#i did end up postin the thing C:

[kiwibirdlafayette]

[descends from the heavens like god] YOU CANNOT SUCCUMB TO PEER PRESSURE SOCIAL MEDIA ENGAGEMENT IS A LIE AND MEANS NOTHING YOU MUST KEEP GETTING PROGRESSIVELY WEIRDER AND WEIRDER FOR THE REST OF TIME. NORMAL DOES NOT EXIST AND IN PURSUIT OF TRYING TO GET THERE YOU WILL ERASE YOURSELF AND EVERYTHING YOU LOVE. PURGE THE WEAK. DO MORE FREAK SHIT

AAAAAA GOD JUMPSCARE /very pos

Do not be sorry you are right you are spittin straight facts ‼️‼️ I am committing this to memory, i am pastin it to my wall. i will no longer try to be normal. i shall get weirder you are right. i become sillier i become goofier by the day

this is insanely based of you like thank you so much geniunely ilysm <3 I needed to hear this :']

[dabisbratz]

i love your content so much you don’t even understanddddd!

recently i’ve been trying to get into writing but i’m so scared. i write something and overthink so much i delete the whole thing which is crazy exhausting. that also makes me lose motivation

how do you go about writing??

sorry if this sounds stupid but i need some help. And idk if i’m allowed to talk to you this way bc i’m not a mutual but i just admire your work sm! (_･･_)

feel free to ignore this though if you don’t wanna answer (＾-＾) promise i don’t mind!

thankyouthankyou !! bubs this is so unrelated but omgie !!! your layout is sososososo pretty n nice !! so organized!! m’in love !! ꒰♡˃̶̤́ ꒳ ˂̶̤̀ ꒱

first things first !! easiest way tget over your fear of writin … is postin it. sounds kinda silly n counterproductive but !! s’really the only way ycan get used to it!! ycan try postin silly stuff on a burner f’you want!! but really.. most of the anxiety n fear comes from the initial post n before then!! it’s veryvery worth it afterwards, n you’ll be so confused s’to why ywere scared in the first place !! sometimes all yneed is some encouragement, f’theres anyone ywanna share your work with before postin i highly recommend doin that!! gets some nerves out n yget some good words about your writin to build confidence !!

most importantly.. s’jus for fun! ydont have to write this crazyyy detailed, descriptive, shakespearean type novel with big words n scriptures !! it’s all for fun! you’re not writin for anyone but yourself, yknow? if you like it, that’s enough!! speakin from experience.. tryin t’write somethin for other people never goes well. leads to a lot of burnout n confidence issues :c

instead of deletin what you’ve written, save it n make another fic with the same preface! i did that a lot in my nerd!eren series, n i found that the second time around always ‘felt’ better than the first ! it helps with collectin your thoughts n bein able to put ‘em into words! then if you like that better, try incorporatin it into what you wrote in the first draft ! f’you don’t wanna do that, sometimes y’find that first draft works a lot better for a whole different character or plot point ! c; hold onto everythin y’write !!

usually when mwritin for somethin (especially a request) there’s a scene that they inspire that pops right !! into m’head the second i read it. n i get super excited t’write that scene!! soooo!! m’start there!! right the scene you’re realreal excited for, then work around it. most of the time (at least for me) more n more ideas that would work well with it end up bein added!! that’s what gives a fic y’like personally !

not stupid at all !! n of course you are !! anyone can talk t’me!! but jus so yknow.. we’re mutuals now anyway ;p !! f’there’s anythin else botherin you mcan try mbest to help ໒꒰ྀི ´ . .̫ . ` ꒱ྀིა !

[ask-andante]

Hello. Do you have any advice for someone who is freshly making a character with DID ˙˚ʚ(´◡`)ɞ˚˙?

sorry am late..! i don't check here that often smh

ended up long WOOPS

Honestly I wouldn't consider myself a great source even if I found out abt own system last year aha aha aha...............

Your best bet is to check DID resources/information blogs, but also especially to ask other systems abt your plot/characterization/motivations/etc if it directly involves the system. Gettin a second opinion from several different systems could help u out a lot, I don't remember too much from 2015/2016 but I was in a Discord server years ago w a few systems who I asked w their permission..! https://did-research.org/ iirc this site is good and that's all i got for text stuff ABABABA. sorry i don't have many links, used to just return to them from history or seeing the already clicked on links on google and stuff instead of saving em 0(!

Anything that uses MPD or split personality please take w a grain of salt, those terms are outdated and I've become very wary of anything using them. It could be likely the information they're using is just as outdated as the term [which it was changed in 1994 btw]. i'm sure u prolly know this tho but fer anyone who may not..!

I'd say also check out actuallyDID or similar tags on tumblr and see what people are postin about. I'd warn that there could be vent posts w heavy topics in there tho, that is a big side of the disorder after all. Ofc remember to view those things critically. But gettin an idea of day to day life or struggles and whatnot isn't somethin that typically shows up in a disorder symptom outline list.

https://www.youtube.com/c/DissociaDID/videos this a good channel tho most of their videos had to be privatised, and they can no longer post for the most part. 0( it was really shitty to see happen

https://www.youtube.com/c/TheRingsSystem/videos this system's channel hasn't posted in forever but is also one i liked!! iirc they're going into the field [i can't remember if it was psych or therapy] specifically to learn abt and spread better awareness abt systems! sometimes they even bring other systems onto the channel!! WAAAAA

oh and ofc if u can find one, a meme group abt having system. the one i'm in is on FB tho haha.........

ofc in the end i'd say anythin you might stumble upon, if u have the ability to, ask another system or two if it's pretty accurate or not. but one system doesn't speak for all experiences either, ofc. bit of a tricky situation..!

but ultimately as long as it's respectful and u don't do spooky murderer alter u should be more or less ok haha. it's hard to even just get a character that's even researched honestly.

haha funny meme https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/820137453587005470/912029857834213406/257668227_3181076982120727_1098319046758256954_n.png HAHAHA this one too