#ALSO THEYRE TERFS BTW
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Wow that’s such a crazy idea. one has ever tried this before. Imagine a film satirizing masculinity. By Yorgos Lanthimos too
#HELP MEEEEEEE#but yk if these ppl saw dogtooth they’d also explode so#ALSO THEYRE TERFS BTW#this just goes to show that the ppl getting mad abt poor things are not. very film literate. to put it mildly#especially since everyone was like suggesting ideas in the comments like it isn’t a popular film topic???#I also dont tbink poor things is satirizing femininity that’s a weird reading but whatever#and again I don’t think it’s a perfect film but I don’t think these takes are quite right#like it has many issues. the fact that it’s a man talking about ‘women’s issues’ is not one of them#warlock wartalks
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oh and one last thing. i cannot believe how leftists and queers are treating sarah mcbride. it makes me sick to my stomach. i can't stomach it actually.
bullying minorities who happen to be "privileged" i.e. rich, white, etc is so fucking gross and easy like bullying a child (and is part of the reason for all the antisemitism btw! since they think we're all whiter than aryans and that we are the most privileged). seeing everyone jumping with joy to harass sarah mcbride a trans woman who's an easy target since she's white and trans (white trans women bad unless they prove themselves by getting arrested for....palestine with jvp like hunter or they threaten to kill biden for cool points like ethel) for sucking up which. all minorities have to do for a place in this world is INSANE.
these are the SAME PEOPLE calling everyone a terf and being misogynistically distrustful of women/feminists because we're all a potential zio- um terf is so sad because 1) transphobia is a serious problem among cis women which should never be downplayed and a lot of cis women are transphobic. i know this because i've faced transphobia lite since i have a bit of an adams apple as a cis woman which leads to transvestigation :/ but 2) the "solution" isn't and will never be to act like cis women are the enemy/worse than men/to be misogynistic towards us either. 3) it's all so sad because these people are doing so much harm by being misogynistic "in the name of good/in the name of trans women" but they're just bullies who also hate trans women but get to hide it because they're #allies. they're "allies" who spread hate in the name of a people who want to be left alone and they spread that hate because deep down they hate trans people and want to make them look bad (not downplaying misogyny that is present in the trans community but yh). these people are trying to stifle the 4b movement in the name of trans women while trans women like veondre mitchell dont gaf (obv trans women are not a monolith). it's so evil. who needs enemies with "allies" like this? (also if you wanna deal with the transphobia the solution isn't to misogynistically try to shut 4b down. but they just hate women and it's never been about trans people so!)
anyways back to the topic. sarah mcbride really breaks my heart. they hate her and they've been treating her so terribly (theyre giving her the jew treatment 😓). no one has her back and it goes to show how the left is a lost cause. if you arent what they want, if you step out of line, they treat you like the conservatives treat you.
yeah i’ve been somewhat following the sarah mcbride saga thanks to the wonderful mariacallous and it is disgusting. i think in part what happened was that post calling her a “zionist” got popular so people wanted to look for more reasons to hate her. these days everything comes back to the Omnicause.
i also think that the trans girl tankies are kind of having a crab bucket moment about a trans woman being successful through grace and intelligence instead of posting graphic threats at people they deem subhuman from behind an anime girl icon on a microblogging website. they hate to see a class act thriving.
sarah mcbride is doing the best she can in a very shitty situation, and people who should be her allies are just making it worse.
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the start of my peaking is really interesting to look back on. one of the first things was an instagram post talking about the nordic model from a radfem account and i shared it to my story cause i was like. damn true. then one of my stupid kinnie mutuals dmed me and was like “hey btw op of this is a terf/swerf” (cant remember which but my reactions the same either way) and i was like who the fuck cares. shes right? ive long had a problem with that because my first year of college i did a project on why porn is bad and one of the anonymous feedbacks i got from a classmate was one of my sources was started by mormons and thus that negates their research. fucking hell. i didnt remove it from my story i just. ignored her.
next time is kind of a haze. i was on radblr tags for like the first time in my life feeling like i was going to be shot at any moment i was so scared i barely remember anything i read except this one woman had the url uteri
for a while pre-peaking i called myself a radfem though i was operating under a very misguided definition of it. i didnt understand the actual definition. but i was watching a video from radical ramblings where she was like im tired of women saying theyre radfems while not being feminists at all like they dont read theory theyre still following patriarchal religions theyre not antinatalist and i realized she was describing me. so i read theory. i read pmpw and it was like. ohhhh my goddd.
next major thing was i was on tumblr and a meaningless text post had blown up and now she was getting “op is a terf”-ed. i went to her blog to see what the deal was and her about said like… im not a radfem im just a lesbian and i fucking hate penis so much i think penis is evil. she was so bold to me with the way she said penis was evil it was genuinely inspiring to me. i was like. well shes right im literally with her. next day i made this blog
i tried to look up uteri once i made my own blog also but i think she deactivated or changed urls or something? anyway i have uteri now. so
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welcome!!!! [throw salts at you] here some silly thing for this blog!!!
[this is for silly doodles of a ship serirei, reigen and serizawa from mob psycho 100 daily! i'll add "feat (any characters)" if theyre included]
[tag such as "#reigen talking" "#serizawa talking" is them speaking. idk why i need to add some kind of that but if theres no tag include of these two thats me, the mod speaking btw lol sorry if it a lil messy, thats how i sketch on my sketchbook]
[ also to put this out: DNI if youre proshipper, homophobic, terfs, etc!!. not gonna do that freaks shit here!!!!!!!}
[feel to ask anything!!!! compliments,something silly, etc i dont mind!!]
[if you want to know more about me you can check out my art blog -> @pencilhattopy <-]
TAGS series: #love day // #birthday
#like if you read this!!!! so hi!!!!#no reblog#i completely forgot to add this so HI LMAO#dailyserirei
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spooky-demolition-lover -> faggy-euronymous -> tmascfrnkiero -> tboyfrnkiero
my name n pronouns fluctuate A LOT currently its bishop + judas + dionysus + ethan n it/its + he/him my pronouns.page is @faggy.tragician (its not letting me link waahhhh) if u want a more general name + pronouns list (also ill probably update that 1st when it changes) (all names n pronouns listed on there r ok to use btw, the ones listed here r js slightly preferred)
im a femme genderqueer fagdyke n a white northern (mix of all scandinavian countries)/western (mostly ukraine) european secular jew w a (kinda??) mixed religious upbringing (my dads christian n my moms jewish) ^-^
tag stuff: i only tw for image/video-based stuff, n i format it like "___ warning" (ex: flashing warning) (i have shit memory so unless theres an image/video there to remind me that "hey theres smth triggering here" i wont remember it, sorry). my yapping tag is #the bat speaks. if you have the money, check out my #palestine fundraiser tag or #sudan fundraiser tag and donate some money to some1 there! vampire tag: #🦇, music tag: #📼, cannibalism/body parts/skeletons/stuff in that vein (pun intended :3) tag: #🫀 (ed im sorry for stealing these), art tag: #🎨, vent tag (will include vent posts both by me n other ppl): #🥀
this blog is for everything. also plz send asks i <3 asks!!
i have 1 other blog: @tboyfrnkiero-music-listening (blog where ill post what im listening to when i feel like it)
if u wanna cancel some random mentally ill queer teenager here u go ^-^ (sry this is so long it turns out im a very opinionated faggot):
transmisandry is real n important to talk abt (n so is transmisogyny, exorsexism, intersexism, n transmultiphobia)
all mentally ill ppl deserve help if we want it. yes this includes the "scary" ones. ppl w pds, addicts, psychotic ppl. ALL mentally ill ppl. u cant js decide a person is inherently evil bc of smth they cant control. n if a mentally ill person doesnt want help we still deserve basic respect ("basic respect" includes not forcing us to get help btw. like yes u can try to motivate ur friends to get help!! thats fine!! js dont force us n if we tell u to stop u fucking stop)
all radfems should fuck off n die. even the trans "inclusive" (lmao) ones
mainstream feminism sucks n doesnt pay attention to poc, trans ppl, intersex ppl, n disabled ppl enough. yall gotta stop focusing on white perisex cis abled women
live and let live, cringe culture fucking sucks
"leftists" being like "mental health matters!" but not being able to handle ppl w anything except for seasonal depression n mild anxiety is a genuine problem (n ofc the seasonal depression n mild anxiety havers mustnt complain, bc 1. ur annoying me!! n 2. other ppl have it worse!! (despite the fact u dont care abt the ppl who have it worse but wtv))
having homicide fantasies doesnt make u a bad person. even if theyre not intrusive thoughts n u wanna have them
no kink/fetish is morally bad (none of them. not even that rly fucked up 1 u js thought of). no kink/fetish "belongs" to a group of ppl. making ur own ver of a kink/fetish isnt "copying"
"contradicting" labels r amazing n very fun to have (ex: afab transfem, amab transmasc, lesboy, gaygirl, lesgay)
it/its arent inherently dehumanizing n refusing to call some1 who uses it/its it is transphobic
neopronouns n xenogenders r amazing n very fun to have
fakeclaimers should die
liking a piece of media doesnt mean you agree w the creator(s) abt everything
a (cis) man liking feminine things doesnt mean theyre a (trans) woman n a (cis) woman liking masculine things doesnt mean theyre a (trans) man. thats js gender stereotypes w trans colors painted onto it
intersex ppl talking abt their issues arent transphobic or terfs oh my fucking god
proship but the actual meaning n not what antis think it means. i dont believe ppl should b harassed for ships (esp considering a lot of comshippers r traumatized teens. they need mental help not online harassment campaigns)
free palestine 🇵🇸 free sudan 🇸🇩 free congo 🇨🇩 free haiti 🇭🇹
callout culture is 👎
purity culture is 👎
if u saw some1 shoplift no u didnt (unless theyre a cop)
every1 belongs at pride (except for cops)
i have an airbuds the @ is @batraybat the display name is 🦇 ray 🦇 n the pfp is the pic of gee under here add me on there if u wanna stalk my music listening my spotify has the same pfp n the name is also 🦇 ray 🦇 also heres my discord talk to me plz
bands/artists i have a spotify playlist dedicated to: leathermøuth, pencey prep
goodbye heres the picture of gerard way :3
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ive know detransers irl. theyre not anti-trans, they dint have that dreaded "regret" that everyone mentions, they just tried something and found part way through it wasnt for them.
this narrative of detransers being people whove ruined their lives somehow has always struck me as a very obvious terf narrative for the sake of consern trolling, or atleast its obvious to me because im trans and also have met detransers.
so like... why is everyone falling for this shit again?
btw if youre on one "side" of the issue and try to point to some rando on the other "side" who was a bit of an asshole, i dont give a shit. yall are bitching about each other for no reason, i dont care who started it at this point. its not that fucking hard to make room for bother trans and detrans jfc
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i saw your post about not rebloging from people who are proship and if im being honest, that mentality terrifies me as someone who just learned this word. what if there is a new word that circulates in places im not familiar in and i get blacklisted for just rebloging something specific without seeing the entire blog? i really try to stay on top of all this lingo but it gets tough. also is bdsm proship? bdsm is not a cover for abuse even if people try to use it as such, when done responsibly and in the right communities that value safety as a first rule they often are more aware of harm and the reduction and prevention of it then movements that wont allow the depiction of stories that help survivors identify their abuse. am i proship if i appreciate a artful depiction of an abuse in tv that helps me learn how to recover in a healthy way and find skills to help others not get hurt the ways i had to? am i proship for making jokes that might read as hurtful to an outsider who dosnt know my relationship to my friends/partner? im sorry i just want to understand the line here so i can understand the harm these people are actually doing.
i think youre just terrifying yourself, friend.
proshippers only have 3 terms they use, as far as i know; proship, comship [meaning complicated ship], and darkship [meaning dark topic ship].
you won't be blacklisted just because you reblogged a post created by a proshipper, especially if you dont follow the person who created the post and you didnt know they were a proshipper. stuff like that happens all the time, and not just with proshippers. lots of people unknowingly reblog from terfs, racists, nazis, zionists- hell even i've reblogged posts made by people who were like that. but if youre followers actually know who you are, then they'll know it was a mistake, and they'll likely warn you politely about it just to watch out for you.
BDSM is not proship. BDSM has to do with rough and physically tasking acts in sex that are discussed and consented on extensively. lots of people into BDSM, such as subs and doms, will tell you that they regularly check on each other and have a system to let them know if they're okay or need a break or if something goes too far.
plus i myself am into some extreme things that i would never do in real life, let alone without someones consent. its either a 100% yes or there's no doing it all.
liking media with depictions of harmful topics that put it in an educational or meaningful light is also not proship. one of my favorite indie games is My Eyes Deceive, which i find to be a beautifully morbid game that touches well on the topic of abuse towards children and shows how horrific it can really be.
not proship for making jokes either. i'm friends with a chick who we both used to date the same guy who turned out to be a pedo. we often joke about how we were victims of grooming because really, we were.
checkin to see if a person is a proshipper isnt something scary or even that hard to do you'll find. i mean, if you'd make an effort to check if the youtuber youre watching is racist or if the twitter acc youre following is a nazi, then i dont see it as a lot of work to go to a persons blog and double check to make sure they arent a creep.
which btw, you'll know instantly if they are. everyone on this site is not afraid to say what they like or what theyre into. there is a good 90% chance that if the blog youre checking is proship safe, then they will proudly say it on their pinned post or carrd or whatever they use to put their info. its not too hard to spot.
buddy, you have nothing to worry about, and i promise you its not that hard to be a good person. you see someone who has shitty ideals? just block and move on. you didn't know the person you interacted with was shitty? delete it, block them, and move on. like avoiding a food you find gross in a buffet or taking out the trash. you'll be fine.
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you know i love analyzing and critiquing sexual class dynamics as much as the next bitch but why are literally any of us surprised when a post like "men addicted to hentai sicken me because its like lol theyre monsters detached from reality and lost in paraphilia" gets swept up into reactionary circles who think sexual degeneracy cultivated in socially sanctioned echochambers and hugboxes is the root of societys ills -- actually sorry that was too pointed, who think trans women want to be anime lolis or something.
also as a trans woman i dont want really to see it fixed by tacking on a "and this post isnt about trans women btw <3 TERFs suck my cock" you can leave that out like just own the fact that without context your pithy pronouncements are fuel to someone elses fire!
its ok! like if u actually cared u probably wouldntve parroted their exact talking points or reproduce their conclusions in the first place so ill just let u kno that its ok and ur valid!!! so sorry u got terfs on ur post babeeeee theyre like differently fucked monsters. convenient little categories that you dont have to worry abt sorting yourself out of <3
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btw keep thinking about how the other day i saw the tag "me and my Female mutuals" and went to click on the blog to see if they were a terf and not only was that the case but they were also vocally pro-life. western feminism is ON TOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
im so grateful theyre fighting for Females like me. one day very soon, ill remember them as i bleed to death over the course of 8 hours in a hospital because my inviable fetus was too special for my life to be worth saving
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https://at.tumblr.com/hadeantaiga/ive-seen-that-video-its-absolutely-ridiculous/gpnxfka7glvz
A woman's words (that are not racist in intent and can't be twisted that way) are apparently the reason for death of poc and trans people.
love that they threw in "cis women" as if it wasnt about race exclusively.....and "trans people" as if it had anything to do w trans ppl. and "anti-masculism" basically just tryna say misandry in a new way.
i think i recall seeing that video tho and i recall that woman being highly questionable. how that has anything to do with trans people and how this means trans ppl are getting murdered by police the way black ppl are, ive got no idea.
btw the 2nd person in there is a white person who basically justified racism against woc (if theyre evil terfs ofc) and im willing to bet the 1st person is also white (also theyre literally an MRA lmfao). so this seems to be a case of white people using black struggles to prop up their trans activism which is certainly not new but continues to disgust me.
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hello would people like sly cooper gender and sexuality headcanons bc i have figured out the truth and as we all know the truth is lava-proof /ref
slyfox is t4t sly and carmelita told me themselves /j
sly (he/him + neos) is transmasc and bisexual (hes just like me fr) though personally i also think he's grayromantic possibly demi. he doesnt think abt it too hard tho! trades neos w bentley like pokemon cards
carmelita (she/her) is transfem btw also. bisexual queen we love to see it.
murray (he/him) is like the only cis one of the cooper gang but hes also like canonically gay (bi at the very least) hes a gay man ok
hot take but. trans girl bentley (she/they + neos). also under the aro umbrella i think and i think shes ace. penelope and them are qpps. them and sly trade neopronouns around like pokemon cards
penelope (they/she) is also transfem actually. demigirl <3 theyre aroace her and bentley are qpps still. they had a whole sexuality crisis over sly but NOPE it was the aesthetic attraction come to kick them in the ass
HOT TAKE. dimitri (he/it) is a trans man. hes gay i think. possibly aro and homosexual but is not opposed to being in a relationship.
tbf im aro so maybe im just projecting onto these guys but who's to say. :3
nb panda king (they/he but rlly doesnt care) for the win im an agender panda king truther. does not mind any gendered terms or pronouns. doesnt label their sexuality but does have a wife (er. used to have a wife)
also nb guru (any) but in the other direction. hot take pangender guru. tends to use masculine terms for herself but switches it up every once in a while. i think they're also aroace but again IM aroace so maybe im just projecting. either all or nothing w it i think either pan or aroace /hj but hes probably the one ive thought the least abt
and a bonus round of just me speedrunning other chars and not explaining
raleigh is transmasc and transphobic and also gay and homophobic
muggshot is a closeted gay w a lot of internalized homophobia
i think mz ruby is a lesbian
youve heard my opinion on panda king
clockwerk stopped thinking about it after version 2 i dont think they care
youve heard my opinion on dimitri
rajan. cishet i think. probably not intolerant but not an ally just indifferent yknow
contessa. aroace i think. married her husband for money and money alone. cis i think?????? but i could also see her as transfem
jean bison is a homophobe and i just think that's canon
we dont see enough of arpeggio for me to get a good read on him but based on like the way he talks alone i think hes cis and gay but i can also see him as transmasc whoops
neyla i think just doesnt care. aroace and agender made one choice and it was No but is not above flirting/whatever to get what she wants
octavio is either gay or homophobic w no inbetween
also fun fact i think bentley figures herself out as trans tm between sly 2 and 3
anyway what's the 2nd villain
Oh
the mask of dark earth is. end sentence
ok uhhh 3 is the black baron that's just Penelope boymoding /hj
TSAO
homophobic a transphobe AND a misogynist
dont ask how much trouble i had spelling misogynist
id call him a terf but hes not a feminist of ANY kind thank you
lefwee is a pirate and that's pretty gay in general. pansexual. the most accepting villain of the bunch /hj again
dr m is again either homophobic or gay w no inbetween. probably a transphobe tho
using that tag a lot
update apparently the species of bird that he is only the females are red w black beaks so hes also trans heart emoji
"cooper?? no you must be the coopers daughter!" "yyyyyyyyyeah about that" <- real conversation between him and sly /j
you get exactly 5 comments on 4 bc i know exactly 5 new characters
el jefe is a homophobe i think
rioichi is cishet but an ally
toothpick is gay sorry not sorry
tennessee is a trans man and i will die on this hill
le paradox. is a terf i think. ive met him exactly once and know little to nothing about him but just based on Vibes
#whenenver i think abt dr m all i can think of is ITS ME BOY ITS THE PS5#hmmmmmmmm not sure how i feel abt this being seen by the public eye#feels like a LOT of hot takes that people are NOT gonna like#lots of projecting tho#sodalite speaks#sodalites sclooper#sodalite scribbles#headcanons#sly cooper#sly 2#sly 3#absolutely not tagging all of the characters#carmelita montoya fox#carmelita fox#bentley cooper#murray cooper#thats it thats all you get#soda scribbles
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yknow that thing i said awhile ago about how trans men and trans women probably inherently make each other dysphoric. i think i was right, i love my girl mutuals and people i follow and stuff but sometimes all the girlcentric stuff kind of wears me out, like dont stop posting what you wanna post but i need to figure something out.
tags were getting too long so im just continuing the post because i guess i cant express the sentiment i want to without dragging on
if you pay attention to my long posts youve probably figured ive been going through some insecurity issues recently, a lot of it is not helped by the fact that i keep doomscrolling on tumblr and digging into discourse tags like the whole "transandrophobia" thing, ive since changed my mind about that tag btw. yknow how i said before that "its a stupid term that has no basis in reality but the transphobia and misogyny trans men face is a real issue that probably needs a specific name for categorization purposes specifically on tumblr dot com" no i think its not important afterall
mostly because ive been watching the decay of this tag for a long time and it keeps CONSTANTLY getting infiltrated by terfs and transmisogynists and ive been talking to someone who is trying to deradicalize people involved and shes like yeah this whole theory/movement/framing basically encourages self pity and resentment so its a breeding ground for transmisogyny (and regular misogyny) and i think i agree with that
but its hard not to see the problems with this tag/community/whatever it is and the response transfeminists have to it and now just go god transmascs are fucking annoying, and i feel embarrassed to be associated with them
and thats stupid, its basically the same thing as white guilt, yknow that thing where when white people learn racism exists they go oh well im sorry for being alive it would be better if white people were just never born. its like no one asked you to feel sorry for YOURSELF (or anyone else, poc in this situation just want you to be responsible when necessary and be respectful)
so like, im not ashamed of being a trans man i guess, not on the basis that theyre capable of and often perpetuate transmisogyny. i think ive talked before about feeling like being a trans man could be antithetical to feminism because some feminists suggest that manhood/masculinity is an inherently toxic and oppressive class, if thats true transitioning into manhood/masculinity would be a morally objectionable thing to do. i think being a man is not inherently bad, i think that gender is not a choice even if one has some benefits over the other (why would trans women ever "choose" to be women if the only factor of gender was privilege) i think this sentiment im so worried about is something basically only terfs (cis radfems) actually believe and try to perpetuate
but i also mentioned on another post that "tumblr tricks you into thinking trans people are annoying" and also that a lot of transmascs both in the tag but also on this site in general are like not older than 22
a lot of the trans guys i follow or are friends with (none of my twitter guys are here and i dont do twitter anymore) are closer to my age, being in their late 20s and you can FEEL the maturity difference. i think being on tumblr does make you think that all transmascs are basically annoying middle class teenage white people who only watch childrens cartoons and it makes the stereotypes about transmascs feel even HARDER to escape from. I CONSTANTLY feel insecure about having feminine interests, about being minimized and belittled, being infantalized, being emasculated, it really doesnt fucking help that im also (south)east asian and historically east asian people have been like hyperfeminized/emasculated compared to other groups
im not sure if im done with this post or not but i got distracted after writing this so i cant remember if i wanted to say anything else so im just gonna be done now
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#im agender btw so dont come at me with terf or fucking whatever#im agender AND I say that Im a woman bc Im treated AS a woman by society which makes my experience the experience of a woman#its so important to NAME this hierarchy stop acting like sb is discriminated as a person with a uterus???#nobody sees if you have one or not when theyre disctiminating you bc they view you AS A WOMAN
I cannot imagine how you think trans activists think society is genderblind, other than thinking that if you don't say the word "woman" you magically cannot discuss misogyny.
If you feel comfortable calling yourself a woman because you are treated as such, that's fine. How you relate to your experiences is your choice. But you seem to have a rather fatalistic view of gender identity & misogyny that, I am sorry to say, sounds quite radical feminist. Even if it's technically trans-inclusive.
"Person with X" is preferred terminology, not because we think society is genderblind, but because it is good for trans people. For one, some people don't look just like a cis woman (or cis men), and they experience discrimination even at places like OB/GYNs because of that. People might insist they must not belong there, doctors may be grossed out by their bodies or claim they don't know enough about trans people to treat them. Additionally, while you may be comfortable being called a woman, for some people it is extremely upsetting. When you combine misgendering with potential dysphoria around their body and doctors who do not care or understand these issues, it can make it extremely hard to get care. While these issues are not all directly solved a change in language, it does set up that in medical situations, the focus should be on the body part being examined, not the assumption that everyone with that body part looks and identifies a certain way, and that Trans People Are Our Patients Too. "People with X" language is not describing how society sees people, its trying to change that. On top of trying to normalize words like "vulva" "menstruation" in common language rather than hiding behind "women's health" "feminine products" that make the feminized body too taboo to talk about blatantly.
This terminology is also not the extent of how trans people talk about gender and sex. "People with X" is really best for medical language, not necessarily discussions of oppression. But even then, the word "woman" does not have any magical power where saying it allows you to discuss misogyny where you could not before. You have assumed that, by not using "woman" as a blanket statement, people are saying the world is genderblind and misogyny doesn't exist. That is simply not accurate. Trans activism acknowledges, as you seem to, that gender and sex are more complicated than "two sexes which directly correlate to two genders." Following that, it makes sense to decouple identity-as-woman from discussions of misogyny.
I don't mean that in the sense that being seen as a woman has nothing to do with misogyny. It obviously does. The problem is the idea that it is identifying as a woman that leads to misogynistic oppression, or that acknowledging misogynistic oppression requires identification as a woman. I find that this mindset (very connected to radical feminism) places far too much emphasis on individuals' identity as a woman, and whether or not they are identifying in the Most Feminist Way Possible. It also obviously makes trans experiences illegible, and obscures the way that misogyny can affect even cisgender men because of how dynamic gendered oppression can be. We have terms like "perceived-women" for people treated a certain way based on the perception that they are women, or "feminized people" for people treated a certain way based on their association with femininity/femaleness. But even going back to "person with X," when it comes to sexism, that is also important to bring up, because it points to the exact parts of the body which are targeted by misogynistic sexism.
Agender as you might be, you also seem to be very detached from how trans activists understand patriarchy and how we discuss misogyny in light of the complexities of gender and sex. If you think trans people using "people with X" language think the world is genderblind and don't discuss misogyny in relation to having those body parts, it doesn't sound like you really understand trans activism at all.
the importance of inclusive language isn't just making sure trans people's feelings don't get hurt. like dysphoria can be life ruining yes & it's important to keep in mind. but trans inclusive language is vital because otherwise we WILL be forgotten. we will be overlooked by research and resources that are desperately needed. we cannot afford to be shuffled off into assumed-cisness because it's convenient
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your url gives me a heart attack everytime i see it in my notifs 😭😭 it cuts to a new line on "exterminator"... so everytime i see it im like. IS THAT A TERF ? oh no theyre fine ... thank u for ur service btw o7
FFFJDS OH GOD LMAO SORRY actually I could change it to ‘professional exterminator of terfs’ or something to prevent future cardiac arrest.. also THANK UUU :D I’ll always be ready to exterminate some terfs, tis the least I can do
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ppl telling me abt transmeds communities that turned into terfs like i haven't watched countless tucute communities turn into terfs like! im not disagreeing with u that terfs like to convince transmeds to deteansition! the thing is that its not a transmed thing they do it to all trans ppl!! like i used to be a tucute, i used to have a bunch of tucute friends, i used to join their servers even after i stopped agreeing with them. so many of them turned into just terf circle jerk communities. because thats what terfs do! thats what they do! when you start to blame it on "transmed is a terf pipeline" or "tucute is a terf pipeline" because that's what YOU'VE experienced you miss the point and you miss how disgusting terfs actually are. thats how you blame it on the victims of terfs, when you start talking about pipelines. you have to realize that TERFS ARE THE PROBLEM! not trans people who disagree with you. i dont know how to explain this in any other way. the people who get manipulated into becoming terfs aren't the problem, its the people who manipulated them.
transmeds are not any closer to becoming terfs than tucutes are, thinking youre immune to terf manipulation will just leave you more open to it. it will just make you more likely to fall to it. its not the fault of trans people you dont like.
#this is also why i am so against trying to say terfs dont hurt trans men#it just makes trans men less cautious around them#like! no you cant stop being on ur guard around them#thats what they do!#im not changing my opinion on this btw like im just not#ive seen and experienced my friends from all sides turn into terfs thts just what they want from you#to blame other trans people#or the stop ignoring thats its an issue in the transmed community!!! stop ignoring that its not a transmed problem its a terfs manipulate#trans people problem im not denying it happens to transmeds im literally saying it does! but not because theyre transmeds. thats. all.
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(ID: tumblr header that says t/swerfs, nazis, commies and drag queens pls die)
#how..... how do you hate drag queens but also terfs#i know ppl on this website will say literally anything is terf ideology but.#how is this anything other than terf ideology 😭#theyre an 'mra feminist' if that tells you anything btw lmao#homophobia tw#transphobia tw
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