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Lobster! My favorite!

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Yeah so I’ve been using the COVID as an excuse to NOT see my parents.

My dad is an asshole and my mom is a crazy disgusting bitch. Hanging around with them is NEVER a good time.

My father likes to say fucked up shit.

He told me that marrying Mom was a spur of the moment thing since the girl he planned to marry bailed on him. Who the Fuck tells their kid that?!!! That shit you just keep to yourself. It worked out for him anyways since he had 4 more kids after I was born. He now has stage 4 prostate cancer and has stabilized. The chemo had stoppes the tumor growths. I’m not clear where he stands on further prognosis. There’s so muched fucked up drama concerning my methhead sister. That shit had distracted me from focusing on his serious condition. Looks like he had taken a liking to her. Telling her that she is better than the other child who is actually taking care of his pathetic ass.

Mom is a piece of work herself. She’s disgusting, no self control in eating. Her fatty, salty diet has brought her to near kidney failure. She has a horriffic personality, rather unpleasant person. My nephew wins her over with serious ass kissing, calling her maganda. I just can’t do that. She’s gross both in personality and appearance.

Now with Christmas in full swing, the fam wants to get together. But with COVID still rampaging, they want gifts dropped off at the parents’ house. In better times, their house was the central family gathering place and they jealously hated anyone in the fam visiting with their inlaws during the holidays. Forced to share their own kids with others, they begrudgingly insist on all coming to their place.

Once there, there’s nothing to do but sit around, eat and watch TV. No meaningful dialogue with my parents were really had unless it ends up making somebody angry. Before COVID, that was the usual. In a way I’m glad I can’t be in their house and be physically around them. Both my parents are repulsive people.

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Why did one sister (C) have to get a restraining against another sister? (M)

Because M had become a threat to C’s safety and peace of mind.

M is a big ol’ fucking mess and refuses to see that she is in the wrong. M refuses to stop threatening and harassing C and her family.

So today the restraining order is in place. But M is going to keep pulling some stunts like calling social services falsely accusing C of elder abuse. C does the opposite for the parents. She makes sure they get the best care possible. M is not capable of that. She is however capable and guilty of elder abuse herself.

M might as well stand for MONSTER. Because that is just what she is.

December 9, 2020.

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Why is my sister (call her “C”) getting a restraining order against the sister ( “M”)?

In a prior post, I unloaded about M’s downfall from grace with US Bank.

M has been going through cycles of violent behavior and being barely OK for about 20 years, since being fired from US Bank.

8 years ago, our parents had a restraining order against M. She had been violent, vandalizing their home, attacking her nephew, threatening almost every other family member. They had enough. They got the restraining order and thus got M evicted from their house. Yes, she was living off of them at 40 years old. All attempts at reasoning, intervention, appeals for loved ones’ sake have failed. M’s a scary one. She can’t be reasoned with as she is hellbent on attacking and maybe murdering family. M can’t be trusted.

The retraining order only lasted 3 years. Ater its expiration she came back. So for about a year, she seemed changed. She stated she will never move back into the parents’ house. But over the past few years, the bulk of her belingings have found their way into the parents’ garage. Since M had rented a room with a sis n law, she would come over daily with her 2 poodle mixed dogs to shower, eat, bathe and feed her dogs. She does some things around the house for the parents. But, it was minimal. She wouldn’t clean up the mess she leaves in the batbroom.

All that would seem fine if M behaved herself and if there wasn’t a fucking pandemic.

C and her family now lives with the parents. C was renting a nice house, but due to some unfortunate circumstances, had to move out last year. C and her husband could not afford another place for the time being. So, our parents took them into their 5 bedroom home where they still reside.

As mentioned earlier M has been treating the same house as a storage and outhouse. M and C have clashed over M’s activiry at the parents’ home. This house is C and her fam’s residence now. It only got worse when the pandemic hit. M completely disregarded the COVID19 stay at home orders and safety precautions (ei. Social distancing, wearing a mask). C held her ground justifiably telling M that she cannot come over. They were fighting and it turned physical with M threatening C.

It seemed obvious to nearly all the family that M is a threat again to the elderly parents and this time to C as well. The parents are understandibly fearful of M and her violent outbursts. We as a family have tried intervention. It’s beyond the point of trying to reason with M. M seems to be evil, hateful, Violent, toxic, out of control. She now sees the rest of the immediate family as enemies.

The only viable option is to get a restraining order against M again. But out of guilt and fear, refuse to get another restraining order against M. So C has been trying for 2 months now with the help of a lawyer. M keeps evading the servers of the restaining orders. Finally, this week M got served.

The fam had collected letters and evidence of M’s misdeeds sealing the deal for the restraining order. I even wrote one in support of C against M.

I genuinely fear for C, my parents’, neices and nephews safety where M is concerned.

The virtual hearing is today in a few minutes.

Don’t know how this all will play out.

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Why would a large stable company not provide an employee with mental health support?

My sister worked for US Bank for a couple years. As far as I knew, she waa a good employee. Otherwise, she would not have advanced to the SBL department.

She had suffured through extreme endometriosis and resulting total hysterectomy. Losing the ability to bare children was a serious trauma for her. The hormonal imbalance had greatly affected her mental health. She also developed serious carpal tunel issues and had surgery to treat it. These health issues took her out of work for some time of course.

She came back to work different. She had suffered physically and mentally. There was no show of sympathy, empathy from coworkers. She was showing obvious signs of mental health issues (bipolar, depression).

But guess what my sister’s employer decided to do? US Bank rallied her coworkers against her. They had alienated her and then had her fired. No help. No fucks given. No trying to talk with her or counsel her. This big bank just wanted to dispose of an employee who was in need of mental health care. US Bank just tossed her aside.

If she had received the help she needed back then, just think of how different her life would be today.

So, how is she today? My sister is a drug addict. She’s doing crack and meth. She is angey at the world and strikes out at family. The family that for the longest time has been getting her to seek help, to get into rehab. She refuses. She fights. She attacks those who tell her she obviously needed help, needed to change.

Just so you’d know. My sister was nowhere this bad when she was working at US Bank.

She gave the best she could as an employee and they did not offer her even any guidance through her crisis. This institution failed my sister.

Thanks US Bank!

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Things that make you think...

A little food for thought from an American cousin -

This may open up a ton of outraged comments by some who will argue how "wrong" this post is. My suggestion, save your time and effort! You're not changing the reality of what we are living by trying to somehow justify this insanity. Nevertheless, I couldn't resist because we are becoming the Twilight Zone.

We have become a nation that has lost its collective mind!

• If a dude pretends to be a woman, you are required to pretend with him.

• Somehow it’s un-American for the census to count how many Americans are in America.

• Russians influencing our elections are bad, but illegals voting in our elections are good.

• It was cool for Joe Biden to "blackmail" the President of Ukraine, but it’s an impeachable offense if Donald Trump inquires about it.

• Twenty is too young to drink a beer, but eighteen is old enough to vote.

• People who have never owned slaves should pay slavery reparations to people who have never been slaves.

• Inflammatory rhetoric is outrageous, but harassing people in restaurants is virtuous.

• People who have never been to college should pay the debts of college students who took out huge loans for their degrees.

• Immigrants with tuberculosis and polio are welcome, but you’d better be able to prove your dog is vaccinated.

• Irish doctors and German engineers who want to migrate must go through a rigorous vetting process, but any illiterate gang-bangers who jump the southern fence are welcome.

• $5 billion for border security is too expensive, but $1.5 trillion for “free” health care is not.

• If you cheat to get into college you go to prison, but if you cheat to get into the country you go to college for free.

• People who say there is no such thing as a gender are demanding a female President.

• We see other countries going Socialist and collapsing, but it seems like a great plan to us.

• Some people are held responsible for things that happened before they were born, and other people are not held responsible for what they are doing right now.

• Criminals are catch-and-released to hurt more people, but stopping them is bad because it's a violation of THEIR rights.

• And pointing out all this hypocrisy somehow makes us "racists"?!

Nothing makes sense anymore, no values, no morals, no civility, and people are dying of a Chinese virus.

We are living in an upside-down world for sure.

For all the angry responders, I never engage or reply. So, save your energy. If you’ve bothered to read the blog in its entirety, you would know that I was copying a post that somebody else made. I never said I agreed with any of it. Just think. Believe it or not there are people in this world who actually think that way. Most simply keep it to themselves. The poster is just one of many who boldly state to the world exactly what they think and feel. Additionally, there is absolutely nothing you can do or say to sway them. They are entitled to their opinions and beliefs, just as you are. Nothing one can do about the other, but bitch about it.

Again, no fucks given for any replies or bitching about shit.

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Why can’t some idiots just STAY THE FUCK AT HOME???

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I have nothing against Kobe Bryant and it's sad that he and his daughter died in a helicopter crash with several other people, but, he was a SPORTS FIGURE. He made millions bouncing a basketball and through endorsement deals.

While I feel sad for his family or ANY family that loses family members to an accident, it just highlights the priorities of humanity that our military members, who actually risk their lives, mostly on foreign soil, and first responders, here at home, aren't memorialized/mourned to the same degree when they make the ultimate sacrifice to protect our country and our citizens, respectively.

Just my 2¢...

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Why is this a truck? Where is the truck bed?

Tesla unveils its Cybertruck, with a price starting at $39,900

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Uh, why do they think this will work?

Mutant sheep are being bred in lab to fight lethal child brain disease

…our sheep.”The Roslin scientists used the gene-editing technique Crispr-Cas9 to create the faulty CLN1 gene in the sheep. “We collected sheep embryos from the abattoir,” Wishart said. “Then we…

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Every fucking day since the elections, I keep asking “why this guy?”

Why?

It could be mass-apathy, or mass-insanity, willful ignorance, inherent racism of the 40%, who knows? It is stupid when you think about it. What do you expect? It is “Murica” after all.

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Why Does My Father Have Cancer???!!!!

When men get older (>50), they get regularly checked for prostate cancer.

Why in the fuck did it take soooo long tk diagnose my father’s prostate cancer???

They screen blood for the marker PSA levels. So, my dad started with inability to control his bladder. He was wetting the bed like fucking 3 years ago. But never mentioned that shit to his doctor!!!! It was alway other issues to keep on top of like asthma, diabetes and hypertension.

The doc doesn’t know until you fucking bring it up. Well, last year we did to his doc. Then his doc referred him to a urologist. Guess what?! They checked his kidneys and they where inlarged due ti the urine being held back. That was caused by the swollen prostate chocking off the flow out from the bladder.

Dad needed a catheter. That relieved the kidney stress. But we have a problem here- the prostate. They kept an eye on the PSA levels. Months ago they were certain it was cancer, because that’s the usual scenario for men my dad’s age. They said it could be a non agressive slow growing thing. We wanted him to get it removed. The uro doc wanted to keep an eye on his PSA levels and the size of the prostate.

Months ago, the uro doc grew comcerned about what he felt upon a rectal/prostate exam. He noted an increase in PSA levels. He recommended a biopsy. It took months to get to the point of a biopsy. Dad had 3 delays! He have repiratory issues, bacterial levels in urine, issues with taking prophylactic antibiotics.

So the biopsy (months after is was recommended) revealed it was malignant. (9 in 1-10 scale). They ordered scans and ultrasounds right away. Findings: stage 4, in his vertabra and ribs. Good news? None in the lungs, kidneys or other soft tissues.

Met with oncologists with treatment plan: reduce the hormones that enable the prostate to grow and chemo.

We could have gotten to this sooner had we not ignored Dad’s wetting the bed. That had been going on a few years before this.

God help us!!! God help my father!!!

We need prayers!!!

I am not religious. But I’ve read that prayers from as many people as possible can turn things around for the better. I’m unable to beg for prayers on Facebook, Instagram or Twitter. My dad wants to keep this quiet. Shit! If it were me, I would shout it out and ask all for prayers of healing!!!! Fuck the pride!!!! Fuck the shame of weakness or illness!!!

Fuck cancer!!!!!

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Why did people vote for this guy?

(cartoon by Matt Wuerker)

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Why don’t those old conservatives just shut up and wait to die.

(cartoon by Mike Peters)

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This lady is a local celebrity and pretty. But that husband of hers is one seriously fugly monkey. Yuck!!!

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I'm so fake. It's better that way. You wouldn't want to hear what I really thought of you. Most people are just plain stupid, but I'll play along with everybody else and flatter them.

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Why can't we kill daylight saving?

Losing sleep to this shit makes me homicidal