#autistic and ace

[caughtthedarkness93]

I had like three different kinds of being unrealized ace on main!

I had:

• Oh no, I'm broken, why am I responding to this so differently from others!

• Hahaha look at these other men who are so annoying about sex, aren't they weird? Good thing, hypothetical friend, that you and I are normal and have an absolutely normal disinterest in sex, right?...Right!?

• Am I literally the only sane person on the planet? Sex sounds inherently risky in a way that can be somewhat, but not completely mitigated and on top of that, like a huge hassle, and kinda gross if I'm being honest. It cannot be worth it, what is everyone smoking that makes this appealing in any way whatsoever?

Luckily by the time I realized I was ace, I'd already been through the "WOE IS ME I'M BROKEN - wait, no I'm not" angst with my autism, so I was kinda just like "Oh, rad, I get a pride flag and an explanation to why I resonated so much with the gay rights movement in high school despite being romantically interested exclusively in women."

i didn't have "i'm broken" teenage asexual angst i had "i'm literally being the only reasonable one about this concept and the rest of you are behaving like fucking freaks" perception issues

[lo-fag]

idk man. i just think itd be really cool if sign language classes were mandatory throughout primary school. yeah because it would make communication with deaf kids and autistic/nonverbal kids much easier. and those kids would be accessible to the others so they could make friends and have healthy relationships. yeah. and kids would eat that shit up man. like their own little secret language? they love that.

[k-is-for-potassium]

[jax-likes-snax]

I hate how oddly sexualized breasts are, and how oddly sexualized bedrooms are, and I hate how anything not inherently sexual gets sexualized, it was hot outside and me and my boyfriend were watching his friend repair his truck at my house and I had a shirt off and only my binder on since yk it was hot out, and the other guys also had their shirts off and it was considered fine, but when me and my boyfriend went to go relax in the ac in my room I changed from my binder to a sports bra cause my ribs hurt and kept a shirt off cause I was still sweating a lot and really hot, and my mom came in complaining about how I need to wear a shirt and how it's weird to wear only a bra in a bedroom with your significant other even though she knows I'm ace and she thinks it's weird since he isn't ace and I have breasts and bedrooms are sexualized, why is it okay to not have a shirt as one assigned gender and not the other, why are certain environments more sexualized than others, it makes no sense especially since we weren't doing anything sexual, neither me nor him made it weird, but my mom was making a huge deal out of having tits in a bedroom

maybe it's cause I'm autistic or maybe cause I'm asexual but I think the oversexualization of literally everything is weird

[queerpunktomatoes]

[glitchedcosmos]

One thing about me and my mutuals is we will be on a spectrum autistic?, aromantic?, asexual?, gender?, you name it were on it you’ll find me on every goddam spectrum

[bottlecap-joe-spooky]

Fellas is it gay to play chess (with a chess peice based after your "rival")?

[feralforbeanix]

If I wasn't familiar with Ace Attorney and you asked me which one of these is an edited meme and which one is an actual line he says if you pick the wrong answer I'd be flabbergasted to hear the truth.

[doctorsiren]

who would be the main defense attorney against prosecutor phoenix wright? would it be defenseworth, or another person? :0

Yup! I’m gonna make this an offshoot of the main Defenseworth AU :)

also…I think Phoenix would experience some von Karmic influence on his path to becoming a prosecutor…

[your-gay-grandma]

i want to see something based on conversations with friends recently…….

[notesbynor]

Drew my fav asexual autistic kings together

I LOVE THEM BOTH SO MUCH YOU DONT UNDERSTAND

[yepthatsacowalright]

I'm still thinking about how Jane Schoenbrun has said that a lot of people who read the I Saw The TV Glow script warned them that, with Owen as the main character, they would have to work against centuries of film history that's trained audiences to see a weird loner boy - especially in a psychological horror - as a serial killer, or someone with a creepy, killer-like secret. Like, ok...but also these same characteristics often apply to people who are queer, neurodivergent, or otherwise don't fit into a society that rejects them. How do you add more diverse, authentic representation of these groups in media when you actively discourage people from trying, because you think audiences are too used to reading those kinds of characters as having something deeply fucked up and wrong about them? I'm just wildly impressed and hopeful that they actually got this film made, with Owen's awkwardness in tact. His awkwardness in the trailer is the main reason I even decided to spend money to go see it in the first place. He was relatable as hell, in a way I've almost never seen on screen. (When Hannah Gadsby said, "Where do all the quiet gays go?" I felt that. And I think, among other things, they do stuff like go see this movie.) Makes me wonder how many legitimately good scripts get passed on by studios, out of fear of the weird characters being seen as too off-putting or creepy for an audience to connect to. And how likely it is that that might be changing a little bit.

[mizzyislost]

aromantic flag colorpicked from chilchuck. btw. if you even cared.

[bayonetta-origins]

mysterious collection of nonsense

dont repost reblogs ok

[roguskii]

LET MILES INFODUMP!!! WHYD THEY CUT HIM OFF

source :3 https://youtu.be/qB0Ethu40G0?si=OQPoehHhXfRJAzjM

[thetisming]

"wow you must be so focused on school without crushes" incorrect! instead i am thinking about my special interest.