For me, anxiety is turning on the GPS whenever I drive. Even if I am going one street over, even if I have been there multiple times.
On really bad days, I turn it on to get to work - the same place I’ve been working at for 3 years that is right down the street from me.
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my personal prediction for twp is that kit gets a shitty van because he wants to buy a car with his own money but the catch is that it has a cd stuck in it so it plays the same song over and over again, kind like marshal’s car in how i met your mother. so during kit and ty’s road trip the both just learn this song.
i want twp to have the same vibes as like the van from stranger things 4 if that makes any sense
AHAHHAHAHA WAIT THAT'S HILARIOUS!!! i've never seen how i met your mother but the cd being stuck in the car is giving major 'wild child' vibes (pls tell me u know that movie) :') but now i kinda wanna know what song would be playing, i hope it's a meme one like 'all star' by smash mouth or something, and imagine kitty learning that!!! pfff that would be so amazing please :')
BUT YOU'RE SO RIGHT THAT KIT WOULD WANT TO BE INDEPEDENT AND GET HIS OWN CAR AND THEN HE WOULD REALIZE IT'S LIKE FALLING APART LOL!!! that's so on brand for him my god. but i also think he would have one of those shitty cars u grow to love, like he would probably give it a silly name or something too and everyone would be hella attached to it. it would be something like baby from supernatural or the mystery machine from scooby doo or yeah! the one from stranger things! basically just driver!kit with a crappy car has to happen :]
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Hiiii how are you doing love bug? I wanted to request something where farah notices spouse readers anxiety is high while there out at a celebration party thingy after a successful mission and helps them calm down
(Sorry if this is badly explained it’s my first time requesting something + I have adhd🫶🏻🫶🏻)
Hello! Don't worry, I got you! I hope this is what you wanted! I don't particularly know how to calm someone down, I can't even calm myself down usually, so I just swallow it all down until it goes away ^^;
Farah Senses Reader’s Anxiety
She would likely sense your anxiety as soon as she looked at you. Your eyes were wider open than usual, you’ve gone quiet, giving the occasional nod and smile and that’s it. Something was up, Farah knew you well enough by then to be able to tell. Yes, she may have been a highly coveted person at parties like these, but she could always make time for you, even while she was in the middle of a conversation with someone. As soon as you don’t seem to be doing well, don’t seem to be having fun anymore, she’ll take you somewhere quieter so she can talk to you and maybe help you calm down a bit.
Truth be told, Farah won’t particularly know what to do with you. Sure, she gets anxious at times as well, she leads an entire force, after all, but she usually calms herself down by taking a deep breath and sweeping all those negative thoughts under the rug. While it would be ridiculous to assume the same thing would work for you, she tries anyway. She may be good at building connections with other people, but she doesn’t particularly know how to calm someone down from severe anxiety. However, she will take your hands gently in hers, if you allow it, and will talk to you in the most tender tone you’ve ever heard from her. Her voice is audible still, but quieter than usual and she requests that you try to tune out everything else and only listen to her. While she won’t know what to say, she tries, talking about anything that comes to mind. The small lizard she saw on her way to the party, how she once was able to pet a bunny when she was small. Nice things that would take your mind off of the party. You will be leaving it soon enough, naturally, but before then, you need to calm down first.
If her distracting you doesn’t help, then she’ll try to breathe with you, gently asking you to breathe in, hold your breath for a few seconds, before breathing out again. This will be repeated a few times. If that doesn’t work either, then she will try the 54321 method. Granted, she doesn’t exactly know how it works and will mess it up. But who knows, maybe that will get you to laugh. Farah asks you to tell her what you’re seeing, hearing, feeling and so on and tries to crack jokes here and there to maybe get you to smile. Her attempt at distracting you from your anxiety still hasn’t ceased. Talks you through it all. However, if that doesn’t help either, then she’ll ask you what the source of your anxiety may be. If it’s the party then you’ll be going home immediately. Or, at the very least, get away from it as far as you can. If it’s something else then she’ll still try to help you somehow, reassuring you that she’ll do whatever she can to assist you. If it’s alright with you, then, after the party, you’ll go stargazing together. The vastness of the universe has always helped her calm down, and maybe she can tell you some stories she’s heard about the different constellations as well. Either way, she’ll be taking care of you as well as she can during the evening, until you calm down. And then you’ll be cuddling the night away, if you’re calm enough to want to be touched. Farah will hold you to her chest, hum a little lullaby and run her fingers through your hair.
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I have another gig in a week and I'm so nervous 😭 I get paid hundreds of dollars for only five hours of work, but it is so nerve-racking and the work environment is so stressful, like literally every time I'm there I'm on the verge of tears or I have to take a 2 minute break before the show starts just to run to the restrooms and cry bc I get so stressed out. And then when I clock out I just cry my eyes out in my car while driving home. But hey!!! Hundreds of dollars!!! For five or six hours of my time!!! Only a few days a month!!! Hundreds!!! Of dollars!!! So it would be totally stupid to quit.
I wouldn't have been able to afford pampering myself on my last two F/O anniversaries (and currently placing an order for a rose bouquet for Six's anniversary for the 18th) if I didn't have this second job... but if it didn't pay me such a large amount of money each time, I probably would have quit by now bc it makes me so damn anxious. The show isn't even for one week and I'm sitting here stressing about it! I have one thousand other things to stress about and this job shouldn't be one of 'em 😤
I just keep trying to think about Ken hugging me while saying "Aw, sweet girl, don't be nervous! You JUST started this job, you've only worked three shows -- you think you're gonna be perfect your first try?? You're gonna be so good once you get the hang of it. Just look at me! I've been doing Beach for 62 years now, and I still don't know what my job is supposed to be... but I know I look So Cool™ 😎"
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I feel like Aegon would try and teach his siblings how to drive and it would just end in them bickering and papa Criston has to help out lollll
oh yes. but he's doing it anxious older sibling style. he's filling them with all of his own fears, insisting he knows what he's doing (its a mess, cause he's terrified of every little thing on the road) and he's also just a big brother about it, he's being a bit of a dick.
helaena needs him out of her car cause he's stressing her out, Aemond just wants to hit him cause he's backseat driving and being a "big baby", and Daeron's already seen enough of his antics prior to learning to drive to know to just immediately call dad to remove the nuisance from his car.
Aegon's the driving instructor equivalent of those doomsday prepper, conspiracy theorist, "the end is nigh" sign holding type people. his siblings don't need that energy in their car.
they end up just yelling at him to get out till Criston drags him back home.
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