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“Your naked body should only belongs to those who fall in love with your naked soul”

-Charlie Chaplin

Artwork by Malcolm Liepke

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Μέρες σαν κι αυτή.

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i’m a sucker for deep talks, i wanna know what makes you, you

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I feel unlovable and it breaks my heart daily 

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It’s not that you have issues…… it’s that you have a tendency to continue using instincts you picked up in childhood that are no longer useful to you on your journey towards achieving openness and intimacy and reliability in your personal relationships w others. It’s not that you’re defective or difficult or incapable it’s just that what you learned to do to save yourself from the experience of abandonment or rejection or ridicule or failure is not helpful here anymore and you need to start thinking creatively and collaborating on better ways to cope with that instrinsic fear that you are not correct, that you are faking, that you will be found out and left, whatever it is

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“Being raised in an unstable household makes you understand that the world doesn’t exist to accommodate you, which… is something a lot of people struggle to understand well into their adulthood. It makes you realize how quickly a situation can shift, how danger really is everywhere. But crises when they occur, do not catch you off guard; you have never believed you lived under a shelter of some essential benevolence. And an unstable childhood makes you appreciate calmness and not crave excitement.”

— Curtis Sittenfeld

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*psychoanalyses myself in the shower*

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via Self Destructive but Loveable

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Not to be reproduced, 1937, Rene Magritte

Medium: oil,canvas

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