#but my own neurodivergence made me worry messaging you directly would be too forward and rude and so i didn’t risk it until too late
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And after she made her shitty apology, which I do have screenshots of as well as the responses we gave to it should anyone want to see, she started insulting us for calling her out on her manipulative behaviours.
Then she claimed we never told her we didn’t like how she played the characters, which we DID, MANY TIMES, including the screenshots in my last reblog (which btw that was NOT the end of the discussion, it was just the end of where I spoke)
She ended up leaving the server and getting banned on both her accounts, then went to the server admin’s Tumblr dms, to which Chenya’s mod has the screenshot for what she said, but here’s what transpired after the response to her “apology”
Uncropped because i am so tired man. I had tried to be nice, but I got real sick of her attitude towards me so oops lol
But yeah. This still isn’t everything, but it sure happened!
guys i'm in my hot sexy villain arc
#<- i just wish i had made the decision to dm you right off the bat instead of trying to warn you in the chat#but my own neurodivergence made me worry messaging you directly would be too forward and rude and so i didn’t risk it until too late#but i’m glad you’re finally comfortable enough to speak in the chat again after you went silent for months after this event#because being lied to like this is not fun and definitely doesn’t lead one to feeling safe to talk :)#and if you look at the messages castaway posted - you will see they tried the exact same thing with them#claiming that ‘she and the falena mod were mutuals’ and not that she was the falena mod#<- It’s totally cool that it didn’t work that first time I promise I do not blame you at all /gen#I’m also glad I’m feeling safe enough to speak there again. definitely wasn’t fun getting lied to#but yeah she did do it again#so that’s a pattern that we’ve seen happen many times
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I was fuming about this.
The fact that she straight up lied to you to get you to admit that you were scared of her and her Malleus account? And then never apologized for that lie? Never even acknowledged it? And then just proceeded to give excuses for her actions?
And of course, later she said she would take the criticisms into account and try to do better and tone down the meanness, scariness, and, honestly, oocness.
And has she actually done that?
Absolutely not.
If she had, and had taken the other numerous hints that multiple people have dropped several times in that discord server that she needed to stop, we wouldn’t be here, now would we? :)
guys i'm in my hot sexy villain arc
#i’m incredibly tired of her manipulative behaviour#she lied to me in order to get me to say that I was LEGIT SCARED of her#then proceeded to get outraged and dig her heels in on why she was doing it correctly when i suggested it made me uncomfortable#a little off topic but thanks to chenya’s mod for being such a great friend during all this#they’ve stuck up for me several times and has been keeping me in the loop so thank you <3#<- I just wish I had made the decision to DM you right off the bat instead of trying to warn you in the chat#but my own neurodivergence made me worry messaging you directly would be too forward and rude and so I didn’t risk it until too late#but I’m glad you’re finally comfortable enough to speak in the chat again after you went silent for months after this event#because being lied to like this is not fun and definitely doesn’t lead one to feeling safe to talk :)#and if you look at the messages castaway posted - you will see they tried the exact same thing with them#claiming that ‘she and the Falena mod were mutuals’ and not that SHE WAS THE FALENA MOD#don’t you just love a repeat offender liar?#she has hurt and stressed out multiple friends of mine with her repeated actions#and of course pissed me off too#is it really any wonder why I’ve finally snapped?#again I know I probably shouldn’t be doing this and I’ll probably get heat for this#but I’m at the point where I just do not care#roleplaying che’nya should be fun and this is NOT FUN#twst rp#ar speaks#ar speaks ooc
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