#bonus points to knowing an anti-vax cousin is gonna be here

[queercraftingchonk]

Yo being the Catholic(ish) family's resident queer™️ is kinda fucking exhausting

Mostly cause everyone likes washing me into the cishet mold they expected/wanted

I'm bi, afab, married a man

Non-binary, femme presenting

Aka, super duper easy for family to ignore my identity and forget my pronouns (they/them) and if I correct them then I am The Asshole who is Making It All About Me and causing Conflict over the Holidays and why can't I just go with the flow???

And holing up away from folks is Rude and Looks Bad and makes parents Upset which leads to me feeling awful and just...ugh