#but me nd jimin would definitely have a cute little terrarium set up with a little lizard thingy i know it

[seokjinsonlyone]

Hey

Feel free to ignore this but like I saw a fanfic author respond to a most to least request about bts liking chubby/ thick s/o and the author was like no they aren't having one respectfully

and I get the authors pov they weren't trying to hurt anyone but I felt majorly upset because like fanfiction is a safe space for me and I'm not under any grand delusions except when I'm reading then for once I want to be loved for myself despite myself and sometimes in general not referring to this single incident I strongly dislike woke people on the Internet who feel its ok to be dismissive towards others

Like just today I read an account dismissing fandoms calling quote people like Namjoon and xxx(can't remember who) as written by women like honestly what's it to you

It kind of makes me sad and just frustrated but I also don't wanna be like this is right or wrong yknow

Idk I just wanted some insight and I really do love your take on members so 🤷

Anyway hope you have a nice day <3

hmmm this is what i think the way i see it is no one can say for surely who the tannies gonna end up with or what they will look like but to just straight up say they would never date someone who's thick/chubby/fat/plus sized whatever you want to call it i feel is kind of an ignorant statement and one that definitely lacks perspective

like if they gonna make that kind of conclusion especially if it's based on something they said like 8-9 years ago at a fansign or on some third party variety show i think they need to listen to indigo where joon said "things change people change everything change" 💔

me personally i feel that if anyone were to date outside of society's so called norms it would be the tannies like these are men that have travelled the world and interacted with, worked with, befriended, and most likely slept with a whole variety of people they're so humble and sweet and just love people and wouldn't rule out a person simply bc of their weight especially considering some of the most beautiful people i've ever seen have a good chunk of meat on they bones like big does NOT equal unattractive in fact we literally got jimin on the record saying that lizzo is attractive and imma hold that over everyone head until the day i die!!!!! AND during their ptd concerts during the boy with luv dynamite stretch they had beautiful BLACK women of varying shapes and sizes on stage with them like that was a deliberate choice that they made AND hobi licherally said that his best quality is how embracing he is

so idk idk can't say for surely but what i can say is that I DO live under a grand delusion at ALL times and i am not skinny but that's not gon stop me and jimin from getting married buying a house in the suburbs and raising a salamander together i got sidetracked sorry BUT FR i'm sooooo sorry you were made to feel that way and i 100% get what you mean about fanfic being a safe space and i hope that you feel safe with me 💞💓💜