Two things you needed to hear today:
“You can’t be a good child to a bad parent.”
“You weren’t a bad child, you were reacting to your environment.”
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“But he was just a child”
So was I
And I’m suffering and he’s not
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"they're a minor" "they're just a kid" being a minor isn't an excuse to abuse and traumatize people, dumbass. you're too focused on the fact that they're a kid and not holding them accountable instead of paying attention to the person who they hurt.
minors are just as capable of abusing other minors and even adults like anyone else. but this shit is always glossed over because "they're just a kid"
and just because someone is older doesn't mean that they're not capable of being abused by someone younger.
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"Mental health matters !!!" Until it's hypersexuality caused by being sexually abused as a kid by people older than you and your friends
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I hate how fucked up I am from being sexually abused by my brother. Like now I have a fucking ag3 d1ff3renc3 k1nk and inc3st k1nk no matter how much I don’t wanna have it. Fuck my life. It’s like my brain is now wired to only derive pleasure from the things that hurt me.
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It’s always “I’m sure she didn’t mean anything by it” and never “I’m sorry that happened to you”
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growing up after being groomed is sobbing every day because you’re wondering where all the attention went and then sobbing harder because you realized it’s going to a girl younger than you and then sobbing harder when you realize that girl is going to become you
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I hate that I need validation for my trauma
Like I didn’t have a mental breakdown so bad yesterday over my flashbacks my mom called the hospital
And yet I still question if I’m being to dramatic was it really that deep? Was it really sa? I don’t even remember enough
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yeah, i hate everything that my abusers did. but what disgusts and angers me more than anything that they did, is the fact that they're living their best lives, with no consequences. meanwhile, i'm still trying to fucking repair the life that they ruined for me
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TW cocsa, incest
BPD culture is realizing that you idealize and demonize people because your own sister sexually abused you. In order to handle it, you had to learn to blend that part out.
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