#anti non traumagenic dni

[moos3-th3-goos3]

[system-advice]

How to make alters comfortable enough to reveal themsleves

I know systems find it hard to have communication with uncontacted or newly revealed alters, so here are some ways to find out about them

(this also helps to tell if an alter is real or if your brain is just playing around)

01﹒don't force an identity on them.

some alters might find it harder to express themselves if other alters fill out their personal information for them, they may prefer to do it themselves

(ex. don't write or say their full name - just use a letter, don't write their pronouns, don't note down their orientation or gender)

02﹒don't neglect their emotions.

focus on what makes them an individual or what they're comfortable with rather than thier identity

(ex. noting their likes and dislikes)

03﹒give them templates or examples.

they may want to communicate with others but may be confused, not know where to start, or are too anxious to do it without any help

basic things such as introduction templates or giving them a place to write down their thoughts can help them learn who they are and how they fit into the system

04﹒keep them seperated if needed.

alters may blend together when fronting so barring suspected new alters from fronting with old ones can help distinguish them

this can also help systems with higher amnesia barriers to stop alters from accidentally hiding other alters

[the-opus-collective]

endogenic, willogenic, tuplagenic and all other non-traumatised/disordered systems are not welcome here.

we do not go through constant trauma and did not go through life altering trauma for fun. i did not split to protect robin [our host] for fun. we did not get abused for fun. we don’t get bullied for fun. we don’t get neglected for fun. we don’t have debilitating flashbacks for fun, etc.

it is not punk to invade trauma survivors spaces. it is not punk to harass people. it is not punk to spread misinformation. it is not punk to send death threats. it is not punk to be trans-ID.

— 🦓 / yannick

they/he

[songs-by-the-river]

I really hate seeing others say how they want DID or think it's so cool when they're a singlet cuz why???? Why would you want this??? I genuinely can't comprehend why someone would purposely try to create a system either because this sucks

And don't get me wrong I absolutely love my head mates, I adore Saturn, Astrid and 404 are fucking cool as shit and I love everyone else, even the hurt ones, even our persecutors, but I would give literally anything if it meant I could have my own body away from them, I wish I could be physically detached from Saturn so I could give him actual hugs and kisses, I wish i could go get my own little job maybe at a library or smth simple and quiet, i wish I could look like myself instead of this body.

I just don't understand why anyone would want this

[ginganthropy]

THE ACTUALLY DISSOCIATIVE TAG IS NOT FOR ENDOS!!

i thought that was common sense!! its like how endos have #pluralgang, traumagenics have #actually dissociative!! RESPECT THIS!!!

[horrorwoodcollective]

nah. idgaf.

endos and other non traumagenic “systems” aren’t valid. theyre not a system.

they’re a sick freaks pretending to have a serious TRAUMA DISORDER.

you can def be groomed into believing you are an endo or dont have trauma, and in that case. i’ll support you. or if you don’t remember your trauma.

but NOT REMEMBERING YOUR TRAUMA ≠ ENDO. YOU JUST DONT REMEMBER IT. DO NOT LABEL YOURSELF AS NONTRAUMAGENIC LIKE AN IDIOT.

[systemuserboxes]

[alt; userbox reads "this system is not “traumagenic” they have a fucking disorder"]

[dandelion-system]

*is a system*

*decides to watch a show with decidedly mentally unwell characters*

*stressful situation begins*

*does not stop watching the show*

*relates a bit too hard*

*starts copying the mannerisms and speech patterns unconsciously*

“Oh. Oh no”

[moos3-th3-goos3]

What if I just started going by a different name and pronouns and had different likes and ideas and memories and opinions and presented differently and acted differently... but like I'm still me though... no I'm not a system at all...

[delphientropy]

why is tiktok obsessed with the word delusional

i keep coming across "looking at the unsent project and putting in my name and being delusional thinking people are writing to me" genuinely shut the fuck up.

delusions are a fucking mentally ill symptom that can genuinely harm you. stop taking away its legitimacy and shut the fuck up im so pissed

WE have delusions, ones that actually make us upset or freak us out. and it pisses me off SO bad. i just block instantly. i keep forgetting how normalized this is and it seriously makes me so mad

[your-pal-nebula]

Being "inclusive" / radinclus and being anti endo is contradictory by the way. (And not in the good way). You cannot be both. If you are anti endo you're not inclusive. Hope this helps <3 !!!!!!!!!

[thethornzsystem]

New System tag!!!

Good evening comrades!!!

I introduce you to a new system rage I have created: #survivorsunited !

This tag is anti Endo/tulp/willogenic!

Trauamgenic systems are the only ones allowed to use this tag for the obvious reasons…

Now let’s jsut hope this doesn’t end up like the systempunk tag- 😅🥲

[starody]

ummm simplyplural inspo or something ?

endos / pro endos dni e_e

[angel-cove-choir]

reminders:

narc abuse isnt real. just call it abuse

endos aren't systems. you're not disordered so use your own tags and terms

autism isn't innocence. autistic people can and will be dirty little fucks

kink belongs at pride. to ignore the history of sex work in queer spaces is to ignore queerness. there are lots of family friendly pride events you can participate in

aro and ace are not the same thing. don't conflate them

free palestine. blm. 1312. to be punk is to be kind.

(help a system out will ya)

[sistematraumado]

Ways I call the alters of my system:

Silly

Kids

The babies

Alters

Assholes

Fools

Children

[jakubmeow]

RAHH I'M FRONTING AND I'LL MAKE EVERYONE REGRET IT!!! /J /silly (there's like 6 other alters with me rn)