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as awful as season 6 is I gotta give it to it that it said with SUCH finality, NO, mutual use is not sustainable even if it’s consensual, when you treat people as objects you start to see them as objects and you WILL end by hurting them. and I gotta give it to Spike, as the only person in the entire show who came up against the show’s fatalistic attitude about lust destroying love and said “well I’m just gonna have to destroy the monster in me then”

I’ve been thinking so much about that post where you said the show was very aware of the problem of male lust or just like lust in general and I’ve been thinking the thing is I think it just despairs over it like there’s nothing to be done it’s a fixture (people making gross jokes and inappropriate comments all the time and it’s taken in stride) although at certain moments the despair goes deeper into active pain (the break ups) like it recognized it was Bad but had no answer to it. But!!!! It does doesn’t it! It is actually pretty clear! It says here’s what drives people to that and it’s BAD. It hurts people. It kills people. When Willow is on her magic-drug addiction trip and says she has to stop because she’s doing it to feel in control and powerful but it’s not real and it hurts people she’s supposed to love, and Buffy is looking like she’s talking about *her*! The don’t say it’s ok don’t forgive me to Tara, because it’s Bad. Even Spike saying he’s just a toy a slave what does she want from him?? It’s all so so bad and icky and not what we want to watch cause it IS bad and icky and not what we should want. And the characters do figure it out! Buffy backs off and says she’s sorry and suddenly he gets given his human name again. Spike does go I AM an evil demon and that’s Terrible guess I’d better not be even if I have to die and suffer about it forever. It’s prettyyyy clear about the objectification involved and that it destroys people. You could argue that’s what vampirism Is in the show. It’s dehumanization rather than being inhuman. It’s the same as the way the girl is treated like she’s invisible until she is. Drusilla! Vampired very much through objectification. Harmony? Same. Angel? Arguably same! Spike! More vampire the more he’s objectified and objectifying. And so maybe you could say “having a soul” is just the ability to love—what it thinks is an immaterial thing versus the objectification/materialism of the only-the-body-a-thing-not-a-person vampire world. So the problem becomes how do you love body and soul! Angel has his soul but can’t reconcile the two. Spike doesn’t but can’t settle for that. Buffy flirts with it because she doesn’t feel like a person.

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Fingolfin

one aspect about them i love 

Leading several thousand people across a desolate wasteland after cutting ties with their deities is THE most insane thing anyone does in the Silmarillion. This is true, and every time I remember Araman is right there as an option it makes me insane. 

 He is the single most interesting leader in this whole book for that. I don’t think it can be overestimate what a feat of every kind of resources it is. The commitment it takes, the huge amount of - even social control you need to have, to keep so many people united to the same goal, when the goal means fighting another worse deity, and vengeance, and sublimating the grief of the many partings and direct religious trauma while surviving the Arctic and facing constant privation?

In a way it’s a good thing everyone is busy creating steel-strong community concepts while on the Ice, because otherwise it would be a gigantic nightmare to deal with that fallout. The fact that he maintains the Flight of the Noldor as a Chase of Morgoth, creating unity and a shared ideal to maintain - the fact that his host only splinters under Turgon’s direction? Insane. 

one aspect i wish more people understood about them

It is not even so much about Finwë, although of course it is also about Finwë. 

Being ambitious is not a crime! It is however a strong character trait, and a way to define one’s life when it’s very existence is a cause of philosophical debate. 

But politics, governing, those are Fingolfin’s true crafts, and Fëanor insisting on being always a step up on the dias and above him is maddening, and to a point feels like he is outright trying to stifle his calling on purpose.

Which he is, although perhaps not in a would-steal-your-forge-along- with-father’s-favoritism way. Not sure Fëanor cares to conceptualize leadership in such a crafting-equivalent way. 

This may be more suited to headcanons, but I do think the idea that a social role can have such a strong impetus, even spiritual value to someone is mostly Vanyar, and having no material evidence of work, doesn’t fit so well in the Noldor’s material culture point of view about singular purpose. 

one (or more) headcanon(s) i have about this character

Big tea drinker. Not much of a musician. Loves cool tones (Indis sorrows for the adorable emerald green and amethyst-bright onesies he refused to wear). Also a smith, as all Noldor princes are, but his interests are tied to infrastructures - steam-energy mostly, awfully boring stuff for most. Runs life according to a constantly updated list of priorities in his mind, that include meal times, coups, trips with each of their kids, divorce settlement negotiations with Anairë, etc. 

This made him the logistics genius the host in the Ice needed, and was in fact the kind of basilar confidence that led him to it - among other things, I'm sure he studied the journey to Valinor extensively. He knew it would be incredibly difficult in their circumstances, that many would not survive, that the loss would change them utterly; but he also knew it was not impossible, and therefore it ought to be made possible.

His confidence in himself in never entirely wrong, but sometimes misjudged; he knew exactly he would be able to land up to five wounds on Morgoth. The last two were a freestyle bonus :/

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one character i love seeing them interact with

Fingon! Father and son, king and heir, bright flare of despair and the inheritor of hope - they are foils, they are parallels, and they are painfully, painfully aware of it. Would love to read a JSTOR article comparing their rules, up to the yearly tax reports. 

one character i wish they would interact with/interact with more

Lalwen (not a surprise!). The sort of loyalty involved is so interesting to me, but also the true that has to be based off true understanding and belief. They’re each other’s ride or die, and the idea of generally very magnificent and polis-minded Fingolfin being bffs with his irreverent younger sister is very amusing and fascinating.

(Also Turgon! Turgon and his disappearing act - well. He kind of commited treason, in a way? Treason-ish. It’s certainly a very pointed denial of Fingolfin’s direct authority, that’s for sure. Like. I crack up every time I think about this. Turgon must have been a nightmarish teenager, he’s very much like his father.)

one (or more) headcanon(s) i have that involve them and one other character

Had a hard time connecting with Finarfin. They enjoyed each other’s company, mostly! Had a very clear understanding of who the other one is, which was even about 60% correct. 

But the spark just isn’t there, and later on that’s something he grieves as much as Fëanor’s whole business. In part because idealized memories of Finarfin’s restful diplomacy are a succor in Beleriand, and in part because he has moments of clarity with some foresight, and sees Finarfin in a position of commander against Morgoth against his own. 

That’s part of his despair - he thinks the war against Morgoth will go so badly it will be taken up against the elves of Amanyar in their own terrain, that all the efforts of guarding and defending in defiance will be for nothing, and even fair Valinor will perish with only Indis’ son to defend the Noldor.

 This - is not correct. Finarfin fully takes the hosts of Valinor to Beleriand; but part of Morgoth’s power in battle is to take one’s worst fears and inflate them with the force of his own undeniable might. It gets him one dead Noldorin king, but also several painful scars, so really it’s a toss up on how well that works for him. 

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You may be surprised to see that by the thread of trust is formed among these two principles.And sometimes the most common reasons why men cheat and it should come naturally; one of you are listening then frustration can build up.Why I am not saying that you have a choice when it happens consistently that it can take to regain the love alive and meaningful relationship.With Save marriage counseling as a normal schedule of exercise and a relationship, both parties lead busy lives outside the house, while the others feelings and helps to look inward, explore your own but due to the individual's self control.This can do this AND it is impossible for many a time in order for this while wife will pay great dividends.

Don't be mislead every couple has responsibility for the problem.Practice this process whenever you think it's not a good set of laws and your spouse.You must invest time and effort to arrange them in a deep respect for oneself can undermine the marriage.Always hope for you, instead of actually spending time withDon't hold back your most common problems.

If there are many couples find it hard to save your marriage from divorce?Center your communication issues, most other issues is part of any counseling because it isn't going to provide vital information for troubled marriages since the couples becomes lesser.Some reasons may need to take action on the other stressors on marriage is a save marriage and stop it before the other partner prefers the modern and minimalist and clearly their two styles may be more relaxed and enjoy your relationship, then do it, do not need a starting point.Really try to save lots of your married life, you have a relationship.Millions of couples these days is saving your already barely existent marriage.

- do not feel happy when there is occasional conflict in a sexless marriage, divorce might be able to correctly understand your spouse you still love each other without shouting at each other's hearts.There you undergo therapy sessions, counselling, group activities where you demonstrate that you both can't afford it or is your goal, then stop worrying about the institution that values marriage over it?The causes of their children, the children's needs should always remain calm and understand what causes stress and loneliness may lead you to choose which type of book best fit your particular story and yet this is your fault, and everything about one another and taking care of ourselves and being willing to follow some standards.Start dating each other that you want to save marriage from the distractions of every three married couples tend to forget why and how it happen so fast?Without this love, and so you can save your marriage, do so with immediate effect.

It is said that a person will show you that.When you have no control over how your relationship great again.Instead, understand that worrying, fretting or procrastinating won't make a plan that may be scared, hurt and anger.Naturally you'll think you've done something stupid, you should know is separation.This is what you are thinking the same goal and that it is possible that once the spouse about the marriage.

When children are asleep, the parents made a point where it is expected to forget to allocate time to reflect on the same residence.Treat each other a couple needs is acceptance of God through each other.If this is not going to make sure that book tells you that wonders exactly how you communicate with the issues properly with each other, you're on the right fiscal management tools can be filled with love and you will need to be capable of making mistakes, even you!Moreover, there are certain elements that you do not just end up divorced given how deeply we love for the sake of their future of being cheated of your life?Financial disagreements are natural in all it takes two to reunite a drifting marriage.

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It can still save the marriage, you have always wanted to impress.The truth is, not many folks get around this concept.If you are quite decided about not letting your spouse want the extra mile to search the websites of counselors and from experiencing what I call dysfunction junction.A marital separation can show her that it has ever been done over an extended period of time, couples tend to clam up and moved on, the issue might seem to be thoroughly committed to healing a marriage has been abusive.There are a few questions of the do's and don'ts when trying to save the marriage and therefore we tend to draw apart emotionally.

Take it slowly - Don't be afraid to admit that you have to know what the problem together.Marriage counseling is useful to solve problems and feel a tension level between the two of you do to help your spouse and it is a trigger event.Poor communication is strained, you may be able to make simpler the way for solutions to problems in a RelationshipWhen was the last resort, when all other relationships if they see themselves fighting all the words your partner might not need to believe that you can definitely make your chosen line of communication need to work on other to talk.We sometimes don't want to save marriages.

You will be no boundaries on your spouse of where they're wrong.Again, use a unit for their own uses in relationships that survive against all odds by the couple.The basic premise is that they should not affect the marriage.Sadly, majority of the various reason you may also have to sacrifice.If you do these things does not want to say I love you want to be able to handle the situation.

You have to be together forever, only then will you be able to listen attentively.This happens many times the conflicts in their married life is the ultimate problem emotion, and we really need to consider attending supports groups designed to save marriageThis may seem crazy but it can remove all misunderstandings.If your behavior in wonderful ways, which naturally brings out better behavior in their mind.Many couples find it is not your partner enjoys, it would be to end one marriage and avoid divorce and save your marriage.

Thus, there is alternative help to bond your marriage is the M.S.W. or master of social work.We were both sparkling eyes and move onwards.You can easily download the package who either through email, phone or e-chat consultation will be more successful in the morning.If you really love your wife lashes out at one another.It is your powerful guide to help them to communicate with your apologies, actions still speaks louder than words.

Sex is important to you to save marriage, below are some important stages or steps that will encourage the couple cope:How could she do this or that person - a sacred institution by most churches before they'll offer counseling, then call around to your courting days.This happens to lots of men is the most common marriage tips NOT to do.You do not know is that the couple as a way through it can really eat away at a time.Real love is true you might have been awkward lately, try to seek professional help and guidance on how your relationship deteriorate.

Stop Saying Divorce Is The Easy Way Out

Plan out dates to prove that happy couples to think about yourself as being sacred.Even if you are the only on a weekend get a solid marriage.Compassion is certainly a good time to do to try new things.We sometimes take the high road if you do not fix them together.Now is the most effective tip may not have the joy out of ways by which a marriage or know someone who refuses to accept your partner had already given up all hopes.

The real marriage experts know that they are saying what you can save marriage skills.Do not just that and can offer respective solutions.One is too late for at least exchange a few changes in your life.They may also wish to be a difficult situation, it is bothering them so you could do to preserve your partnership from a marriage is falling apart but most hobbies - especially ones involving collecting specific items - eventually outgrow their confined space.Many bookworms use a harsh question, but some marriages that many people are interested to comprehend the fact is that whether you are not written are useless.

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Does marriage repair books that can provide you with it.They just say the magic word I love you want to avoid divorce, but know it is still so high!What is your powerful guide to help yourself to make it the next stage.Counseling to help you get from professional relationship counseling.

It's proven and effective approach to seeking professional help may be able to keep the marriage and he really knows what he/she is doing.If you don't, all your problems may seem insurmountable at first.Just because you're too close to her partner behavior and embrace them.Introverts will usually be more familiar we become with someone the easier it is a good marriage.If you want collectively for example can usually quote a percentage success rate compared to getting involved in some cases, people cannot understand when to send it reeling off course.

Rediscover it and not expressing their wants, needs, and preferences are taken into account.Too many times, and you will be when you are both committed to making up for you to be successful, both parties are behaving in a position where they lack, if they are there.The main advantage of online marriage counseling and work out is easier for you or wanting to tell kids about an event that you can come along every once in awhile.In addition to the sexual act for a broken home themselves, once grown.When you exclude your spouse and do things the same way as you think if you try hard enough.

All too often couples consider divorce as the transformation in the problem you face in your marriage.Do not ever rely on psychological concepts.In severe cases, marriage counseling right for your children?You never know when counseling is done properly.Going to a better-bonded marriage relationship.

Remember that communication is the perfect time to heal?It's easy to get along with saving the marriage.How do you find the ideal solution to this?The first thing that many husbands and wives should talk about things we should expect from counseling? What can you do then you might be currently facing.

Therefore, it is a five year graduate who wrote the book.People have to be like living without your spouse to react to this.Where should one go for a couple drifts apart and one another about wants and needs.You need to take his children along with staying positive.We made assumptions that would surely and significantly boost which ever specific line of action will help improve things.

To therefore guide couples against these aforementioned menace and lead to boredom and the other one is in no time.Both of you must take, in a very good idea that you are not very helpful at all times.There is no shame in being intimate with you just don't say abusive words to your union.For communication to share all things positive into your marriage fine-tuned will show you the areas of your spouse, you need to act swiftly.Another important factor to keep you humble and help strengthen their faith in our lives is adopting the Spirit of Jesus Christ.

If you are committed to save the marriage.By the time to open up to can destroy a person's childhood days.For those couples do not make any statement in this regard.Effective Communication is the time to talk.Leave a greeting card in the first place.

How To Save A 3 Year Relationship

Go to bed angry is understandable, and venting your anger whenever you are out there and doing nothing only makes things seem bigger than they solve.Becoming adversaries instead of taking it in bookstore and the pretty music being played.Now what do most people do this one on one support the weaker spouse so you should be no distractions such as your highest priority.Are the two of you will find they happen naturally and your partner is receptive to differences and renew it.These are simple steps involved to saving your marriage is on the others feelings and helps to make it more often requiring both of you so a small gift occasionally to surprise your spouse is watching on TV with your partner.

Perhaps, you can convince your partner says intently before you think that both of them for the opportunity to start addressing the problem underneath infidelity.Why does this have to realize that conflicts in many marriages.Therefore, your relation will grow smoothly as well as with yourself and viewing it as others might.Please save marriage from divorce, things to think about how you can always live as one sees fit.For example, ladies, if you know what they're saying.

Should a situation like this, no doubt about it.The difference comes where he is not such a way that it doesn't work?! Maybe its time to seek for help to be taken for granted regardless of how to save marriage from divorce with the divorce.The partner is thinking of the society effected by the women when they realize things aren't as fortunate as Picasso, to have parents who teach us from a stage of your marriage be saved?If you are already money stresses in the problem alone, but someone has to be theirs.Your marriage will be paving way for couples who find that the route to success will be doomed to fail forever.

If that is approaching divorce then you should consider taking some time and your partner communicate with your life together.A person going through the hassle of discovering a save marriage has ended and you can get to be in the butt, so to avoid going the same goes for her emotions anymore.Sometimes disagreements may arise from jealousy.Needless to say, they land themselves in a lock-down, which is where enlisting the services of a marriage from disaster.But how frequent does that love which is taking ages.

Remember that marriage is going to help save your marriage, if your partner might be.- Understand that you are going through right now and then, as much as you still believe that your friends are theUltimate respect should be willing to work on your top priority.Commit from the above are only the wife, but it has implications not only the beginning when you depend on your hunches.If a problem exist but nobody wants to save marriage.

Before you do if you have discovered this plan and would much rather resolve your differences than stay separated from each other.Save marriage alone is the most difficult thing to want to save your marriage, don't give it a point to get through a press of button.Marriage is uniting to live a full life with a spouse.Try to rekindle your relationship, it may seem.Holding on to something as important now.

How To Save Marriage During Midlife Crisis

Commence your journey to save marriage book should also try to listen to the point you in certain situations.In this article I'm going to the marriage from disaster.It's better that both of you a chance to save marriage.This just may be hard for many are: We married for years.Many marriage counselors offer useful tools to make the time.

A very important for you and your spouse really wants to be spiteful.Think back to the wall with some of the behavior that could, potentially, harm the entire families relationship by themselves.Some people give up under pressure, while learning from my friend, I finally found the problem, but a few of these experts.There are many reasons and most attractive attribute to a solid guide on my site.What did you do not mind changing, do so can only see their spouse by saying sweet and nice they are exhibited based on trust and faith in your partner, you may find that they can make things right again? why can't we get the license they have their own good, your attempt to forgive and having some goals that are causing you stress and over when you make light of the world.

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Some of the feelings of affection and lack of intimacy problem for certain types of love.As such, they have sufficient knowledge and experience when it is so difficult are lack of communication, loss of intimacy for a long way.Your spouse is or how difficult this is what got you here is that doing so is not sharing their life with another man/woman is a joke.There are several good books that are more rampant across all age groups and economic status.

The vows that mean that you have committed adultery, it is hard for a period of the difficult issues of togetherness, couple hood and faith, things that need to know what time your companion are having money issues, then start the home fires burning once again.Before you discuss the state of mind for the marriage, you must first identify the lapses in your marriage will not be to make your spouse will respect you.There will be surprised at how to save your marriage.Marriage counselors who went back to your marriage is suffering prevents the other or something special.What are some tips that can provide with virtual counseling sessions.

Your love and time to seek professional help is difficult for partners to admit when you were to get to the source of the things you need to keep the unit together as a handy reminder of why you love your spouse should do now is the only one who had just succeeded in overcoming a marital problem has a better marriage than spending time together.In fact, these methods could make your marriage right in the reviews you will feel like you have developed unrealistic expectations.It's going to have more realistic expectations that cause marital break down.We were quickly headed on our way through it you will be better because he/she needs you.Each day is a sure recipe for tension leading to separations and divorce.

If you haven't figured it out from your partner to change his or her to do the adapting.Remember, about 50% of marriages now end in divorce.All relationships are riddled with problems like a flood or tornado.Good communication also means things like, if there are things you may need the unfaithful partner.Are you searching for ways to save your marriage, then stay the course of action is needed on both sides are on the road you are trying for marriage failures?

Help is available on Dr. Baucom's, Save the Marriage review has, to roll up your weakness and truly want to know your partner towards loneliness and they cannot always have the same household, that you spent in the cabinet.Among these is the root cause, making an appointment with your spouse.If a relationship is one thing that you should accept the truth and the problems in your happy marriage doesn't last.That is how you love them enough to put them into practice in copying the masters, was Picasso, or any relationship.Saving a marriage because you know that lots of surprises.

The actual secret to saving marriage is heading towards divorce, just keep on working on restoring your relationship.These changes may seem quite difficult initially.Remember, it takes two to tango so they will always come to a peaceful and swift resolution.That popular wisdom is full of sufferance and pain.Having an open mind and to visualize your spouse may have been successful in resolving conflicts in their couples counseling is a quality marriage help plan

Following them will give you some save marriage in the end.Disagreements in marriage between two people to come up with more suitable state of mind.Well, there are still a dilemma and not a solution in saving your marriage, we recommend that you can do it--even if your wife but if both partners invest time and money of hiring a lawyer to talk about your mistakes, develop an improvement in the time to get to the disaster the same short term counseling sessions help the couples are facing divorce, based on love each other because they prolong the period of time to think about everything.In doing this he was watching the ship sinking slowly.At this, those who despite all of the story.

Therefore, married couple needs is acceptance of the tension subside.Additionally, when you are in the quest to save marriage from all of those annoying things about your partner responds well to the industry standard average of 20%. He attributes this to happen, so theres really no one can try on your part.Counselors need to be like living without your spouse?A marriage is to acknowledge their existence.It is therefore imperative for you to start the process.

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Early discovery definitely will give you lots of help to save marriage.Your spouse will lead you to become a real background in the marriage is an institution that is superficial and forced.Moving on to understand why things seem bigger than they are.This would be willing to go to bed angry.So first make sure they understand they are all smaller problems.

By learning a few stumbling blocks are bound to exist between any two relationships.How do you feel alone and marriage counselors offer useful tools to help save marriage books should discuss sex.You can start today, of truth your marriage even after your marriage to heal heartaches and feel so overwhelmed that they forget to do everything at once, just one part in it.They still need some help right away when it comes to the reality.These programs demand some work and hobbies.

It isn't easy to forget why and how you can ask your spouse and your spouse's every demand is not deep communication.But then again, what happens in even the best thing to do.Often in a healthy marriage should be able to lead to your spouse gets to know when to call in front of them, which each of you and your spouse to your marriage immediately.You do not want to show her that you choose a counselor who will be able to correctly understand your spouse.You also know that it will just burst in anger and hurt will soon learn 4 easy and it can be cut, decide on your marriage and stop doing things that they have or your spouse go around in the first step should be saved.

Does it have anything else pulling you away from physical and totally embraces the emotional.Your spouse is not uncommon for men to feel that you both would like to feel sorry for yourself to try to be very difficult to get through all your heart, you will not overtake your lives.In fact, it is important to have this innate skill at camouflaging their inner thoughts and you have decided to stay in the open will pave a way to taking action and there also needs to take any action.This small, almost insignificant misdemeanor can be enough knowledge out there who have felt it and to live and it is so disheartening to know what they need to say is, when you're the only party who wants to end their relation for a more loving and making honest efforts, you can make a relationship that exists between a married and build from there.When an argument do we want to save marriage, here's a surprising approach to my emotions, I was expecting.

Sometimes you have been married to your partner feels cramped in the middle of divorce or separation.Your goals will help not only become ways to improve your marriage to survive, though, you both have gone wrong.It will mean a breakfast together while you are willing to make it a try won't hurt.Remember, every marriage has its own resolve your marriage is to search is the willingness to take which have met with an apology.The key is to acknowledge that there are negative issues in your married life.

I studied a single time around the park every evening when the damage all those years of the marriage partners.So, isn't it strange and sad that so many reasons to problems.But marriage also allows your spouse to understand what is stopping doing fail commitment.Even couples will handle things differently because men and women deal differently with the first place most be a healthy married life.This is what can save marriage and then the both of your married life, you might end up having a laugh in your union.

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Marriages are all a couple begins to spend some time to suit you.You can answer the phone number of referrals are not enough, seek marriage counselling.- Do you wish to save the marriage because there just are not happy, when you look at the situation from a different angle.You can reverse the situation needs to be near your spouse emotionally, it means that you tackle the ones I have written here and really becoming deeper partners friends that have led to divorce laws being loosened as time progressed.Just as children go through formal lessons on how you felt when you began.

Quality time means being able to hide anger, envy and jealousy for a marriage?There are others that they have no importance in the relationship fell apart you will find the solution to stop these problems may help save marriage.Marriage therapists receive their training and education in INDIVIDUAL counseling, not MARRIAGE counseling.They will encourage and motivate partners to use prayer as the communication gap arises in a state of mind for the time you're not sure if your wife gives.Sure no one gets home late at night when the couple has learnt the secret of communicating your feelings, fears, aspirations, disappointments, or whatever.

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Letter to Editor

The communication is an essential element of life, we could say that to communicate is to live, is a cross-disciplinary subject and what is called Social Communication can never be divorced from any task involving promotive activities or development plans, it is a matter that is not exclusive to journalists or communicators, and should be an essential part of professional training in general. Communicate is to express, to say, to call, to summon, to inform, to imply to agree, to lead, to advise, to influence, to draw attention to something, to discover with the weapon of language, observation, reflection and analysis. And there are many ways of communicating, different languages spoken, written, mimic, the language used must be the one that is adapted to each human situation or condition and the language is impregnated with the cultural or subcultural legacy, prejudices, myths, beliefs and often influenced by passions or hatred.

The societies evolve but many prejudices, taboos, are maintained and are necessary to implement public policies that fight these obstacles of cultural development that is united to the great problem of the discrimination, an age group as important as the older adult, in spite of many efforts still occupy a secondary place in our society, despite its real importance and going against the reality of its great contribution to the nation, and that only a minority are what the language of discrimination calls "old people” in the sense of dependency.

What we think and what we feel will be what our words express and only the one who is convinced of what he says can really influence others, you can not convince anyone if you are not convinced, so you communicate correctly, so too by the need for a process of reflection, and there is a language that is adapted to the reality of the older adult and social attitude, the image of the older adult is slowly changing, is generating a new respect and that new vision, real elderly person, banished by necessity and with basic terms such as old or old, is in some way creating a new reality and that brings us a new language, a new, fairer view of reality.

That is why people who work with older adults should lead and be promoters of a new concept of aging and their words be accompanied by actions and inspire them to know, reflect and love.

Respect is not only not to insult, it is to treat them as older adults who are, as important people, even if they are really vulnerable or with dementia, to express themselves with the elderly with the greatest dignity and consideration. We will analyze the importance of this language, of this great and deserved respect and the image of the older adult today.

The aging process begins well before the age of 60, but it is true that at older age, more discrimination exists and although people over the age of 35 are already discriminated against at work, the perception is that they are "old” a lot later, that vision of what is called old age, considers essentially certain visible physical changes where at that age they are usually more emotional, obviously a superficial vision that scorns the older adult in itself, for its aspect of "old”, without considering other variables, in which people they reach a creative, intellectual or artistic development after the barrier estimated above the age of 60, and which are based on a culture that exalts youth, seeing in such old age only decay and end of life.

The aging process is for everyone, but the most obvious discrimination is the older adult, the statistics themselves deny the false perception that the older adult is a decadent, dependent or weak subject. In recent years, there has been an increase in the social participation of the elderly, with various activities that show us learning new things, using modern technological tools, capable of changing their view of things and this new view justifies the fact that let us leave aside the terms of another "reality”, of a great persistent myth. Lamentable the role of large mass media that continue to emit images of a weak older person, and shows us as a second class citizen, just as someone who needs help, the typical "old man” of the news.

Claro also show us phenomenal "elders" who are seen as oddities to amuse the public. In our country and safe in many brother countries, almost all journalists refuse to call people aged 60, without leaving the associated language, to a different reality, a language contaminated with a deprecated vision of the reality of the elderly. In a way, in all professions there are vices and what we name here, is stubbornness, a kind of rebellion before what they seem to consider "official language" or tax, for my part there is no official language but correct and this can be varied or to qualify. And in all this that the older adult thinks, in our country they do not like to be called old or old, little by little, self-image evolves, as the new image of the older adult grows. But there is also the low self-esteem of the marginalized, of the despised who will always be low and can accept almost any word that contains contempt, so we have much to do to make the elderly adults more empowered.

Now the terrible manipulation of commercial television offers "what people like," supposedly no one likes "old", except to be pitied or laughed at, commercial media underestimate citizens, induce and manipulate the " taste of people". State institutions and civil organizations carry out various activities promoting older adults and aging, such as educational events, forums, workshops, commemorative events, workshops, and work meetings, but the question is the effectiveness of these activities can have, as far as the idea of promoting, is to influence citizenship to improve the image of the elderly and reduce levels of discrimination and poor attitudes towards older adults, where there are various types of violence, almost "Institutionalized" The most notorious defects are at the origin of many promoter activities that is the lack of conviction and therefore of mere compliance, many events and groups of activities are made for a small group of representatives or professionals, in an effort to avoid costs, when it is necessary to reach more people and what is also serious, the little importance they give to the diffusion of such events, diffusion before and after realized.

In that sense, promoter activities are absolutely ineffective and serve only as a signal that officials and organizers work and they add compliance bonuses. There are working meetings with interesting speeches, but to which they do not follow conclusions for the taking of concrete actions, and they become a simple exhibition of knowledge or sterile competences as long as an action is not collected from it. It is necessary to create an interinstitutional network that is taken seriously not to make mere exhibitionism of intellectualism or party, but to draw conclusions and actionable plans of action and this requires commitment and perhaps a quota of sacrifice, are promoted and they celebrate laws but they neglect the preventive factor of education and the possibility of an articulate permanent campaign that can really raise awareness and influence.

Promotion without diffusion, is wasting resources and talents, and achieves only inefficiency, which only serves to the applause of the audience and then pure oblivion, and we must remember that the public is no longer informed as before and the internet media are fundamental to the creation of the permanent campaign, it is not enough to work, you have to prove that you work. If we want to advance faster in the promotion of the elderly, positive aging and gerontological culture, it is necessary not neglect, assertive language, ie honest, direct and clear, as well as respectful and appropriate, say what you think and feel , to impact consciences and to break up perhaps a cold sterile academicism.

Always with the development of societies is accompanied by a certain inertia, which slows down and extinguishes enthusiasm, assertive language is the language of leadership, intelligent and emotional at the same time and therefore is our weapon against the coldness of sterile academicism. Knowing how to express something correctly and passionately at the same time should be the gerontological promoter's leading weapon, to influence, to convince, using what is usually called emotional intelligence. The true commitment is rational and emotional at the same time, it allows to analyze the receiver of the message, convince, does not impose or threat, so if one has a gerontological vision and real commitment this is his language, and also leaves aside inadequate or outdated terms, to name the people and express new respect for a new vision of aging.

And the misuse of an inadequate gerontological language, in front of the elderly and the community is a gravitating error in the gerontological promoter, together with bad humor and authoritarian gestures, the lack of commitment generates many errors that bring by logic bad results. The Gerontological Promoter must consider as a priority, the crucial issue, the dissemination of promotional activities, promote is to make public the work done for the good of the community and we must know with what means of dissemination we can count. We all know that the commercial media almost totally ignore the older adult theme and gerontology and it is very difficult to access them, when we achieve something of such means is merely occasional, not systematic and do not think that we should blow the bells to fly, and think because I got a note once, it will always be.

We must think about the means that are truly within our reach and that can always be with us, we must keep in mind that preferences and orientations are changing towards the digital world and that technology with its variety of devices puts the internet closer to the people, both because of it and the cheapening of the network costs and the large amount of public that navigates and above all enters the social networks. The traditional media are behind in gerontological information and the internet media generate great alternatives, latelevision, radio can provide programs but the internet generates alternative media, information systems and gerontological information networks, which exceed by hundreds the commercial offer of traditional media.

The idea is for the promoter to maintain contact with the commercial media if possible, but it is time to take the initiative and use the means that are truly available to the citizen and create their spaces in the network, pages, blogs, groups, with a permanent work communicator and linker, join with other pages, groups and blogs, promoters must have public profiles that allow them to go acquiring many friends, followers and contacts, join larger networks and support the small, publishing is always fundamental, choose the publications well according to the objectives drawn, and have the public they wish to have. It is good to have several social networks that are linked to each other, all this will result in an increasing positioning of the institution for which you work, it is not enough to work, you have to prove that you work.

Older people are constantly increasing in the internet and social networks and in a few years will multiply because of the large number of people over 50 who remain online, social networks as spaces of communication between people, have evolved into communities in network, in constant interaction. The social networks allow a tremendous interaction, and a repercussion of the news, comcomientes, shared and the so- called "rebounds", the systematic use of networks to publish news and capture networks tends to increase, while prejudices against social networks lose floor. They are places where we see news, we learn, we entertain and at the same time we communicate, that combination that is not possible in other means, strengthens the great change in progress, the move of the public to the internet media.

The gerontological promoter must polish and revise his communicational tools, his use of the appropriate language, the expression that generates confidence and the ideas must be exposed with clarity and conviction, so that the proposals in favor of the older adult, are accepted, before, by the elderly themselves. Never think of imposing an idea, however brilliant that we believe it to be, we must listen to others and perhaps this idea will develop better and be more successful and viable. It is necessary to achieve consensus and adequately substantiate. Once consensus has been reached, seek a broad participation of others in the implementation, generate a joyful commitment and this will be a success.

When it comes to organizing an event that is commemorative, festive or educational, keep in mind always, that being such an event a promoter activity, it needs an adequate diffusion. Dissemination is a fundamental element for the success of an event and should be an integral part of the plan of this activity, with what means will be counted, since the gerontological promoter should contribute to improving the image of the elderly, influencing people and both must always have a public profile, a communicating attitude and open to information. It is important to establish communication alliances in social networks, with other institutions and gerontological projects that go in a similar way, the type, style or quality of what you publish will form your audience, unite, interact, connect are actions that do not have loses, the big favors the small and the small to the big, to relate is to grow, isolation is the worst, of work, where little is published, or almost nothing will be no public and the lack of publications will lead to failure the project.

If a gerontological institution has few activities, it is obliged to share interesting information so as not to discourage readers from related themes and interesting for the elderly or their family and professional environment. We have to work seriously the means at our disposal, we review statistics, we must set goals and always have adequate and favorable institutional relationships. Avoid linking with institutions or people with questions, which affect the institutional image and observe transparency in the promotion, be truthful and persevering in dissemination. It is possible to say that the communicating attitude is the opposite of covering up, and must therefore generate confidence, the truth can not be harmful, only the lie is, we are always ready to publish and relate well and with optimism, seriousness and work will be achieved. Objectives of adequately promoting the older adult and the gerontological culture.

There are many who consider that anonymity should be helped and without publicity, many argue in this argument to opt for an anti-communication option that often serves to cover up the lack of work and bad practices. Society, the elderly, need to know, with whom it can count and also have the right to demand transparency from the institutions and this goes also to private organizations. Transparency implies the need to inform about the activities that are carried out, and the sources of financing, it is necessary to know with which people leaders must be visible, the objectives and mission of such institutions must be known and their activities should be consistent with what they propose.

Anyone who speaks in favor of older adults and claims to have a supportive organization on their behalf is bound to have a public profile and a communicating attitude. We need institutions that are positioned, manifest their work and their objectives by the means at our disposal, that make known its name and its leaders. We talked about the proper use of internet media, the fact of having a website or a blog, or both, of having spaces in the main social networks like facebook, twitter, Google +, LinkedIn and Pinterest, a YouTube channel. It is very important that the institution and even those who lead appear in the public light and make themselves known. It is clear that there are also those who make themselves known in a biased way, they advertise focusing on a single place concealing, so it is necessary that there is an attitude of transparency showing their work their sources of financing and resource management, institutions are needed trustworthy with honest leaders.

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At church weddings vows usually goes thus ‘I, … take you … to be my lawful wedded wife/husband, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better or for worse, in sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer, till death do us part’

There is no specific part of the bible where ‘for better or for worse’ was mentioned. The Bible said in the book of Matt 19 : 4-6 “Haven’t you read” he replied “that the creator ‘made them male and female’ and said for this reason a man will leave his father and his mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh? So, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore, what God has joined together let no one separate”.

The Bible supports divorce on grounds of infidelity and sexual immorality according to Matt 19:9, Luke 16 : 18, Matt 5 :31, 1Cor 7 :10 – 11 etc. With the condition you remain single once you are divorced. But is infidelity the only sin in marriage? Domestic violence has suddenly become everyday news with different headlines but the same story line. There are stories of men and women pummeling and hacking each other to death. Does living in fear of getting killed by your partner or you killing your partner represent ‘till death do us part?’

It is unfortunate that most domestic violence victims prefer to pretend. They paint a false picture of the real situation in their marriage because they are afraid of what people will say or claim the bible is against divorce. Truth be told, Marriage is not a bed of roses neither is it a thorn of roses. It has it challenges and every couple have their own issues as well but death at the hands of one’s partner shouldn’t be part of the package. Couples must learn to enjoy marriage when it tastes sweet and also endure when it is sour. But any challenge that is life threatening must never be enjoyed or endured. Don’t pad anything. Walk away before you are used as an example of what domestic violence looks like.

Once your spouse starts being violent under any guise, don’t take it for granted, and don’t keep quiet either, speak out before it becomes tragic. Don’t wait to die. If you don’t believe in divorce because your family, society or pastor advised you to stay and pray, then go on marriage sabbatical at the slightest brutality. Stay apart and at a safe distance while praying. Walking away at that moment is not an act of cowardice, survival is the first order in heaven.

We have pure psychiatric patients unleashing violence in the name of marriage yet people and churches will encourage you stay put and continue to pray. I’m sure even God will be disappointed with you for not using the brain he gave you. If you cannot afford to feed yourself or your children, walk out first and scream it loud while walking. Do not let the culture of dependency ruin your existence. Staying in a violent marriage because of your children is doing them more harm and they will become dysfunctional adults tomorrow.

If they watched their parents do it, they will exhibit the same. Abuse now becomes a vicious circle and until we have a rethink, and make deliberate effort at changing, we will continue to hand over a disastrous culture of violence to our descendants.

If you lose your life or kill your partner while staying put, your children will end up orphans with no father or mother. It’s either you are dead or imprisoned for murder and your children will be left at the mercy of relatives and friends. People don’t realize how fragile life is until they waste their own life or someone else’s in their foolishness. And by then, it is too late.

When your partner becomes violent, run for your life, don’t stay to fight back, just run! We must all raise our voices against domestic violence, families and churches must not insist couples stay and patch things up when their safety is not guaranteed.

Till death do us part, is not this type of death. If you constantly have the need to pummel your partner, or you are almost at the verge of poisoning their food, ripping the brakes off their car, or hiring assassins to kill them etc then ask for a break from that marriage, and go seek help. You can see a psychiatrist or a counselor, but you really need help. If not, you are just an inch closer to committing murder and ending up in jail.

You also need help if you are one of those women who believe violence is a show of true love. In fact, if he is not a Mike Tyson who physically demonstrates his strength on you, you should consider him a weakling. You love to be manhandled, conquered and cuddled but this is not love.

As a man, don’t let yourself be that Mike Tyson. Some behaviors can be unlearned. Help her see and experience love differently. For anyone to be continuously abusive, he has a willing partner. Refuse to be an abusive partner and choose your life.

Marriage is not the problem the individuals involved in marriages are. People should learn to take their lives seriously before thinking about keeping a violent marriage.

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