letterstomyfuturegirlfriend

[letterstomyfuturegirlfriend]

Dear Future Significant Other,

Today is an interesting day. I'm not as lonely as I have been, just sort of empty. There are a lot of things reminding me that I don't have you here.

The other day I felt like I'd never find you.

Today I have a bit more hope, but I'm curious.... Will you want kids? Would you want to raise some little minions with me? Or will you only want to have adorable fur-children? I already have one, his name is Twombly and he's a hellspawn. I'm sure you'll love him.

I was reading an article about children today and it just prompted this whole want of a child to take care of. I guess it's just nice to have someone else need me.

Sometimes I wish I could be like my best friend Ryan, and not want a relationship or that sort of commitment. He seems to do fine without it. But in the end I know what I want and that's to have someone else be part of my life for a very long time.

Here's hoping we'll be chasing each other on walkers until the end.

All my love, Me

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If you don't want to limit yourself, then by all means change the name. The question really is, change it to what? "Dear future life-mate, lover, spouse, partner, beau, cuddlebuddy, squishy, person I call to bail me out of jail?" It's hard to find something to put a ring on. (please, take away points for the pun, I'm sorry.)

Hahahahaha, "Dear Person I Call To Bail Me Out Of Jail" no no it'd be "Dear Person Sitting Beside Me In The Jail Cell." I think I'll keep the url. Thanks :)

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Keep the url :-)

Thank you Anon! You're actually the only one to answer so far so keeping the URL is in the lead haha!

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NOW for blog business:

Heylo followers,

Long time no chat. Hope you are all doing fantastic.

My curiosity now lies in the fact that even though my blog says 'Letters to My Future Girlfriend', I've come to realize that setting myself up to only like a single gender is just not something I can do.

So here's where you come in. Should I:

a.) Keep the URL the same

or

b.) Change the URL

And if I do change the URL, do I change my tags too?

I want to hear from you so please! Respond!

Obligatory question mark for question?

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Dear Future Significant Other,

Funny how just a little bit of time figuring oneself out can change your entire perspective. Sometimes I wonder if I'm just so lonely that anyone'll do, but then I realize that I can't just limit myself. It may work well for others, but I love... everyone.

I guess this is the part where I say I'm genderfluid... and I would love to have someone who's also genderfluid... because it'd be great to be able to be boyfriend and girlfriend, or boyfriends, or girlfriends, just whatever we want to be that day because that's how we feel.

Sometimes I take long breaks in between writing letters because if I wrote every day, it'd be all sob stories of being lonely and that's just not what I want you to hear.

This letter is very.... unstructured, unfocused... But I hope you'll get used to that with me. Because it's sorta my trademark some days.

Come soon and we can have a discussion all about it.

All my love,

Me

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I want to start a blog about "letters to the one that got away" kinda like your blog but people share stories how they almost or did find love but something happened along the way, any advice? Or ways of going about doing this?

Well my blog is all my own things. I don't post any submissions (hence why it's slow, because it's when I can update or feel like updating).

But to make your own blog, it's pretty simple. Make the blog, post a few stories of your own, tag them with your target audience's tags and just... go. I mean, that's what I do? Though I tend to just stick to my own tags because I'm not looking for submissions, I'm just writing my own feelings.

I wish I could give you better advice, but really I have no clue how to get a blog out there for other people to post in. I tried once but it didn't go anywhere.

I wish you good luck with your blog though!

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Dear Future Girlfriend,

Wow, two letters in one day? I must be on a roll! Shew!

The other one was pretty heavy, so I'll try not to be too hard with this one. All I want to say is that I'm not going to stop looking until I find you. And it doesn't matter where you are.

If I'm willing to drive 20 hours (10 to and 10 back) to see my ex, I would cross the globe for you. I will not settle for anything less than the passion and excitement I know we can have. (My buzzword must be passion today).

I'm worried right now, because I think I like someone only because they have shown interest in me, but I don't want to hurt them. I don't feel the spark with them and I think I'm forcing myself to try and feel it but I shouldn't do that.

I need to find the person who makes my stomach twist and my heart go crazy and makes me feel completely alive with energy and excitement.

I need to find you.

I will not, I repeat, will not, settle for anything less than what I want.

I will not let my life be just comfortable. I want it to be volatile. Unpredictable. Fully of energy.

Please tell me you want the same.

All my love, Me

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Dear Future Girlfriend,

Today I am feeling completely alone and lost and I wish I knew where you were.

I feel empty, so empty, and I just want someone who gets me, someone who will understand what's going on and who I can speak to freely. I want a love that is so passionate and so fiery that I almost cannot stand it. 

I am lacking in passion and fire right now, my life is like one last ember barely hanging on. And I'm not trying to say that I'm dependent on my partner to bring spark to my life, but I do need to have someone in my life to spark everything else.

When you come into my life, everything will be new and beautiful and I will find my spark in the things you do, to encourage myself.

I never realized it, but I sort of do need to have someone in my life. I don't absolutely need a partner, but I am better for it when I do because I find myself trying hard.

Please come soon. I can't wait to show you the things I love and all the things I am passionate about, as well as showing you how passionate I can be about you.

Yours, Me

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I just saw this now because I'm a bit slow on this blog sometimes, and I don't usually reblog on this blog but I really appreciate the fact that you took the time to comment. *hugs* thank you dear.

I am single now. My last girlfriend broke up with me because she couldn’t make a decision. She wanted to be with me but she also wanted to be with someone else. Now she’s with no one (as far as I know), and I am too alone.

I feel so empty and so lonely right now. Even more lonely than when I…

[letterstomyfuturegirlfriend]

Dear Future Girlfriend,

I am single now. My last girlfriend broke up with me because she couldn't make a decision. She wanted to be with me but she also wanted to be with someone else. Now she's with no one (as far as I know), and I am too alone.

I feel so empty and so lonely right now. Even more lonely than when I wasn't single, but she was 500+ miles away. Now I know there's no one waiting for me and it hurts. But I'll move on. I always do, don't I?

I guess now it's just the waiting game all over again.

I just want someone to want me as much as I want them.

So until that time comes, I'll try to survive.

Sincerely, Me

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Dear Future Girlfriend,

I’m so glad I got to see you last month, however I miss you more than anything right now, and wish I could see you everyday.

For everyday we’re apart, my affection and adoration grows stronger. This month will be our six month anniversary and I wish I could be there to spend it with you but money is a big issue for both of us.

I’m just glad I found someone who is so understanding and can handle the long distance as well as myself (that is to say, not very well but we make it work.)

Until I can see you again in person, know you are always on my mind and in my heart.

Yours until the end, Me

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Dear Future Girlfriend,

I'm leaving the title of this as future girlfriend, even though you're mine now, because I want you to keep being mine in the future.

I can't express how truly happy you make me. At least not in words. But judging by my smile every day, you're doing everything right.

Being able to meet you in January was fantastic, but has only left me wanting more of you in my life. It's not the most difficult long distance relationship, but I think it's because we work well together.

I hope you get time off so you can come down and see me for my birthday. It would be the best gift possible.

There's so much more I want to say but the words aren't coming to me, so I'll leave it at this: You're amazing and I'm so glad to have you in my life.

All my affection, Me

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Dear Future Girlfriend,

I get to see you next month. Just around twenty two days from now. And I am nervous as fuck.

What if you meet me and really don't like me? Or what if you meet me, like me, and I screw it all up somehow? What if we fall in love but can't handle the distance? What if, what if, what if?

I'm doubting myself right now and this is one of the places I don't think you can see... Not yet at least. So I don't feel bad saying these things when I can't tell you.

I wish I could tell you how... out of sorts I feel. I'm sure you'd know what to say to make me feel better. But just talking to you... that also makes me feel better. I'd love to get some reassurance that I'm not a complete loser, but I'll hold back on letting you know that's how I'm feeling.

I suppose this letter doesn't have a real point to it, so I'll cut it off here before I ramble more.

All my love, Me

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Dear Future Girlfriend,

I think.... I think just maybe, I've found you. We're not official yet, but you know I like you. And you said you like me too. So if this works out, I'm beyond pleased.

You're amazing, and I tell you that all the time. You're beautiful, and sweet, and you make me smile and make me laugh. Any moment spent talking to you is the highlight of my day. I really hope this all works out, because you quite possibly have ruined me for other girls.

You're everything I've ever wanted in a partner. You share my hobbies and my interests, and you tell me I make you smile and laugh too, and all I want to do is make you happy.

Hopefully, I'll soon be able to write "Dear Girlfriend" at the top of these letters. You said you're not looking for a relationship, but I'm pretty sure I can wait until you are because I like you that much.

I can't wait until I get to be in the same room with you, because then everything will be perfect.

Until then, all my best, Me

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these are really really sweet... YOU HAVE A GIFT!

Well thank you very much! :] I just write what I feel.

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Dear Future Girlfriend,

The temperature is starting to drop here, and that pleases me because it means hoodies and hats and jackets and scarves. Also, hot chocolate and cuddles. But seeing as how you're still not here yet, the cuddling part just isn't an option right now.

Fall is and always has been my favorite season, so I'd love to be able to enjoy it with you.

Especially my favorite holiday - Halloween.

Come soon so that we can spend our Fall together.

Love,

Me

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Dear Future Girlfriend,

There is nothing I would love more than to give you one of my hoodies and see you wear it. Honestly. I just thing there's nothing that would please me more to see you in an article of clothing that belongs to me.

You're more than welcome to borrow other ones, but I would just feel so amazing if I got to see you wrapped up in one of my sweatshirts/hoodies. I hope you'd wear it and it would make you feel like you're constantly being held or embraced by me.

I can't wait for this to happen.

All my love, Me