#adding the caveat that i also love to hear he/him. not bc i'm a man but because of 5d chess gender reasons | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

nulfaga · 2 years ago

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Actually like. Ngl it's distressing to me that ppl now default to they/them-ing me until they hear otherwise....like all love to my they/thems but 1) it never happened before i cut my hair, bass boosted thinking emoji etc and 2) emotionally it literally makes me burst into flames from the inside out, like i can't rationalize it but it always feels like someone is looking completely through/past me.

I wouldn't mind it if i didn't know that it was happening because my hair is short and i wear sports bras and mens jeans and all. But like bear with me: my presentation isn't feminine but to me it is so obviously a woman's presentation? A woman's masculinity. Like if you're not looking at me and concluding that my gender is dyke then something's getting lost here lol

#tbf today there was a trans guy with us who presents VERY similarly to me #and i assume the person who themmed me made a rational decision that if i was trans then ''they'' would hurt less than ''she''#which! tbf! is usually true. just not here lol #adding the caveat that i also love to hear he/him. not bc i'm a man but because of 5d chess gender reasons #so really of the three choices she had she picked the only sore one and that was unfortunate for both of us </3

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