#and less boowomen who shame women

[cynicallgirll]

i have weird feelings towards the concept of pick me girls , mostly bc its like , a shamefull thing right? but sometimes it feels like what people are shaming are not the rejection of connecting with women but shaming them for doing the wrong things to attract men, like pick me girls are made fun of bc they'll say they like video games or football to get a guys attention and to other women this subconsciously reads as wrong and a facade but they hide behind being a 'girls girl' when they are making fun of this failure of womanhood. A girls girl preforms feminity and claims its forthemselves and of their own interest but ultimately aligns with the ideals of the patriarchy where as a pick me girl rejects the identity of the women around her and ends up unaligning herself with certain patriarchal ideals. And while rejecting the women around her is harmful, a pick me girl will be made fun of more for her lack of femininity more than anything else