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july-19th-club · 4 years

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the butting-in thing though is specifically because. a) if people are talking and you’re not in on it they could be talking about you and you wouldn’t know it and b) if people are talking and you’re not in on it it could be interesting or important and you wouldn’t know it . and because i had an entire childhood full of trying to insert myself into situations and interact because i’m...not extroverted exactly but very inclusion-focused for an introvert and then being told ‘oh never mind it’s not important’ which of course, the instant someone says that, you know it is, they just don’t want you around

anyway i am over halfway through my twenties and have not broken myself of this habit even though i know it makes me come across as annoyingly interruptive and insecure but such is life

#you are having a normal day you are content you are serene you are chitchatting at an audible volume #i arrive specterlike in your field of vision except that. unlike a specter. i am extremely talkative #hey watcha talkin about hey whats goin on hey what're we talkin about #the irony is that i have a different coworker who does the same thing and i HATE it #but it's not the fact that she drops in on conversations it's how close she stands to do it like back UPPPPPPP and then butt in okay babe

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