage

[focafurineuvi]

hi :) i really appreciate you as a futch! i never saw someone say that they are before (just haters) so i didn’t ever think about it as an obvious potential answer to how i’ve felt really fluid and torn and stuff. so to my discovery, it really resonates with me. (if you know any constructive resources talking more about it that would of course be welcome, but i’m already looking for that myself, so my real point is to say-) THANK YOU I LOVE YOU! 🩷🩵💙

FUTCH 2 FUTCH LOVE AND SOLIDARITY!!! 🩵🩵🩵 this ask is so sweet and it's such an honor to be like. Visibly and Openly Futch in the kind of way that might help people realize the label is an option? if that makes sense :') it is very hard to find anyone talking about futch that isn't "ummmmm futch isn't real bc was MADE UP for the butch/femme scale meme" (as if labels are not just humans making things up to make sense of themselves but......anyway!) which is part of why it's so important to me to be openly and loudly futch. bc how can futch not be real if i'm right here. poses

anyways. i wish i had more i could share in terms of constructive conversation and resources about the futch label but i've kind of just been winging it :') but my inbox is always open so if there's nothing else, there's always gonna be me sitting here always down to talk about thoughts and experiences with identity

i hope the holiday season has been treating you well, and that the new year comes to you kindly! mwah mwah