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I think we need to have a talk about the anti community going from “wanting autism isn’t fine” to “wanting autism is fine as long as you put a pretty label on it”
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Just a little reminder:
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Those who actively choose to harass and suicide bait rq users are NOT welcome here. Yeah I don't like radqueers either, but that does NOT give you an excuse to continuously harass them and tell them to off themselves. That is taking it way too fucking far, and does nothing to actually help. In fact, harassing somebody is only going to push them further into that mindset and lower the chances of them being willing to hear you out.
What you SHOULD be doing is properly educating them in a calm and civil manner as to WHY Radqueer is inherently harmful. And if they choose to not hear you out or refuse to educate themselves then so be it, that's their decision and again, isn't a sign that you go harassing that user. Just block them and move on. It takes 5 seconds to do so.
It's saddening that I even need to state this, and frankly at this point I'm close to not associating us with anti-radqueer spaces. Especially when I see folks who blatantly choose to treat others as though they are horrid monsters that deserve to die rather than living beings that could still be learning and growing.
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TL;DR: Stop continuously harassing rqs and telling them to kts. It's disgusting as fuck and does nothing to actually help folks.
I'll probably be turning the comments off for this post and turning off anon for now, as I really do not want to deal with arguments on this post rn, as well as the reason that I don't want extremist antis to come into my notes telling me that I'm "becoming a radqueer" or that I'm "a radqueer sympathizer" just because I'm anti-harassment.
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If we're going to have a productive conversation about radqueers and why some of their beliefs are arguably harmful or not okay, we have to make an effort to present the information in a way that is going to be read by radqueers.
I'm not saying every anti-post has to be informative, but if you want your blog to be about educating people [including radqueers] on why you think these beliefs are wrong, you should try to do so in an informative way that doesn't feel like an attack.
No one takes information well when it's presented offensively. No amount of "this is bad" is going to explain anything to any radqueer if it's surrounded by a bunch of "you suck" posts about how they must be awful in every way possible.
And if you want your blog to be about educating, debunking, whatever, you kind of have to be open to conversations with people you don't agree with. If someone is genuinely questioning their beliefs and they see a community of people who directly oppose their beliefs, they might want to talk! and it's important to have these conversations without a "you're a dirty radqueer" tone.
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hello everyone, the system went back to the radqueer community a while back but i guess i an anti rq alter was formed so ill be starting up this blog again
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anti endo anti radqueers make me wanna quit (specifically the ones who post about it)
You're all fucking insufferable.
You're all bigots, Every single one of you are bigots.
AND FOR THE LOVE OF FUCKING GOD STOP POSTING IN THE ANTI RADQUEER TAGS. I'm going to start reporting you mfs for spam because I'm so fucking done with your fucking stupidity with not knowing how to tag correctly. I'm SO fucking done.
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their account is aal1ce
hey do u know what happened to ciel and his girlfriend ? (i think she went by collei or something last time)
genuinely i have not seem them on the internet for a while, and if they left then good for them but not seeing the guys who insisted on coming back every time is slightly concerning.
I’ve actually havent seen collei in a while, i remember a ciel account a while back but not her. I’ve heard occasional things about the two but a bit before i left the community i haven’t seen any accounts of either of them. Im sorry that i don’t know what happened to them :(
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hey do u know what happened to ciel and his girlfriend ? (i think she went by collei or something last time)
genuinely i have not seem them on the internet for a while, and if they left then good for them but not seeing the guys who insisted on coming back every time is slightly concerning.
I’ve actually havent seen collei in a while, i remember a ciel account a while back but not her. I’ve heard occasional things about the two but a bit before i left the community i haven’t seen any accounts of either of them. Im sorry that i don’t know what happened to them :(
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or maybe don’t at all
Hi, I'm the Ex-Radqueer radfem, I would Reccomend people to research the Radfem movement more especially Radqueers.
maybe you should make your own account to advocate that
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FUCK OFF ANTIS STOP FUCKING INTERACTING WITH ME LEAVE ME ALONE ITS FUCKING TRIGGERING
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If you believe that referring to radqueers as gross, screenshotting their transIDs / transX identities and making fun of them, acting like a radqueer's paraphilia makes them an immoral person (whether pro-contact or anti-contact) or telling them they're disgusting or bad is making any difference at all: it isn't.
What you are doing is:
Showing ex-radqueers & recovering radqueers that they aren't welcome in our spaces
Showing anti-radqueer pro-harmless transID / transX folk that they aren't welcome in our spaces
Showing anti-radqueer anti-contact paraphiles that they aren't welcome in our spaces
Showing any radqueers who are considering leaving the community because they aren't welcome in our spaces
Showing those with atypical dysphoria that their dysphoria will not be understood, accepted or welcome in our spaces
I do not care what your reasons for doing so are, I do not care what you may feel about towards radqueers, I do not care if it is 'therapeutic' or 'satisfying' to make those posts; I do care that it is negatively affecting members of your own community, hurting the people we should be helping, and creating a disingenuous & harmful space for all of us.
Anti-radqueers should be unified under the fact we want to help people get out of the community and understand how the community is harmful. Your actions have consequences; learn to be open-minded, you'll find it creates a much more welcoming & safe environment.
P.S., being anti-radqueer because "nobody cares if you take your anger out on radqueers" is a harmful mindset. Taking your anger out on any other person is harmful.
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thats whats xenosatanists and pro noncons say alot but they get the free pass to be bitches to everyone somehow but we cant???
if you actually spoke to wilbur youd see he's not as bad as you think
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fuck wilbur
I am fine with majority radqueers, But I'm not fucking speaking to him and if i was offered I'd refuse.
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(same anon from antirqguy) if u followed the og 0fficev4mpire u might know me cuz, me and her were kind of friends and she used to interact with me a lot until I left & honestly I was thinking about her when I was typing that ask since I checked her blog recently out of curiosity. it's honestly scary to see her account now, not in an omg what a freak way but in the uhhh wow glad I left when i did way. going from being extremely anti-xs, to being friends with ciel and their gf despite c being xs, to now being pro-xs. like privately she was very against xs too at first, although we didn't talk much at all... i don't know, it's scary that the rq community is genuinely becoming something of a pipeline. 😔
sorry for the random anon... hope ur feeling better outside the community & im glad we both left when we did cuz it's becoming a real cesspool. here's to hoping we won't see pro n3wg0ns or something in the near future... o7
thanks anon! I remember her being anti xs and it sucks how much the rq community can completely warp someones beliefs for the worst. If this isn’t concerning, i dont know what is. This is what happens when “just block them” is told instead of doing something about it. Im feeling a bit better, scared of harrasment and stuff but like i feel alot less pressure. Had to search up what that word was and man… honestly i wouldn’t be suprised. Its scary. Glad we got out as well !
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soo many of my previous rq mutuals and acquaintances (i'm no longer in the community) are xenosatanists now it's actually scary. it was so easy for some of them to just go, actually yeah i think csem and rape should be legal. what the hell man. feels like the community is just a gateway into that stuff cuz even the rq tag is hornyposts and xenosatans making their nth accounts
Yeah it's insane how normalized it's become, Xenosatanism will ruin the radqueer community and any chance they have at actual activism,
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rape will always be harmful hope this helps
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minor actively endangering themselves. Do what you do.
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people get harassed in the radqueer community for not accepting pro contacts, fuck off anon
Hey! To everyone on this account who condones this behavior! You cannot claim to be anti harrassment, you cannot claim to be pro-lgbtq or any sort of ally. You are attacking and harassing queer people based on bigoted ideas pushed by puritanical fascists!
It takes more effort to be hateful than to research and understand others. It takes more energy to harrass people than to leave them alone.
You are all miserable and deserve better than to be pushed into this box by eachother. I assure you you'd find more kindness and acceptance in the spaces you claim to despise
I uh... only call out pro contact people or make posts about minors who put themselves in danger. Good job telling on yourself. <3
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