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Ladies and gentlemen welcome to the stage your favorite classic rock artists, The Mary Sues!!!

what’s up this is my band Comma Overload

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Some Egyptian Goddesses

Greek goddesses part 1 // part 2

My art here

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If you successfully reanimate somebody with their mind and body intact then don’t ever call yourself a necromancer. You’re a fucking cleric and don’t belong in our community.

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I know Tumblr likes to try forced positivity with a lot of things, but the reality is:

- Sometimes, you are a burden.

- Sometimes, you are a bad person.

- Sometimes, you overreact.

- Sometimes, your reactions are not justified or valid.

- Sometimes, your best is not enough.

- Sometimes, just trying isn’t enough,

- Sometimes, you really are annoying your friends by expecting them to just be okay with you—as an example—texting them 40 times in an hour and having a meltdown if they don’t respond.

- Sometimes, an apology is not enough.

- Sometimes, you are too clingy and it drives people away or annoys the shit out of them.

- Sometimes, your behavior does drive people away, and it’s not their fault.

- Sometimes, your behavior will damage a relationship so much that the other person is very right in choosing to walk away.

- Sometimes, a relationship will fail and it will be primarily your fault.

- Sometimes, you will do or say something unforgivable that you can’t fix. Nobody is obliged to forgive you, even if you sincerely apologize.

- Sometimes, you’re going to be straight up ugly and unpleasant to be around.

- Sometimes, you’re going to do manipulative shit, and probably get called out on it. 

- Sometimes, your behaviors will be disruptive and socially inappropriate. No, it doesn’t matter if you fell that you ‘need’ to do them; your needs do not make those behaviors any less disruptive or socially inappropriate, and nobody is obliged to tolerate them.

- Sometimes, your behaviors will be disruptive enough that they upset, trigger, or make someone else extremely uncomfortable. That is never the other person’s fault, it’s always yours.

Nobody is obligated to tolerate your flaws or your bad behaviors, even if you are mentally or chronically ill.

You do not get a pass on poor behavior because of illness.

While your illness or disorder may explain why you acted/reacted the way you did, it does not ever, for any reason, excuse your behavior.

If people choose to stick around, that’s perfectly all right.

If people choose to walk away because they can’t handle your behaviors or your behaviors drag their mental or physical health down, that is also 100% okay.

You are not a magical, perfect, angelic, smol bean unicorn that is never a burden and will never completely fuckup a relationship.

You’re a person, and you’re going to make mistakes, you’re going to ruin relationships, you’re going to annoy people, and you’re not always going to be angelic and cute.

Part of being an adult is being able to take responsibility for your actions and words, even when it’s hard, even when it’s unpleasant, even when it’s an unfixable situation and the relationship is ruined because of what you said or did, and even when it means you have to admit that you were wrong or reacted/acted badly.

And before some idiot comes in with that, “We can’t all be neurotypical, Karen” bullshit I have professional diagnoses of:

- Autism.

- Bipolar II.

- ADHD.

- Anxiety disorder, with the focus on social anxiety.

All four things can cause me to do any of the things listed above and when I behave poorly toward my friends, it is not excusable simply because I’m mentally ill and neurodivergent or whatever the latest buzzword is, so you can have several seats and a bench.

When I fuck up, even if the root cause is based in a symptom of mental illness or autism, it’s still my fuck up, and I have to own it.

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Life goals

Over the past few months I’ve created a character known only as the Sassomancer – a modern-day chaotic neutral necromancer who’s always backlit with sleeves of inconsistent lengths. 

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Damn I suck as a highborn player I only get 2 points in this and even fail on the free point.

@ash-mun

Was this the bingo card you were thinking of?

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Word

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Awesome

A series of illustrated symbols for the classic schools of magic from D&D.  This was a fun warm-up project to get me back into painting!

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I really believe that most people who seem scary are just sad.

Anne Tyler (via quotemadness)

Truth

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therapy

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the trick for enjoying a new video game is avoiding the internet’s opinion on it 

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Non-Canon Character: /does a way out of canon thing

Canon-Following Character: /reacts like the thing is strange

Non-Canon RPer: HOW DARE YOU REACT THAT WAY, GO FUCK YOURSELF YOU ENTITLED PIECE OF CANON FOLLOWING SHIT. WHY DON'T YOU ACCEPT ME RPING HOW I WANT!?!?!

Non-Canon Character: /does a way out of canon thing

Canon-Following Character: /ignores the character

Non-Canon RPer: Why won't anyone RP with meeeee!!??? :c :c :c :c :c :c

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this blog is 100% supportive of ppl who punch nazis in the face, the act of punching nazis in the face, and fully believes all nazis should be punched in the face

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I would like to thank RPers that try their best to keep in with a universe or IP’s lore.  None of us are perfect, but thanks for making it easier for the rest of us to interact with you.

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You’ll Never Walk Alone

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