#blushingcreep

[ebonixsims]

I desperately want to download your retexture of blvcklifesimz's zaddy beard, but they have redone their wixsite blog and haven't included all of their cc on it. Is there any way you can get in touch with them? 'Cause I've tried everything; I can't even send them an ask about it. :( Thanks, in advance!

I’ve updated the post with a direct link to the Zaddy Beard hun :) 

Have a great weekend! 

[queerascat]

Hi, Vesper! Please, be aware that I often struggle to accurately express myself (b/c autism+), but my request is for help with self-education re: gender. I have trouble reading/parsing academic/jargon-heavy texts, but I want to understand gender variances, esp. non-binary. (e.g., how is maverique distinct from agender?) It's all very confusing, and I fear many transgenders will hate me b/c I'm cisgendered, b/c the things I see on my dash re: cishate are scary... I just want to understand. T^T

Oh, crap, I meant to ask how maverique is distinct from genderqueer/non-binary. I found out on the gender wiki, though, that both non-binary and genderqueer are umbrella terms, so… I feel like I’m making an ass of myself. I think that I’ll probably never understand because I don’t have the same struggle, but I’d like to try.

hi! don’t worry, you’re not making an ass of yourself. gender is a really complex and difficult thing to understand for anyone.

yes, both genderqueer and non-binary are umbrella terms used to describe someone whose gender is neither male nor female. in addition to that, both genderqueer and non-binary can also be gender identities in and of themselves. it’s similar to how some people identify as queer, a more broad and open-ended identity, rather than as gay, bi, etc. genderqueer and non-binary are also broad, open-ended identities. not everyone wants to or is able to summarize their gender identity with a single, more specific word.

both agender and maverique are non-binary genders as neither of them are male nor female.

agender means different things to different people, but generally (very generally) speaking agender is often described as either a neutral gender or as being without gender altogether (ie. being genderless).

maverique, on the other hand, is not a neutral gender nor an absence of gender. while an agender person might feel indifferent (or neutral) about the whole topic of gender or they might not be able to relate to discussions of gender at all because gender isn’t something that they identify with, a maverique would probably feel the opposite of that. maveriques have a gender, one that is not neutral even though it is also not male nor female. it is a gender that is 0% male, 0% female, 100% something else entirely**, that “something else” being maverique.

i’m sorry if that doesn’t help you understand the difference at all. maybe think of it like this with an agender person possibly responding to the same question with “what? no? why are you asking me that??”

**that said, there are multigender maveriques for whom maverique is only part of their gender identity.

edit: also, the correct words to use are “transgender people” rather than “transgenders” and “cisgender” rather than cisgendered (same for “transgender” rather than “transgendered”).

[loveandautism]

blushingcreep replied to your post:blushingcreep replied to your post: “o___o that...

It’s okay. No shame in it, because it’s one of our difficulties. But, we know better, now, and we can ignore the poopmonger. <3

......Poopmonger =w=  

- J

[thewritersramblings]

petrichorlore said:

luuuuuck (also wow i love your hair)

thaaaanks :D it went amazingly

victoriaphychedelic said:

You are so cute. Oh my gosh.

blushingcreep said: 

I love your curls!

[chcodes]

Ah ha! I discovered a sneaky "p" ID in the CSS coding!!! Ah haaaaaa. I got it. Now, if only I could figure out how to get the captions to show on hover, and add in images that rest alongside the sidebar image, that slide out little links when hovered on, I'd be all set! ^.^

The line jumps in HTML or the description box don't work, you have to actually "write" them...like I said the paragraph tag or the break line tag.

It's okay to call it whatever you want but that it happens like this... you were referring them to me and I didn't know what it meant ^^; that's why it's always better for us to learn the actual names. I remember I used to call the selectors as entries which is a bit stupid lol and it can be confusing since I have a selector named as entry lool

Anyway no need to feel bad about it ^^

I'm happy you figured it out then :)

For the captions to show on hover you have to have a selector for it (If your theme doesn't have one you have to write one then) and write display:none; on it. and then write the hover selector of it and write display:block; (For some reason this doesn't work properly on my themes but it should work on yours)

About the links I'm not really understanding what you want...

[loveandautism]

blushingcreep replied to your post: “o___o that cannabisgenetecist person says he’s an Aspie on his...”:

That guy is a troll. :/ He's trolling the autistic community because we're more likely to take his bullshit literally, believe what he says is true, and worse. He's a jerk and everyone should ignore and block him. He'll go away without any food.

>8l He picked low-hanging fruit I have to admit. I totally fell for it. 

- J

[chcodes]

Hiiiii. So. I don't know why, but my theme doesn't seem to recognize carriage returns as a paragraph break, like most do. I have to specially go in and edit their HTML to include two bold returns, which makes the paragraph breaks TOO big. How can I fix this?

What exactly are you trying to use as a carriage return? And are you calling the line break tag bold return or am I just dumb and I don't know what you're talking about? lool

To paragraph things simply use the paragraph tag

or, well, the break line one (which doesn't need closing). The paragraph skips a line and the break line doesn't.