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Since this site is supposed to be all accepting of gender related things -

every time I present to the world as more feminine I feel like I'm cosplaying as somebody who isn't me. I feel like I am faking it and like I am lying to people.

I've dressed like somebody out of a 90s band for the past 6-7 years or like some (faux) rich old man, granted I was a very feminine child from the ages of 10-14 but all of the other time I've been more inclined to dress very not stereotypically female. (Even when I was tiny baby I had short hair and wore boys clothes)

Basically I am angry that we define femininity by clothing types, that is what I am trying to express.

What the hell? I can dress myself however I want, alright? I express my femininity in other ways, no need for long ass hair or nails or heels or pink frilly stuff alright? I do have and adore my fair share of summer dresses but in fucking winter what am I supposed to wear to adhere to you shited standards for what "boys and girls" should wear? A coat and a pair of Oxfords is way more classy than whatever they'd have me wear instead. And if you think that I have a masculine face than pay for my plastic surgery alright? Fuck off. (I should clarify that I was born female and identity as one, yet I can't fucking fit into the standards those shitheads have)

And also I might not like for my boobs to be out and for people to have a clear view of my ass all the time alright? There are more things that prove femininity (if it even needs to be proven wtf) like the way one speaks or the gestures they make or their walk? Do I have to dress in a way that I don't like to appease you? Fuck no, piss off. I don't want to have all of my assets out for people's sickly pleasure. If you're gonna see them you'll have to be real real close to me as a person, alright? So that I know you're not some kind of perverted psychopath

Leave tomboys be , Jesus....... Mind your own business.

And most of the people who've and e problem with me dress outrageously. So go fuck yourselves.

Yeah I'll dress as Catwoman at some point, I'll grow my hair out but it doesn't happen overnight

I won't ever wear tight fitting clothes casually. I just won't. Period. Will not. Fuck you.

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you know I was a migratory bird once

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No man is getting close to me in this lifetime

Fuck them Nd their broke little minds

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Louis Vuitton: Spring/Summer 2020 Photography: Thibaut Grevet

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So.. I know we’re all drooling over Absolution right now, because ohh was that delicious!! But. Guys. Literally all week long I kept thinking about what this reminded me of…..

Like.. I could’ve sworn I’ve seen this before…….

…somewhere…

….this image…

…..this pose…

…..and it just dawned on me….

That’s… that’s a coincidence.. right?

We’re not.. we’re not gonna read anything into this, right?

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winter is just [lives in oversized sweater] [reads 2,000 page book in 2 days] [sunsets at 2pm] [depression intensifies] [eats soup] [listens to melodrama] [existential dread] [is touch starved] [wakes up early and gets out of bed 2 hours later] [listens to hozier] [“bro feel how cold my hands are”] [drinks tea] [rereads harry potter for the 7th time] [both dreading and restless for the upcoming new year] [avoids human interaction] [drinks more tea]

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for some reason i definitely thought this was going to be one of those fuckin… infinite chocolate things. or like, some really weird trick involved. literally it’s just “put the tomatoes in some dirt and they grow into MORE TOMATOES 😱” which like… yea… that IS how plants work but i don’t know if it’s a life hack

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We Are Here pt 1/?

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reflexive babey 🥺

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Excerpt from The Complete Poems by Anne Sexton

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Fuck the world

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Goldy’s Griddle is a retro-ish roadside-style diner that serves breakfast, lunch, and dinner all day (not to mention its famous fruit pie). Features include a custom menu and uniforms, an open kitchen, and seating for parties of 2-4. Make sure you get there early enough to get a table - this place is hoppin’!

The lot is CC-free, and I playtested as both a manager and a customer. There’s only one chef’s oven because the place is so small, but there’s room to add another if you so desire.

Lot size: 20x20

Cost: §70,262

Lot Location: “Paddywhack’s Emporium” in Magnolia Promenade

Required Packs: Get to Work, Get Together, Spa Day (for a fridge in the back room), Dine Out, Cool Kitchen, Perfect Patio (one deco item); it also says I used Romantic Garden, but I couldn’t find anything, so I don’t think you’ll miss it!

To install, download the ZIP file from the link below. Extract the folder and copy its contents (there should be 6 files total) into your My Documents/Electronic Arts/The Sims 4/Tray folder.

DOWNLOAD ZIP file

**If you don’t want to install it using the Tray files, you can also find it in the Gallery under #jenba and Origin ID silrosse

Enjoy! And as always, let me know if anything is wonky.

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Grady’s Junkstop Grill (No CC)

Lot Type: Restaurant

Lot Size: 20x15

Lot Value: $109,804

Turn MoveObjects On before placing lot

Required Packs: Outdoor Retreat, Get to Work, Get Together, Dine Out… I can’t remember what else, I have all the things ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Grady’s Junkstop Grill is your casual neighborhood junkyard eatery. Featuring a basic food menu that you would expect to be served from a school bus. This junkyard has been in Grady Elfman’s family for generations, but has enjoyed new life as a neighborhood favorite! More photos of Grady’s Junkstop Grill can be seen here.

** This lot works well to run with one host, one or two waitresses, and one chef. Customers must use the toilet bushes (lol), but there is a toilet, shower, television, and cot available for employees (as long as you lock the doors!)

PLEASE NOTE: Due to the nature of submerging sculptures in a basement, the bus wheels can only be seen on the first floor.

TOU: Please don’t re-upload or claim as your own. Feel free to tag me so I can see it in your game :D

SimFileShare | Gallery

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I return after months and months of not really playing, losing my History CC and never updating my Simblr. If you remember me, hello out there! I come back bearing a gift. :)

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Bob’s Place

After Eliza’s affair, the Pancakes decided to move to Oasis Springs for a fresh start. Bob’s therapist thought the sun and change of scenery would also help his gloomy disposition. Once settled in the dusty town, Bob decided to pursue his lifelong dream of running his own restaurant. Bob’s Place is a modern diner with retro flair, that serves mainly lunch and dinner, but pancakes are always on the menu of course! 

This lot is CC-free and has been playtested. Note on seating: Though two of the three tables outside were the first spots the hostess took customers to, another pair of customers choose to sit inside with a table still free out front. 

Lot Type: Restauraunt

Lot Size: 30x20

Cost: $79,000-ish 

I have all current EPs and SPs

Download: SimFileShare | Gallery ID: poorsasha

Enjoy and Happy 4th of July if you’re in the U.S.! :)

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Meisiu’s Pin Alley Lounge

§94,529 | 30 x 20 

CC free but I own all the packs.

EA ID: vicky1qa | Tray files | Donate?

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By request, I’ve finished and uploaded Cooper’s Bar & Bowling Alley (also known as my “seedy bar”). Activities include bowling, foosball, an arcade game, bubble blower, and the usual bar stuff. There’s also a bedroom for when your Sims get tired or just want some privacy, and a back room for the owner’s files and inventory. (Not that you can own a bar - at least not without mods - but you could pretend. :)

There are more pics in the Bar & Bowling Alley tag.

CC-free

Lot size: 30x20

Cost: §134,679

Lot Location: “Garliclauter Place” in Forgotten Hollow

Required Packs:

EPs - Get to Work, Get Together, City Living

GPs - Outdoor Retreat, Dine Out, Vampires, Parenthood

SPs - Luxury Party, Spooky Stuff, Movie Hangout, Backyard Stuff, Romantic Garden, Kids Room, Bowling Night

To install, download the ZIP file from the link below. Extract the folder and copy its contents (there should be 7 files total) into your My Documents/Electronic Arts/The Sims 4/Tray folder. 

DOWNLOAD ZIP file (SFS)

**If you don’t want to install it using the Tray files, you can also find it in the Gallery under #jenba and Origin ID silrosse.

Credit: Most of the Sims in the preview shots are by @jools-simming.

Enjoy!

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Baseball Pack: Collab with @daddysprince

Hello!! this is a collab with a good friend of mine, aka @daddysprince, so go check out his good stuff on his blog (right here), go get yourself some amazing baseball uniforms and poses, 10/10 would recommend! :] <3

Brindleton Bay-seball Court

Lot size: 40x30 (Brindleton Bay)

Community (Park)

cc-free

be sure to have bb.moveobjects cheat on before placing it!

Download: tray files (sfs) [only the lot, the rest of the stuff is on daddysprince blog]