#No sex before marriage

[aventurineswife]

Reader: My hands are cold.

Sunday: Here, let me hold them.

Reader: My lips are cold too.

Sunday: *covers Reader's mouth with his hand*

[wecanbeperfect]

TWELVE THOUSAND SEALED FROM EACH TRIBE

[dono-cho]

after work doodle

[helio-phobe]

The St Sebastianification of Celebrimbor.

[toonsforkicks22]

Someone on Twitter drew Goth Pomni but I mistook her for a nun. I drew Father Kinger before I realized my misunderstanding 🥲

[fromtheseventhhell]

I want to make a longer post about this someday but: I think Arya's TWOW arc is going to include her coming to terms with her identity as a Lady. This has been an ongoing conflict with her since her first chapter and I think her flowering in winds is going to mark a turning point. The theory of her having an apprenticeship with the courtesans holds a lot of weight and the idea of Arya going through puberty among a group of unconventional women she's fostered a positive relationship with is just too perfect. It would really have an impact on Arya reconciling her personal idea of what a Lady should be. There's also a lot that she could learn from them in terms of courtesies, communication, appearances, body-language, etc. that would elevate her current skill-set and ways her relationship with them could push the plot.

Not to mention she will undoubtedly reclaim her identity as Arya Stark, and her being a Lady is inseparable from that. Arya Stark is a Lady Stark and being a Lady is a social position, not a measure of how well someone preforms feminine tasks. She shouldn't have to relinquish her position because she doesn't fit patriarchal standards. That's not to say that she's ever going to be the perfect example of a traditional Lady but what I think will happen is that she becomes capable of playing the part. She plays several identities throughout the series but she's always been Arya underneath, so I think it's appropriate that she learns to adopt a "persona" that's part of her. Her remembering Ned putting on his "Lord's face" (+ the various examples of other characters being separate from their ruling persona) makes me think that Arya will be donning her "Lady's face" when she makes a return to Westeros.

[phregnancy]

The WAD hat is the wedding ring

🙄 the wad hat is their promise ring get it right

[sciderman]

how long did shiklah and Wade know each other before getting married? was it like, a drunk Vegas proposal? I'm not caught up on shiklah and it disappoints me that I don't know a lot about her.

in 616 canon it was kind of a rush-job – i'm not entirely sure about timescale - it's one of those adventure stories where a whole lot of action happens on a short timescale, but who knows, it could've spanned a few days or a few weeks before wade put a ring on it. and while they did like each other a whole lot, and were at it like rabbits -

the actual marriage was more of a tactical move to thwart dracula (long story)

i'd recommend reading dracula's gauntlet if you want the whole canon meetcute - it's very cute and fun.

it's one of the most fun deadpool books you could pick up, and the art's superb. (reilly brown my beloved...)

[candycandy00]

I love how x reader fanfic writers just pull out all their filthiest kinkiest fantasies and pass them around to each other like trading cards.

[georgebbwbush]

honestly i think some of you guys need a tolerance break but for sex. like if you can only nut to some weirdass bdsm scenario shit then you need to cut all the pornography and physical intimacy out of your life for a month or two until you're so desperate that you cream your pants at the mere thought of missionary sex with the lights off

[agnesandhilda]

do you think he ever woke up next to her in the middle of the night with his head in his hands

[reythemandalor]

Thrawn: Do you want to marry me?

Eli: Sex

Thrawn: What?

Eli: Sorry I meant yes

[arthur-lesters-right-arm]

fuck marry kill kellin uncle and the trader

You want me to do all that to each of them??? In that order???

[sracha]

happy freaking pride month ‼‼‼

[isatoru]

yukimiya having loid's VA is cooking me more than i thought i fear.... hes so handsome and charming....

[marzipanandminutiae]

You posted about getting married young, and I just wanna say thank you? I got really lucky and met THE woman when we were 17, and engagement is in the horizon for us at 22, 23. Sometimes it gets to me when people say we're wasting our youth, it's nice having someone batting for us

Also love the pfp, carmilla fans are still alive and well and if you've got any fanfic recs lmk

Congrats! I hope it works out for you. (I would say "girl" at 17, not "woman," but I assume it's just a random word choice since it sounds like you're the same age, so not a big deal.)

While I of course don't advocate for child marriage- ie marriage below age 18, and really I think 20+ is wiser -the whole "date around or you're Wasting Your Youth!!!" narrative pisses me off, like I said. I grew up with that shoved down my throat to the point where I believed my own desires to just meet the right girl and stay with her forever were just youthful romanticism; that I'd "mature" and want to date more people instead of wanting to settle down. (And for some people that is the trajectory! And that's fine! Just...not everyone.)

When your mother got so lost in the Swinging Sixties sauce during her own teen years that she goes too far the opposite way of most parents, I guess?

Yeah, someone might regret a young marriage. But they might regret ANY marriage- that's just a risk you take when you get married. Trusting people to know their own minds in relationships that present no actual red flags is important, even for teenagers. Teaching young people not to trust their own (harmless) emotions and desires for their lives because it doesn't match what you'd have them do seems horribly backwards to me. It's a dangerous precedent to set for them.

When I was 16, I thought I'd be perfectly happy if I married a girl I met at that age- when we were older, of course. Now I'm 30, and guess what? I still think that. I would have been satisfied. Hell, I wish that had happened. It's not right for everybody, but it would have been right for me.

I hope things work out for you two!