#I mean it’s kind of a vent idk

[nixthatoneartist]

This is just an observation, but judging from my friends’ experience and reading around etc etc

The ‘argument’ of some transphobic parents that the environment is what’s ’making them trans’ and shutting off all connection from the world is so bull,

Like they tried to discover themselves and all you’re doing is shutting down your own kid’s feelings and putting yourself and your beliefs before them.

They could have just as easily been swayed by the beliefs you hold on the internet or out there but they aren’t, because they’re them.

It’s just sad to see so many parents of trans and queer folk do this. It feels like, and probably is, them putting something before their own child. Whether it’s a belief they hold true to them or a book or the like, it’s something that clouds their worldview somewhat.

It pains me to see how some people can be so hateful and selfish. It defies what those very people say they stand for a majority of the type too, and the hypocrisy makes me sick to my stomach.

Forgive me if any of this comes out odd, I don’t consider myself the best typer.

I say all this especially because a good friend of mine recently came out to her parents, and they’re…to put it bluntly, not particularly supportive.

The person in question, who for the sake of things I will refer to as Azzy, has been stressed a lot lately. They’ve felt the way they have since they were quite young and have been stressed by external factors.

They weren’t really sure whether to come out, but her mom seemed ready to accept and she finally did the other day.

But oh hell it did not go well. She was shut down fast. Limited in everything, even communications with her fellow students, on things she needed to do for school, all on the grounds of ‘personal safety concerns’ — the ‘concerns’ in question being how Azzy ‘thinks the way she does.’

As someone who’s read George Orwell’s 1984 alone, this sent a chill up my spine.

Not to mention the gaslighting by their parents they’ve been mentioning and apparently upcoming physical abuse as threatened by the parents.

I’ve recommended they speak with the police or child protective services or somebody about this but I would appreciate more resources if any of y’all have any.

why must the world be so cruel sometimes.

[deoidesign]

I met the me who made different choices

[bottombaron]

you know, i can handle a little bit of fun "Nandor is dumb" talk, but i have a net-zero tolerance for any implication that Nandor is not educated.

Nandor would have been incredibly educated in his lifetime.

even (or especially) as a soldier in the Islamic World. being a soldier was more like getting sent to boarding school that's also a military camp. they weren't just concerned with creating loyal fodder for war. they were building the next government officials, generals, accountants, advisors, etc. it was important that young men knew how to read, write, speak multiple languages, learn philosophy...sometimes even studying art and music was mandatory.

if he was nobility (and its most likely he was), take all that shit and multiply it exponentially. Nandor would have been reading Plato at the same age most people are still potty training. he would have been specifically groomed in such a way to not be just a brilliant strategist and warrior, but also diplomate and ambassador of literally the center of scientific and cultural excellence of the age.

so like yeah, he can be a big dummy sometimes, sure. but that bitch is probably more educated than any of us will ever be.

[oceanwithouthermoon]

maybe its just me but i cant stand when people are like "it just doesn't sit right with me how teruhashi thought about aiura 🥺" like yes... its not supposed to ??? because her thinking badly of other girls and prioritizing male validation over everything is one of her main flaws ??? can we talk about that WITHOUT making it seem like shes not allowed to have a single actual flaw without suddenly becoming an awful person? nobody can handle complex female characters at all and its so fucking annoying

[rosesradio]

You're the only person i follow who posts about thomas sanders

And i only watch him for sanders sides, i'm not really in the fsndom online, so i guess you are the best person to ask this

Why does thomas take so long to upload new sander sides?

ten questions scientists still can't answer, anon

[ineed-to-sleep]

You talked to a regressive, misogynistic man and obvs thought what he was saying was bs but then decide you're trans bcs of it??? You're just validating his dumbass ideas, deciding you can't be a woman bcs you don't like sexist traditions. Why are you letting this guy determine that you're not a woman rather than throwing away the entire bs idea of gender?

Hi! How are you? Are you okay?? This sounds very passive agressive. I think I know the post you're trying to respond to- a vent post I wrote *weeks* ago about my stepfather's views on gender, right? Honestly I think if that rattled you enough to go dig up the subject with this ask, you either have no tact or have some issues of your own to work through.

That said, the way I view my own gender is way more complicated than just one man's views on gender, and if you think I've "decided I'm trans" just because of this one conversation I had with him, you probably don't even follow me and have never seen any of my posts prior to that cjncnvmv I don't necessarily define myself as trans, and my own feelings on gender are complicated, and have been for, idk, forever? I can't really define myself as anything since I don't even understand how I feel yet. But I do like to make vent posts, from time to time, because it feels good to talk about these feelings, and it feels good to see people respond to them saying they feel the same way. It makes me feel less alone. I honestly think it's bullshit for you to come to my inbox acting like you know everything about my views and feelings on gender based on one post, especially in a way that is so... rude. I'd love to have a more in depth conversation about gender, but definitely not with you.

[oneroomjestershow]

Haii, how are u doing? :>

[alchemiclee]

i know this has been said 473773474833 times by the kavetham/haikaveh shippers and probably even nonshippers, but i'll say it again. I finally finished the genshin summer event and did the little after quest in sumeru and.....every time kaveh is sneaking around trying not to be noticed coming out of alhaithams house it's just such a gay vibe. he's basically screaming "I can't be caught being gay in a homophobic society!" even if that's not what the game writers are *actually* saying. that's just how it comes off and they can't make it come off any other way. with hoyo's gay history, it makes me wonder if it's on purpose and all a cover-up to have a technically different reason for it so they can get away with it lmao but we will never know.

[https-reverie]

My ass is NOT used to genuine words despite how much/how many times I receive them

[the-fidgety-fiddler]

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[the-golden-dragoness]

Does anyone know how to maneuver a relationship where they are interested in dating you but you were fine being old school acquaintances who don’t speak to each other

[sophiethewitch1]

Apparently after X many months of suicidal ideation you're supposed to actually make an attempt on your life but I am world's greatest loser and despite the fact that i think about wanting to die all the time my mum told me I'm not allowed to and so I haven't tried again. And that's why I have autism

[valewritessss]

Finally deleted MyFitnessPal off my phone for my own personal sanity

[giddlygoat]

sometimes i think about how me and my twin brother used to make elaborate plans about how our future homes would be right next to each other or connected somehow. for a long while we did live right next to each other and i mooched off his wifi from my front porch because i never got mine installed. now we live in the same house again. i hope we always stay close because those human-sized hamster tunnels between houses we always discussed would be really awesome to bring to fruition

[plato-repulsed-culture-is]

Plato-repulsed people don't need your pity just because a relatively common bond repulses us. We know it sounds difficult but its literally something we experience on a first hand basis. Why are you saying that it sounds hard to deal with instead of acknowledging that perhaps society should avoid making friendship(or any relationship type) the default??

[honeybees-125]

Because I'm seeing more and more of them; I will not reblog posts that say you have to reblog them to be a good person, or posts that accuse people of being some variety if -phobic for not reblogging them - posts like that ring as awful for me, and I'm not going to be encouraging them.