#i genuinely just dont understand why everyone has to find dislike and discomfort in everything

[faeroseate]

can we all like, instead of saying smth is cringe just admit that some things just arent for us and call it a day? Like, when did it become the norm to call everything cringe? Someone liking or playing smth that was popular 5+ years ago isnt cringe. Someone listening to a controversial artist isnt cringe. If there's something you dont particular like or you dont agree with someone with that's totally okay and actually normal. Not everything is meant for you and either it got lost along the way or wasnt mentioned enough but we were all created to be unique and different. We're gonna find people who have similar interests as us and we're gonna find people who have opposite interests, that's just life. But not everything is cringe because you dont like it or you find it weird

[jhuntingtonthethird]

just another rant

I hate everything that comes with stan twitter. People police you on how to act and for a few times it was okay, but then it came down to the silliest requests which I can understand that yes, disabled people need more accessibility to socmed, BUT to expect everyone to obey you is a little too much? I hate anxiety inducing tweets like "if you don't retweet this right now then you're racist! homophobic! classist! Keep this on your profile to avoid being softblocked!" make it seem like everyone has an obligation to spread politics on their social media. There is a lack of genuine feelings for politics, and it's more so just peer pressure to be active in politics. In my opinion it's okay to spread politics, as long as the message comes across but bullying people to do it is just too demanding and too weird? like idk about you but if my comfort space was to go on twitter look at kpop memes i would not want to see children being starved posted on twitter with all the millennials trying to act like white knights to save the poor kids, when in reality the picture being shared was a picture from 2003 and those kids would have already been saved by volunteers. I don't like aid. Aid foundations are sometimes sketchy, and I dont think food aid is enough. You would need to give pads and tampons to women who cant afford the transportation to go to a store for a pad or young girls who are forced to stay at home from school because they cannot buy tampons. You need to give the people the necessary tools to build themselves up from the ground so they wont need to be spoonfed by white knights who think they're underdeveloped because they don't wear shoes. I have a lot of problem with aid but since we're talking about stan twitter I JUST HATE HOW THEY MAKE YOU FEEL SO SHITTY like yes i wanna be part of this community, oh I have to retweet these mentally damaging pictures of global warming to be your friend? ok i can do that... oh you want me to completely change my layout to support blm and to put pronouns and to put my flags down all for other people to look at? ok but its not really a dating profile where i need other people to know me that much. oh okay now my moots are talking to antis and trolls and i have to deal with that daily? alright i'll just softblock them! oh this moot unfollowed me because i didnt unfollow another moot who ended up being problematic... well there's more people. i don't think that just because someone was accused of lying about their age is something to be upset about. yeah, they're fake but this drama really is so boring. if you need me to unfollow someone they have to either sexualise the idol so much to the point of discomfort or harrassing others and sending gore pictures to them. even then, it's all so upsetting! i joined this space because i wanted to look at kpop girls! why is it suddenly become such a struggle just to prove myself as an ally... i don't enjoy having to constantly see gruesome things on my feed when obviously i can be happy without seeing it. i know people will say "oh black people have to experience this first hand so if this makes you uncomfortable then it doesnt measure to how much we endured just being black" YES I AGREE but I dont think its necessary to be actively progressive, some people want to have quiet lives and fight for their own struggle. we recognise our privilege and help however we can. it's still necessary to take a break from socmed if things bother us too much. do you think i enjoy seeing muslims being murdered especially when i was raised as a muslim? no so you excused black people for not being online during the blm protests so you should also excuse others to be offline without them having to explain why. anyways on the kpop aspect, i absolutely hate the unpopular opinions trend when people bring down other artists and the stupid fans keep replying to the thread getting all offended when clearly the thread is meant to cause uproar and to offend the fans so the fans will hate the person with a jimin profile picture. it's all a game to trolls. sometimes that

wouldve been avoided if we all just blocked people as soon as we see something we dont like and i've been doing that for months now... i have too many people i blocked including some of my own followers. I hate orbits who make fun of new orbits bcs they recently discovered loon through 2017-2018 memes of them and now are calling choerry's fans cockroach and calling gowon as gowon minaj and crunchy. these old orbits police them like "IN 2020, do this: dont find old memes funny bcs if you do you're cringe and you're an awful fan" the humor has always been dry and unfunny, even today their idea of what humor is is so disappointing. like "OMG WHITE CIS MALE MAN TALKING ABOUT LOONA STAY AWAY FROM HER". the stan language itself is so unfunny "NOT YOU LIKING LOONA YOU GAY BOY". i guess its the trend now but i find it so difficult to contribute to the conversation IRL is someone talks in tiktok. anyway even if it is unfunny you cant tell someone that they cant find old memes funny anymore. you're allowed to dislike it for sure. but telling new fans to not enjoy memes that encouraged them to stan loona? you're just scaring them. anyway bye i have to talk to my boyfriend now i might add later on but what are the chances of me even writing it lmao