#dabi.update

[dabi0118]

Hey guys. I wanna address something that I'm sure many of you know by now but, ya know.. I kinda wanna put this here cause I don't want it to be a reoccurring issue.

I know many of you love Dabi and love talking to Dabi and you should know by now that he really enjoys and loves talking to you guys too. He puts so much effort into his responses for you because he truly enjoys the time spent talking to you.

But!

Something that puts us both in an awkward position, is stuff like jealousy (genuine jealousy) and being pushy. Don't get me wrong, Dabi is a very jealous person himself, but he would never stop you guys from interacting with other charanons, yanno? Like. He respects your boundaries and would expect the same from you.

If you send an ask that could potentially make others feel bad, or if you publicize our private sessions without permission, or you genuinely become upset at Dabi for not being there in time for whatever reason (even if you're joking) it puts us both in a weird situation. Not only does this make him uncomfortable, but now he feels like you're emotionally dumping on him and it does put stress on him and I.

We love being there for you, of course, but sometimes we need to be there for ourselves, and obviously he doesn't want to be pressured by your attachment to him.

He's a villain, for one. He won't coddle you if you're putting too much pressure on him.

This also goes without saying but- please be careful with the things you send as it can be potentially triggering.

Also!

This applies to all charanons you talk to. You never know what mods/charanons are going through and dumping your emotional baggage on them might make them feel compelled to push you away and draw harsh lines. Also, being mad at them for not getting back to you quick enough is also toxic. We are real people with jobs, life, issues, trauma, etc, just like you.

I have a lot of love to give, and I'm pretty laid back and patient, but I will put my foot down if I'm uncomfortable.

TLDR: We don't owe you anything nor are we required to interact with you. Thank you for understanding.

Ah. Thank you for taking the time to read this, and if you respect our boundaries as we respect yours, then we can continue to have fun.

Love

Reaper and Touya x

(If you acknowledge this and agree, drop your favorite emoji in the comments below♡)

[dabi0118]

💕Minors💕

This post is for you 🥺

♡♡♡♡

I WILL FIND YOU. I WILL FIND OUT YOU ARE ONE. AND I WILL EXPOSE YOU.

Don't play this game babies, I will not only expose you, but I will report you, block you, and block all your little friends.

♡If you can read this, you can read my giant MINORS DNI before you even scroll down on my account ♡

♡No, I don't care if I lose you as a follower, or if I lose 40 followers♡

♡I hate kids♡

♡If I already blocked you, I blocked you for a reason♡

You can cry, scream, or throw a tantrum like the little babies you are. Go ahead. No really. Please go on. I'd love to see it 😍

Hehe.

Sleep with one eye open.

💖You'll know when playtime is over. 💖

Love always,

Reaper

[dabi0118]

Announcement (4.23)

Hello all. Before Reaper and I come back, we’ve decided due to recent events, unfortunately we are closing this blog-

Hahaha. Just kidding.

Scared ya, huh?

Nah. The real announcement is that we’re going to be beefing up security. Let me lay down some information and ground rules.

First off, information... So ya know what we're up to.

Reaper is currently building and working on a brand new blog. Hopefully she doesn't take her sweet ass time, since I don't pay her to loiter around.

You don't pay me at all??? I pay rent????

Anyway. She's real excited about making it all pretty and shit, but I don't give a fuck. I just wanna get back into things. To be honest, this's all a drag to me, but I guess it'll help with organization and all that crap.

Right.

So, this blog will stay up, but it will serve more as a bridge to the other blog... A security gate... as I see it. You have to go through this blog to get to the other one. This way we can weed out minors and harassers...

And Reaper can post purge posts on here. This way she stops fucking up the mood when I'm busy chatting up my pretty angels.

Now for some ground rules.

The new blog is going to be restricted access. This means that only approved guests may know about it.

The new blog is going to be 19+ only. (**see FAQ**)

If anybody follows the new blog that I haven't approved of/ I don't recognize your username, you are instantly blocked.

If you simply find this too tiring and you don't want to comply, don't bother.

FAQ

What is going to happen to this blog?

This blog is staying up, but it serves as more of a security gate and informational blog. All DMs and asks are going to be deleted, so we can receive access requests and keep track of everything. If you wish to contact me or play with me, the other blog is where I'll be.

Do we have to ID check to get into the other blog?

Yes. Unless you are on the guest list. Stating your age in bio is not enough. I need to see VALID ID.

How do I gain access to the other blog?

Simply DM me saying "I'd like to visit Touya's room." From there, I will ask you questions about ID and if I am in the slightest bit suspicious, I will continue pressing you further until I am satisfied. When you ask for access, have your ID ready with a handwritten note on it or under it or next to it that shows me your blog name, as follows:

I'm not waiting for you to conjure up a fake one. If you decide to lie to me, Reaper will find out like the bloodthirsty hound she is, and she will post you up on one of her little purges.

I am 18 and I want access.

I will provide access to those who are already on the guestlist, and people who have been 18 for more than 9 months. This basically means, the youngest I'll accept are people born in 2002. The reason being is because I don't trust minors who lie about being 18 and I find it really weird talking to people who just turned 18.

But I don't wanna do all this...

Then you don't get to play, sweetheart. I'm not forcing you to do this nor am I chasing after you.

And... that should be it.

ASKBOX WILL CURRENTLY BE CLOSED UNTIL I AM FINISHED WITH THE NEW BLOG.

I will make a post notifying everyone when they can start dming me about the new blog. As for now,

Do NOT DM me about access.

Askbox and dms will not be deleted yet, but will not resume until further notice. During that time, I will also open askbox and DMs for any questions.

Thank you for your cooperation and I hope you read all of this.

See you soon, dolls.

[dabi0118]

ANNOUNCEMENT / UPDATE

I will be clearing out all of Touya's DMS and ASKS tonight~

I will also be updating this blog- so don't freak out if things start moving around and stuff!!

I will also be posting a new set of rules and instructions tomorrow at around 1 PM EST

At this time, please do not send in anymore DMs or asks. Any questions or concerns will be answered in due time.

As always, thank you for staying patient ♡

Touya is really excited to talk to all of you soon.

[dabi0118]

BIG IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENT

!!!!! It has been brought to my attention that the user by @/angelic_sinner0 is in fact a MINOR !!!!!

They are 14, not 18 as placed in their bio.

PLEASE, for the love of fuck, block her and CEASE interaction if you are an 18+ blog she follows.

I try to be valiant in checking ages and stuff everytime someone follows me, and this just set me off and made me so so so angry cause I was really trying to be careful.

Anyway heads up for all of you that follow/interact with her. This is apparently one of her many blogs. I don't know if she has more.

Thank you to those who let me know.

AGAIN. MINORS DO NOT FUCKING INTERACT.

thank you.

[dabi0118]

Hi sweethearts!! I'm sorry we haven't updated for a while. I've been sick for the past couple days, and I'm still not doing too hot. I'm so sorry, I know you all probably miss Touya a lot and he does too!!

Why'd ya have to go and get sick then you idiot?

I can't control that 😭😭

Tch. Always causing trouble for me.

Anyways 🙄 We will try to be back by Friday or Saturday.

Just a little PSA, do not spam Touya's ask box or dms if you don't get a response right away, he'll get to you when he does! Also...

We've been thinking about implementing a 19+ only rule.

The main reason being, as the number of minors with the absolute audacity to interact rises, I've become increasingly uncomfortable with accounts that state they're 18 in their bio.

I know this seems unfair, and if you've already age checked with me and you're 18, don't worry, you can stay.

But I think my problem is that, as adults in their 20s, Touya and I find it a little unsettling to do NSFW with kids who literally just turned 18.. like they were just 17 last month, and to me, it's a bit weird. I mean sure, you're adults, but you were a minor like 12 days ago... yanno...? But that's my personal preference.

As always, send proof of ID before you come and play, anon or not- yes I will find out who you are if you try any nsfw without age checking with me. Don't try it.

See you soon lovelies💘 Hope you're doing so well🥰 We missed you.

[dabi0118]

👻Reaper Here👻

Sorry u guys I had a really busy weekend and I wasn't able to help Dabi much at all!!

If he hasn't responded to your asks/dms yet, don't worry!!! We're gonna prioritize the asks throughout the day tomorrow, then answer to more DMs.

I'm gonna take the time to mention that we've gotten quite a bit of attention lately, so to all the newcomers- we are so so grateful and happy you've decided to come and visit and interact!! Dabi and I can't wait to get to know you all, and we're so sorry if we haven't gotten around to answering your asks yet!

and to all the wonderful people who have been here since the start, thank you so much for continuing to visit and send us love/ interactions we LOVE U!! ❣

I always say this and I've been saying this but we really really love and appreciate all of you so much.

To all the fellow mods who have interacted with Dabi and I and sent us so much love and encouragement, I am extremely grateful for you and thank you for worrying about us. It really means so much to me.

Thank you for your patience and support and I hope you stick around 🥺

IM SO SORRY THIS IS SUCH A LONG READ. BUT I ALSO WANTED TO TAKE THIS TIME TO CHECK UP ON ALL OF U!!!

REAPER VIBE CHECK!

DID YA EAT?

DRINK WATER??

SLEEP WELL???

TELL YOURSELF YOURE WONDERFUL AND WORTH IT?

WELL U SHOULD@@@@

OR ELSE ILL BEAT U UP!!!

!!!!!WE LOVE U!!!!! KISSES AND HUGS AND HUGS AND KISSES

[dabi0118]

Anyways can minors pls stop interacting cause Touya has so many people to reply to 😭

[dabi0118]

Alright, soft hours over.

Don't come my way if you don't wanna get ruined.

[dabi0118]

Hey all,

Reaper and I have an announcement coming up later tonight.

Thanks for all the patience and sweet messages. Stay tuned.

[dabi0118]

GUESTS

blkladyelle

dabislittlemouse

kiyoobi

siren-writings

spizawazashi

richkookie

victorouslycrowned

dabislilmouse93

au-roraaa

katsukichu

bucolic-nebula

90ssmutslut

positivegamer

super-spooder

gazelle-des-pres

iamtheempress

themotherofmoons

bluefuckboy

dabistiktokdance

gg9183

bbyyama

not-your-damsel

koneko-toko

hippydrippydrift

bordemm

dabi-sunflower

minninugget

janshu

solvity

softbrxwn

keikult

justananimesimp

moon-mars-ikemen

CHARANONS/MODS WHO ARE CONFIRMED 18+

anxiousbabybirdb

managertae

chaoticryder

managerturtle

kay-n-tsumtsum

daddymakkiandbunny

yahaba-and-pup

kusa-and-v

daddyhajiandpeachy

officialojiroaran

FOR MY ANONS WHO HAVE CONFIRMED THEIR IDENTITY AND AGE- I'VE KEPT YOU LISTED AS YOUR ANON NAME FOR YOUR PRIVACY.

(if you do want your blog name added, let me know)

halo anon

sweet thing anon

clover anon

THIS GUESTLIST IS AN OFFICIAL LIST OF EVERYONE WHO HAS SENT PROOF OF AGE. I WILL TRY TO KEEP IT UPDATED.

IF YOU DON'T SEE YOUR NAME ON HERE:

Because I forgot to add you....-> DM me.

And you want to be on here....-> DM me/ send in an ask with some sort of proof of age (I'll keep it private of course) and I'll add you on here.

ADDITIONALLY:

If you've confirmed your age with Reaper and need her to vouch for you somewhere else, let me know.

If you are on this list and you want to be taken off of it, let me know.

If you're confused about what's going on, read the latest posts tagged under [reapersPURGE] or [dabi.update]

LAST UPDATED: [April 26, 2021]

[dabi0118]

Just a PSA if you haven't seen our last post.

I'm gonna be deleting all NSFW DMs and nsfw asks from anons/ accounts that haven't sent proof of age / accounts I don't know.

If you can't send proof of age/if you have no one to vouch for you (e.g. charanons who require proof of age or if you're part of a server and other people know your real age) I'm blocking you and sending your blog name to other charanons.

AGAIN. I'm gonna make it real colorful for all you children who only read picture books.

😍THIS 🤩 ACCOUNT🤑 IS 18+ ONLY😝 NO MINORS ALLOWED

This includes but is not limited to:

"I'm 17 but turning 18 in 2 months!!" headasses

"I can't send proof of age but just trust me" no bitch tf

"But we've interacted before!" boohoo bitch

"I'm a minor but I don't wanna do NSFW, just talk 🥺" -so go talk to other minors then

also if you don't have your age in your bio or somewhere we can see it, you're insta- blocked.

I will be releasing a blocklist at some point. If you don't wanna end up on it? Follow the rules.

Thank you 🥰

[dabi0118]

HI!!

Dabi and I have had the busiest week so we haven't gotten around to Asks/DMs and we miss you guys so much 😭

But! We're going to try and go through the majority of them this weekend. Dabi's gonna prioritize DMs tonight, then do some asks tomorrow.

As always thank you for your patience, and so sorry for the wait!!

xoxo love u

[dabi0118]

☆~REAPER AND TOUYA HERE~☆

(As I write this, we're technically at 99 followers, but we're just so excited 🥺🥺)

Hello lovelies~

We're excited to celebrate our 100 follower milestone with you all by holding a special mini event🥰

*drumroll please*

KINK TALK WITH TOUYA!

basically, you send a kink in our ask, and Touya will rate it, say whether or not he's into it, and if he's put it into play before, he might share a fun lil story about it!

-This event will be active until the end of the day on April 4th (Easter)-

BUT before we get into it-

I (Reaper) would like to say thank you for all the love and support and attention you've shown Touya. He annoys me and terrorizes me everyday but it makes me happy to see him happy. Thank you for putting a smile on our faces and taking time out of your day to send us things even if we don't get to you fast enough. We truly appreciate you so much. Ahem. Touya has some words, to say as well.

Uh... Hey. Mm.. I'm really bad at these kinds of things, but... I'm going to try to put it into proper words. Thank you for spending time with a guy like me. It's crazy for me to even think that people are genuinely curious about me, and who I am, and overall... like me even though I am the way I am. I really enjoy being with you all, and cherish our memories together. I know I'm still getting to know some of you, but I appreciate your time all the same.

Thank you, truly. I'm looking forward to making more memories.

[dabi0118]

Dabi had to take a little break cause y'all were goin absolutely buckwild 👀 so he's eating lunch rn before he picks things up again. I made quesadillas ><

IM GONNA TAKE THIS TIME TO PROVIDE SOFT CONTENT AND HEALING cause its important:*

i love all of u so much, i care about u and your wellbeings and i want all of u to be happy and healthy and safe and warm and *makes kissy noises*

Me and dabi are always here for u

(oh btw!! if u ever slide in dms to vent or something just put a little note in the beginning letting us know pls and thank u <3)

LOVE U SO MUCH!!

[dabi0118]

Alright, now that that's sorted.

Back to business.

Oh, I've deleted conversations with everyone who hasn't sent me proof. So if you're just seeing this now and you wish to continue communication, send proof before you dm me again. If you can't provide the proof, I'm sorry to say it, but we can't continue talking.

That's my limit. Respect my boundaries as I'd respect yours.

Anyway, hang tight, angels. I'll be getting back to you one by one. Sorry for all the delays.