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the-irrelevant-trumpeter · 2 years ago

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apparently i am starting off the new year by having a breakdown about literally everything. anyway now i’m thinking about how i’m no one’s best friend. like i have my group of friends, but if any of them were asked to pick a single best friend, not a single one of them would pick me. i’m just some person who hangs out with them.

#i constantly see them posting screenshots of private messages #and you can just see all of the inside jokes #and the easy communication #and the actual genuine friendship #and you just realise that they are so much closer with everyone else than you #maybe if i wasn’t so awkward and inconsistent with messaging #or even just at. one on one conversation.#id actually have a shot #but no #im the kind of person who can’t meet up with people individually #because i’m boring and bad at conversation #and it will end up awkward and not at all how it should be #i just really wish i had that kind of connection with someone #but no. im destined to be that one person who is just kind of there.#doing nothing.#if i just… disappeared into thin air randomly #it wouldn’t take them long to get over me #i mean they’d notice and be worried #it’s not that bad #but after a good amount of time #it would be like i wasn’t even there #anyway shout out to everyone else who isn’t anyone’s best friend #and shout out to my followers for putting up with my annoyingly frequent breakdowns

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batman-gif · 5 months ago

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"Frank and Gerard early 2000's stage kisses" this "Frank and Gerard early 2000's stage kisses" that. LISTEN! 2022 Ray and Frank forehead kisses. In conclusion . Frank iero.

#I don't ship any of them btw #Not rlly combative to ppl that do like #I fully think there was some very close very intimate friendships bordering on ? Something more #Going on in the 2000's but that's more a genuine observation of ppl not like “aww kiss now” and anyway. They love they wives #This isn't ship talk hour just btw #I am very very very charmed by middle aged men being able to be sweet and physically affectionate to eachother tho #It is so sweet. So good such a future I aspire to. That actually does mean ... soo much ugh #Mcr #frank iero #ray toro #my chemcial romance #gerard way #the black parade #three cheers for sweet revenge #i brought you my bullets you brought me your love #danger days

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rainbow-sunshine-unicorn · 2 months ago

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You ever think about how Kate is genuinely Anthony’s best friend?

Whenever anything’s going down, he gives her the “we will debrief about this later” look

He has little inside jokes with her

He discusses his game night strategy with her

He’s always up to date on the latest gossip about her family

He shit talks about other people with her

Like that’s literally his bestest friend!!!

#bridgerton season 3 #anthony bridgerton #kate sharma #kate sharma x anthony bridgerton #kanthony #bridgerton analysis #bridgerton memes #bridgerton #I’m actually sobbing about this #because this man was going to have a marriage without love where he’s distant from his wife #and then he fell in love with Kate #and got a marriage where he found not just love with but an actual genuine friendship #she’s his wife his literal bestie his family his entire world #all rolled into one #and how long has it been since he’s just had a friend esp since Simon #OH WELL #we bawl

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srslylini · 4 days ago

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just saw the video and there is just two things Im gonna say, really.

1. Throwing away your only genuinely healthy relationship and saying well Jayce only used Mel for the sex is absolutely disgusting and weird. For multiple reasons. Throwing in the line that she was his cover up? shut the fuck up. oh my god. Mel is so not appreciated in this fandom alone and for CREATORS to join is so very insane. Especially here.

2. The undervaluing of friendship in media is quite frankly very weird. It's always "they can't be JUST friends because they did this and that" as if platonic love is somehow less. If my best friend was on the brink of literal death I'd also leave everything behind to be by their side. No question asked. And I'm so serious when I say that if anyone thinks that for some reason this must mean I'm in love with them, then I have to say

I'm sorry for you. I'm sorry that you never got to experience the gentle love of a friend.

#i am actually genuinely mad about this #god damn #it really is just getting worse and worse is it not?#relationship #platonic #romantic #arcane #arcane season 2 #arcane spoilers #mel medarda #jayce talis #viktor #meljay #friendship #love

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elitadream · 1 month ago

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Watched 'The Last Dance' on its premiere yesterday and, well... These two give me feels. ;_;

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booasaur · 1 year ago

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Special Ops: Lioness - 1x06

#specialopslionessedit #special ops lioness #special ops: lioness #aaliyah amrohi #cruz manuelos #stephanie nur #laysla de oliveira #special ops lioness 1x06 #special ops lioness spoilers #aaliyah x cruz #femslash related stuff #muslim lgbt #oh no I'm so caught up in their story!#the rest of the ep spent actually so much time on their fledgling little friendship #reaching through each other's very different but genuine loneliness #stephanie nur is playing a BLINDER here #she really comes across as this unimaginably rich privileged caged bird #while being a fairly adorable and naive version of the specimen #and she gets across all her feelings about cruz so well #the way she's testing things here #and then after cruz pulls back--which makes it better to me #since it was a sincere loss of control and not her undercover play #but after she pulls back aaliyah's trying SO hard to be chill as if it's nothing #and it's so heartbreaking because it's like every possible misreading of the straight girl kiss #AND her particularly terrible circumstances

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hey-hey-j · 4 months ago

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this one goes out to all the "I thought this was Bruce" comments ♥️ (/lighthearted)

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#my art #trolls band together #my little pony: friendship is magic #mlp fanart #trolls fanart #i'm not mad i'm just genuinely humored #they'd get along great actually they're both fabulous they both have tons of love in their heart #go for the orange/yellow gals.....

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artbysarf · 1 year ago

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My take on the whole "That Magic Was Not Yours to Give" trend

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blueskittlesart · 7 months ago

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deeply refreshing to see someone critical of Swift who also like, genuinely likes her. Like i'm neutral to positive on her, but the online discourse has been absolutely rancid. flipping between "Taylor Swift has never done anything wrong ever and she's a fucking genius" and "Taylor Swift is the worst lyricist of all time and also a bad person" is exhausting, so thank you for like. nuance or something lmao

not to make it serious for a sec but i genuinely think that being able to like things that are bad is really important. like I think that it's an important skill to be able to look at something and see what you personally enjoy about it and then take a step back and acknowledge that objectively it's flawed. and to also be able to acknowledge that liking something isn't necessarily an identity or a moral stance. and i think that fandom space in general could really benefit from more people taking the time to learn how to do that. it's okay to like things that are bad

#people ask me sometimes why ill occasionally talk about something i like and then go 'but it's bad' and the answer is usually because it is #i love teen wolf. i love genshin impact. i love detective conan. and i fucking LOVE taylor swift. that doesnt mean theyre good #it just means i like them. and recognizing their flaws actually helps me better identify what i like about them!#it's like. in my mind bad > good is the x axis and i like it > i dont like it is the y axis yk. they're not mutually exclusive #tldr it's not that serious. we can all relax a little #irt taylor swift i do also think she has done some real harm to her fans in enabling them to deflect all criticism of her as misogyny #and i don't think it's fully the fault of these people who are parroting that response bc so much of her marketing has deliberately #reinforced this idea that to be a swiftie is to be a part of a sisterhood and that any attack on taylor is an attack on all of those women #who are in that in-group. when that's obviously not the case. but she's marketed herself as. for lack of a better term. 'girl music'#to the point where it makes her fans feel as though any criticism of the music or the woman responsible for it is an attack on their #personal experience of womanhood/girlhood/sisterhood/etc. and that's how you get all of thess bad-faith accusations of misogyny #i don't necessarily think this was her deliberate goal with her marketing tho because like. on first glance such a strong sense of communit #among fans sounds like a great thing. the friendship bracelets i got at the eras tour movie are really genuinely special to me.#but it does present a problem when your fans are unable to separate how they feel about the community and experience your music has fostere #from how they feel about you as a person. especially when you are a billionaire who absolutely CANNOT be above criticism in this economy #anyway. tldr i love taylor's music and i don't think swiftie hivemind is as deliberately malicious as it may seem #but it's obviously necessary to be able to take a step back and look objectively at what you're participating in.#anyway stream ttpd or don't idc <3 #taylor swift

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numberoneredriotfan · 5 days ago

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The idea of Deku going to Bakugou, who's probably aroace, for love advice regarding Rody is so funny to me.

"I dunno Kacchan, I feel like there's butterflies in my stomach whenever we talk!"

"Then digest them?? Tf??"

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ink-stains-and-constellations · 4 months ago

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Who needs sex or romance when I can have FRIENDS

#i have been collecting more and more actual friends who i genuinely like #and it is amazing i love it #you're telling me i have PEOPLE? people in the plural?#people who i want to hang out with?#people who won't judge me when i be myself around them?#this is awesome #friends #friendship #aroace #aromantic asexual #aromantic #asexual #aro #ace

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hadesknockedupintheunderworld · 2 months ago

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I have all of these extended thoughts on my head about the amazing way themes and character relationships are handled in Iruma-kun and the inclusion of queerness and the handling of the coming of age narrative in this shonen manga/anime

And every time all that comes out when I'm reccing it is "You should watch/read it"

Do it. Go watch/read Mairimashita! Iruma-kun/Welcome to Demon School Iruma-kun

Please.