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#i have a stomach ache and i'm playing totk rn. BUT HERE U GO!!#FOUND ABOUT THIS IDEA BY THE LOVELY MOOT @alypink !!#VincentGaz#art#cod#artists on tumblr#illustration#oc x canon#canon x oc#cod oc#call of duty oc#COD OC: Vincent 'Shy-Guy' Barclay#my oc#gaz#kyle garrick#kyle gaz garrick#gaz cod#cod gaz#call of duty#mw#call of duty art#ship art#doodle#fanart#artwork#my art#drawing#lu's canvas#wrylu#i don't care everyone is gay
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if you're a white person taking pleasure in the idea that Trump voters of colour are experiencing racist violence from white trumpers because "they got what's coming to them" I don't think you're anti-racist at all, I think you were just waiting for an acceptable target, and you're also fucking weird.
Bad Person Deserves Punishment For Their Sins give me a fucking break and get yourself out of the fucking catholic church. you're all prison abolitionists until you see someone you don't like.
#assholes still do not deserve to be victims of bigotry#people will crow this up and down until they find someone they think is a big enough asshole to really deserve it#watch your cognitive dissonance kids#i really am only speaking to white people here. as a white person.#POC can feel however they feel.#though i still don't think it's an appropriate sentiment to turn into Political Praxis there is of course a need to vent#like idk i don't find any marginalised suffering under fascism funny. i think it's fucking sad.#i think it is sad when right wing gay people experience homophobia and i think it is sad when right wing trans people experience transphobia#and when right wing disabled people experience ableism and when right wing women experience misogyny#leopards eating faces is funny when it's about like. rich people or misogynists or whatever it's.#do you understand that this is punching down?#why are we wasting our energy hoping for the victimisation of specific marginalised people#this would be a great time to do some outreach but instead everyone is just fucking MOCKING THEM#you're so fucking stupid you don't care about The Cause you care about Winning#this shit makes me furious.#have some compassion#the system speaks#USpol#Trump#racism#politics
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ultimately when it comes to shipping and fandom space treatment of aspec characters i just don't accept "aro/ace people can still date/have sex" as an answer from nonaspecs. like yeah. mhm. okay. now i think we both know that you're not saying that out of real interest in the diversity of aspec experiences. so you can turn in your seventeen-page essay on why and how you plan to examine this character's aspec identity within the context of a romantic or sexual relationship complete with evidence from canon and peer reviews from multiple aspec people within the next week or i'm putting you in the pit from the edgar allen poe story
#you know. the one with the pendulum#'hey. why are you as an allo person shipping this aspec character like this'#'oh aspec people can still date/have sex!'#'yeah. now can you answer the question that i actually asked you'#like goddamn just say you don't care they're aspec and you want to fulfill a sexual/romantic fantasy with them. that's Fine#it like. sucks. for sure. lotta aspec people will be unhappy with you. but everyone is entitled to their own wants and experiences.#but i'd prefer you just be honest with it rather than using our community's conversation points as retroactive justification#and ONCE AGAIN. you guys are real fucking cavalier with this shit and it shows a real fundamental lack of respect for aspecs#when most of you would NEVER ship a canonically gay character with the 'other' gender. cause again. it would suck.#you can do it. nobody's Stopping you. but it would suck.#and we understand that putting a queer character in situations that erase that queerness is shitty! until it comes to aspec characters!#and whoa... there it is again... people don't consider aspec identities to be queer... crazy how it always comes back to that#anyway. you all know what i'm talking about. have seen many posts about this lately#it is [ long sigh ] unfortunately a very hot button issue with the advent lately of alastor hazbinhotel#which. again. god i wish there were other canon aspec characters to be having this conversation about.#but we'll have to do our best with what we have#aromantic#aromanticism#arospec#aroace#talking#aspec#asexual#asexuality
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the only thing about satin gay discourse is that the nw guys are calling him slurs because he was a prostitute not because of his actual sexuality. i go back and forth about what i think about it but i’ve settled on it not mattering LOL
i mean yeah definitely but they dislike that he's a prostitute because a) that's a woman's job and b) he took male clients. the conflation of a woman's role and sexuality is really intrinsically linked, like that's part of why homophobia exists, is this idea that a man would be happy and willing to "play the role" of a woman in a romantic or sexual relationship is bad, and that being "the woman" in a relationship is dirty and, ya kno, gay lmao. like, whether or not satin likes men or not, they're calling him slurs because they think he's gay because he had male clients, he took a "woman's" role, he's pretty and educated, and doesn't conform to westeros' idea of masculinity. i do think what a lot of people miss - especially the dudebros on redit lolll - is that homophobia and misogyny really go hand in hand a lot of the time. hatred of queerness is tied to hatred of women and vice versa and i think a lot of the nw really drives home that specific point (see: sam, danny flint, the wildling woman warriors, etc) but trying to get reddit to acknowledge something as simple as "homophobia and misogyny bad" let alone "let's explore the ways in which homophobia and misogyny feed into each other and how these men would rather shoot themselves in their own heads then ever admit someone feminine might not be the devil themself" is an admittedly hopeless crusade.
#asks#valyrianscrolls#satin flowers#i know he doesn't go by flowers but that's how everyone tags him and i don't give a care aldsjf#i hope this doesn't come across mean i agree with u anon they are calling him slurs bc of his job but they dislike his job bc of homoophobi#as well as misogyny. satin doesn't do gender correctly and in an even more heinous way than sam bc at least sam likes women.#but a dude who doesn't realize JON FUCKING CONNINGTON is gay is not gonna pick up on that. they probably agree aljdflkjdsalkjfsdj
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people making such a big deal out of bucktommy possibly kissing in front of everyone at the wedding as if tim and the cast haven't explicitly said there are no more 'coming out' scenes and that they don't want to make it this big thing, meaning the rest probably will not have much of a reaction other than 'oh that's great ily' and a .5 sec conversation about it. trust the writters! they never disappoint
#911 spoilers#listen i get that in Real Life it would be a Big Fucking Deal but we're talking fantasy world#where if people don't want to make a big deal of it... they won't!#bet buck will be like 'hey so this is tommy... my date' and everyone will be like 'ok cool'#and fucking move on no questions asked! and i love that bc that's what we want for us irl#let the gays be gay whenever and wherever#if you think buck should not be free to kiss his date whenever then just unfollow me for all i care#maddie would not care and so i won't either
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Of my 2% capacity to be attracted to anyone, my type is like 90% women, 5% pretty men and 5% men you would swear are super fucking manly, and never questioned being straight and cis, but are now suddenly *stressed* that they can't figure out why their attraction to me [fully socially interpreted as a woman and labelled that way up until relatively recently] feels incredibly fucking gay
#you are a straight man correct? Yes. Attracted to someone you view as a woman correct? Yes... But you are afraid that makes you gay?#Afraid is a strong word but also stop asking stupid questions#The end result is I tend to date a lot of men who either then realize they are women or bi or gay and I am there when they are taking out#the messiest parts of that on whoever they are with at the time#and on one hand it means I created a space that made them feel safe enough to self examine#but on the other hand I'm their last stop when the fallout hits#OR they just realize they find the expectations put on them for masculinity to be really oppressive even negligent or abusive#I would say I need to adjust my strategy and stop trying to 'woo' men the same way I don't actually -flirt- with women#but I have already solved this problem by refusing to date ever again#The retrospective is funny though#The problem is I am attracted to men in a gay way and to women in a gay way but no one tells you the consequence of that and looking#like a pretty butch is that it really confuses the straight guys#Like why is this guy who's usually hmmm... as dom and masc as you would imagine suddenly in my lap and red and having entire feelings#about the way I am holding his hip? He doesn't knoww either and he's really pressed about it#And that thing messy lesbians do where they act jealous of you and also like they want to fuck you at the same time that looks like a red#flag from hell? Imagine dragging that out of unsuspecting straight guys -menTM-#They don't know why they are acting like that around me either but it's going to go one of two ways#either it will seem overtly threatening and aggressive to everyone involved including themselves or they'll have enough social sense#and tact to be playful about it but still not be sure if they are flirting or whether they like me at all#I have patience for one of those and unfortunately[?] it's the guy who's in my lap looks like he's being tortured and can't find his footin#not the guy telling me how much he's going to beat my ass at some game and I am going to like it or some macho bullshit#And I will be oblivious for the first 50% of it#because if there are gods they are cruel#He never realized he's actually the little spoon be nice and give him a minute#He can't tell me he likes me if he doesn't know he likes me but I opened a jar for him and asked him about his feelings and now he's warm#I actually ended up never dating many women at all because of weird lesbian mixed signals and things#At least not while they were women#I don't flirt or make friends I just decide that people are mine and start taking care of them [while respecting their autonomy and shit]#and I am starting to think this is how I make problems for myself#yes I am playing 5-d chess with gender and am now a he/they but it is not what it is cracked up to be
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starting to identify as aromantic is wild bc. I still don't know if I'm truly aro or if my previous relationship really fucked me up so bad I feel sick at the mere idea of getting back with someone. which one is it? no one knows
#kind of a 'i might be gay but i don't have time for this shit' thing but in an aro and student way#but tbh it doesn't really matter. maybe my identity will change later#right now i feel very aromantic. do not try to flirt with me i will throw up (this is a threat)#so who cares if it might change in the future when i'll feel better? that's how i need to identify rn#anyway. late thoughts. goodnight everyone#léa rambles
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everyone debates about elmike like oh they're the best of friends no they would never hang out on their own they don't even know each other, when the true answer, much like everything else about them, is that there is so so much and also nothing at all
#they're like siblings. not like. freakishly sweet siblings but like. normal siblings you know?#like a sibling is the most distant person you're ever close to. the most intimate stranger#we aren't in each other's lives by choice and if we could choose we probably still wouldn't choose each other#but also I absolutely can't live without you#I would confide my deepest fears and wants and secrets to you and you find that same confidante in me#but we never talk to each other about our interests and we don't care to hear about them either#everything about elmike is just so. everything and nothing#I love you enough I'd die for you and I don't know a thing about you#you're such an inescapable part of me but we're not even friends#like a blank wall in an otherwise filled bedroom#even though you make up a part of the structure of one of the most intimate spaces in my life there's still nothing of me there#like. do you get it. actually does this make any sense. I think I'm just saying shit#alright wrap it up guys everyone go home this post is actually just nonsense maybe#this is actually about how I view elmike in general though like they're everything and nothing they're so interesting and also so boring#like it's about the insaness of the fact they love each other that much they truly do albeit not romantically#but they don't KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT EACH OTHER. THEY'D DIE FOR EACH OTHER THEY DON'T EVEN KNOW EACH OTHERR#THAT'S THE TRAGEDY. THAT'S THE FUCK OF IT ALL#but also at the same time it's so boring because actually it's just every other bad middle school relationship#where you both haven't realized you're gay yet#so. elmike. everything and nothing#stranger things#el hopper#mike wheeler#elmike
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me n my manager are gonna be alone at the office tomorrow after hours and she stunlocked me saying she's getting us dinner and to start thinking about what i want to eat with a lil ;) like ma'am... I'll answer the question but god can i be so fucking real with you right now 😩😵💫 i won't but i want her.. i haven't gotten to be with her in so long I'm kind of nervous (。ノω\。)
i know i won't need to be she is such a sweetie ♡ talking to her is like immediately being enveloped in warmth. ʕ ꈍᴥꈍʔ i am experiencing a whirlwind of emotions and really looking forward to tomorrow. I'm so happy she's back, i love her
#a coworker being a good friend of mine is complicated bc I'm SO different w my friends outside of work n am rly sweet to/w them#and it is very sweet between us and one of the last things we said irl was that we love each other for the first time (。ノω\。)#and idk yk like the sweetness n closeness n affection to a degree are already there BUT I SHOULDN'T#messy gay workplace antics.. her husband ain't shit though so idk 🤷🏾♀️ she takes care of everyone but has to look out for#herself at the end of the day?? especially rn?? well iiii will look out for her and after her and take care of her 😤😤#(´ . .̫ . `) but god to what extent. whatever feels right i suppose but girl... 🙈💕 i don't knowww#I'm going to continue this back and forth in my head now 🫡 but manager posting has Returned#my moon my stars 😩😩😩 YEARNING!! languishing... 🛌🏾 sick with want.#i would do anything for her#mm#← new manager posting tag
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i had a conversation with my aunt today about how the system and politics and basically everything is fucked at the moment (which is true) and she was SO CLOSE to so many points but she never acknowledged that capitalism is the root of so many of those problems... Bestie you're So Close...
#and then she was like “I'm not voting anymore because all patties are bad”#And like she has a point#but don't you think it's more important to stop literal fascists who wanna take people's rights away from coming into power#instead of just Not Participating At All#I didn't wanna say it out loud but that's a very privileged thing to do#idc that you feel discriminated against because you're antivax#there are people literally trying to outlaw gay couples from adopting kids and shit#i'm sorry that i can't simplify be ✨above things✨ that effect me and my friends personally#and I feel like she's coming from a good place because she's not actively bigoted in any way that I know of#but she's so ignorant under the guise of ✨being above political labels and camps✨#??? that doesn't mean you can just ignore problems because “the other side has issues too”#especially if you say you care so much about everyone??? what the fuck#we're always so close to agreeing#but#my post#politics (not american)#vent (sorta)
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🌈 Free the gays from weird heteronormative top/bottom discourse 2k24!!! 🖤 (And by extension, the dom/sub associations that go with it!! Which are also a completely separate though sometimes overlapping concept!!!)
Write your violent angry murder blorbo getting railed!! Make that sweet shy angel baby a top! Make them both verse and throw the concept out altogether because it’s inherently a bit silly to start with!! ✨ And your personality in the rest of your life often has nothing to do with your bedroom preferences anyway! ✨
Or don’t! Do whatever you want because it’s fanfiction! 🥰✨ Write them with whatever dynamics or lack thereof that you want—that’s the point! And no one can tell you what is and isn’t okay to write in your own fics!! 🎊 They're fictional characters, have fun!!!!!
Happy new year fellow fandom gays!!! Go wild!
#sincerely#a real life gay who has been repeatedly mislabeled#by people who will never be in the bedroom with me to find out anyway 😌#and who enjoys representing these kinds of internal dichotomies in my own writing#maybe my violent anger blorbo just wants someone to take care of HIM for once#maybe he wants nothing more than to be fragile and soft and never could be before now#maybe he wants someone to pin him down and fuck him silly and fuzz out his constantly over-vigilant brain#MAYBE HE JUST LIKES TAKING IT UP THE ASS#there are any number of wonderful and fun and awesome reasons#to explore unexpected dynamics in smut fics#and i encourage everyone who wants to to pursue those desires without shame!!#and without fear!!#maybe my sweet soft baby boy blorbo just wants to make his partner feel good and relax for once#maybe he loves so deeply that he can only express it through teeth and ropes#maybe he just finds the fantasy of control super sexy in a world where he otherwise has none#embrace your wildest most “ooc” smut dreams!!!!#because your fanfics are first and foremost for YOU#and don't let anyone else's opinions influence you otherwise 🖤
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i don't know what it is about him but jonathan groff is one of the only men that has ever made me Understand. like i'm as dykey as they come but that man makes me giggle and blush every time he's on my damn television and he has since glee.
#it's called CHEMISTRY and he has it with EVERYONE.#i don't even care about musical theatre! i truly don't get it but i feel it nonetheless#in the club straight up giggling over jonathan groff in this doctor who episode. what is going on.#GET HIM BACK ON THAT SET. MR GROFF STOP DOING MERRILY NOW THE GAY COMMUNITY NEEDS YOU.
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> be a robin buckley fan
> be lesbian
> project on robin
> look up "internalized homophobia robin buckley" on tumblr because it's cathartic
> 3/4 of the posts are about st3ddie or just about steve
#saw one in which steve was like ''no robin you don't understand! i have never been loved! i don't know how that feels like!''#i have several grips about that interpretation#going from the fact that's not true (dustin is clearly a big steve fan + robin herself cares about him deeply)#to the fact he probably wouldn't be introspective enough to voice his emotions this concisely not to mention he'd probably wouldn't take#a moment to realize he's never felt loved if that were the case. i mean. he could think that. when he's like 35 and more in touch with his#inner world. 19yo steve can't even get the hint that hitting on a girl who's already clearly taken (nancy) is wrong so like i don't expect#him to be that smart#but i can live with people having takes i don't agree with. my opinion doesn't have to be everyone else's opinion if you see steve that way#it fine#what bothered me was the fact he was saying this to a lesbian living in the 80s lmao#who tells him that 1) her whole life has been an error 2) she doesn't think he'd want to be close to her if he truly knew her and 3)#3) is paralyzed by fear of social suicide if she dares believe for even a second that the girl she likes may like her too#like i dont need people to do deep dives into robin lore and quote from memory lines from Surviving Hawkins abt robin feeling like she's#rotten inside. not supposed to have friends. feeling like something is wrong with her and that pushes people away etc etc#the fact that she's a lesbian should tell you enough abt who has the biggest chances of being loved 😭#also bothered me that it showed up when looking up posts abt internalized homophobia because?? where's the internalized homophobia therw#unless it's gay steve feeling bad abt it in an AU (as if canon robin didn't go through it)#like look im not bothered to find steve-centric content in the robin tag cos people are gonna tag her in posts mentioning her.#she's his friend.#but there are barely any posts at all about robin's internalized homophobia. like i saw 2 or 3. compared to all the steve or steddie ones#where's the love for my babygirl 😭😭#anti steddie#not really but y'know i don't wanna bother anyone#edit: the bit about there being like 3 posts on robin w internalized homophobia isn't exactly true. there are a few. but they still feel#drowned in st3ddie posts#like something isn't right here
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it's time for eddie diaz to become the main character of 911
#buck I don't care that u miss your boring ex boyfriend that everyone else hated. eddie is having his gay awakening be QUIET#text post
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i have always felt robotic due to my inability to feel romantic love. i see others and imagine beautiful lives with them, but it feels so shallow, as i believe i can only "love" for their appearance. perhaps this is the origin of my masochism - a desire to prove myself wrong, to be vivisected and expose viscera to show the world that i am just like all of you. this is why i long to have my physical form torn away so you may finally consider me human, consider me normal, as normal as you all are. but there is something stopping me from reaching that normalcy. i'd like to think evisceration is an answer, but once my humanity is proven, how will you return my organs in place? how can you ever view me the same?
#random thoughts#........is this me coming out as aromantic? maybe. i'm not sure (':#definitely gay as fuck for men. however. i. imagine lives with them#but i don't know what love would feel like? how does it work? what do you do? such pretty people#i've no idea what anything “romantic” would be. h#did i come to this confusion upon seeing a very pretty person during a local production of a play and not knowing whether i wanted to be him#or be with him and find that the former seemed more appealing? it makes sense as he was a complete stranger#but it's. essentially been the same. with everyone#more so a strange desire to be their friend. i don't. have many. which is unfortunate#all i want is. one friend. who i can spend time with. and be. attached to. a best friend? but#they'd love me. care for me. and i'd do the same for them. we could be in “love” but not show each other. romantic affection#what is this? what am i? i will never know. ever-changing#never so simple with you. unfortunate
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mmm yeah i really don't want them to start adding canon sexualities to all the townies that'd be really fucking stupid
#like /i/ really don't care if you say a character's straight i'll just make them gay i've done it before i'll do it again#but it'd be annoying to fix it every time in cas in a panel i usually forget exists anyway#like who wants this#the sims is not like other games in that respect#it'd be like if they made a villareal mom canon after all these years (which i FEAR)#like. everyone's already made their headcanons and their interpretations. that's like the whole point of the game#anywayyyy i'm gonna go update and see what they've done lmao
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