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a happy thought: your favorite songs will always be there for you

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cats opening doors with their faces is astounding. you got four paws little fool.

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Disappointing when someone you thought you was gonna fuck with long term turns out just as temporary as everyone else

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my boyfriend and I sometimes struggle to be on the same page when it comes to comforting- often i just want to vent and don’t need advice, whereas validation confuses him and he wants a plan of action

to counter this, we’ve come up with a system where we ask: “do you want advice, empathy, both or neither?” 

if it’s just advice, i know to go straight to action points and not spend time on fluffy words 

if it’s just empathy, he knows i want to be reassured and comforted and that’s all

if it’s both, it’s time for advice that recognises how hard the situation is and is perhaps gentler in nature

if it’s neither, just a hug is really good

i recommend trying to use this in your lives! it makes sure you’re giving and getting what you need, and reduces the risk of resentment or similar

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even on tumblr i’m the quiet kid that sits in the corner and doesn’t really know anyone

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forever that girl that gets really excited when the sky is in pretty colours

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“Love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely.”

— Unknown

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My new ink feat my fluff ball ♡

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If you’re just barely holding yourself together and you’re delicate right now, that’s okay. Great job on keeping yourself together, and keep going. Things will get brighter.

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Buy these Cool Cat Glasses here > Link

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slorny

sleepy and horny at the same damn time

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not to be negative but someone really spent all that time and energy cutting open a pomegranate and then gave it to a (cute) raccoon?

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The Money Trinity

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Boyfriend shirts are the literal best 💕✌🏼